Your boyfriend needs to understand the difference between helping the average person and helping someone like this woman. She clearly has some serious issues and needs to see someone with actual training. What your boyfriend is doing is trying to save her but in this case he cannot do anything to help her, all that he can do is make things worse because she is growing dependent on him and in turn she is giving up any independence that she ever had.
He doesn't have to stop being her friend but he needs to stop being her support network and to stop being her therapist because he is vastly underqualified to do so.
There are some great resources out there for sexual assault victims as well as for people who are working to gain their own independence, she doesn't need to go to a psychologist, but she does need to get help.
He doesn't have to stop being her friend but he needs to stop being her support network and to stop being her therapist because he is vastly underqualified to do so.
There are some great resources out there for sexual assault victims as well as for people who are working to gain their own independence, she doesn't need to go to a psychologist, but she does need to get help.
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