Just what it says on the label, folks. Only a select few very close friends and family know this little fact about me. When I was younger, I figured I'd stay one for religious reasons, but since then I've been living WAY more 'secularly' and my personal morals are much less narrow than before. I'm much happier this way, and the reason I'm still a virgin now? Well, it just hasn't happened and I haven't met the right person, nothing more, nothing less.
My question is, though, on the off chance something does happen with someone soon, should I tell him? When? I have a friend from work that I've known for about two and a half years that I like very much. I trust him and I'm very comfortable with him. To put it plainly, I want to bed the guy, and he's very experienced. We're going out next weekend to someone's birthday party at a club and I'm his designated driver, so we'll more than likely be out until stupid o' clock in the morning and I'll end up staying at his place rather than drive home. We've shared a bed before so it's no big deal, but I'm seriously thinking of seizing the opportune moment, as it were. (I didn't try anything when I slept with him before because we were in a hotel room and his brother was in the next bed. I'm sure poor Teddy didn't want to be audience to that, haha)
I kind of think he might already suspect I've not really been around. But yeah, I don't want to get pounded to death or have him be surprised, so when should I come clean about my inexperience?
My question is, though, on the off chance something does happen with someone soon, should I tell him? When? I have a friend from work that I've known for about two and a half years that I like very much. I trust him and I'm very comfortable with him. To put it plainly, I want to bed the guy, and he's very experienced. We're going out next weekend to someone's birthday party at a club and I'm his designated driver, so we'll more than likely be out until stupid o' clock in the morning and I'll end up staying at his place rather than drive home. We've shared a bed before so it's no big deal, but I'm seriously thinking of seizing the opportune moment, as it were. (I didn't try anything when I slept with him before because we were in a hotel room and his brother was in the next bed. I'm sure poor Teddy didn't want to be audience to that, haha)
I kind of think he might already suspect I've not really been around. But yeah, I don't want to get pounded to death or have him be surprised, so when should I come clean about my inexperience?
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