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Quoth patiokitty View PostI have come across some gamer couples that work really well, just as it sounds like Maggie and her hubby do. But they seem to be few and far between...and the girl is usually interested in gaming before the relationship solidifies anyway.
Our group is actually more than 50% female, believe it or not. Hubby and the other two regularly gaming husbands make up the male population, with one more husband in the group who joins in occasionally. Then there's me, the wife of one of the regular husbands and the wife of the occasional gamer, and our last remaining single female gamer (my roommate from college, who helped me get into gaming). Hubby and I tend to be the primary GMs, with one of the other husbands and one of the other wives occasionally running when they have a game idea they want to do.
Quoth Sarlon View PostI've had good DM's, I've had OMGINCREDIBLE DM's, I've had DM's that I made excuses to leave after the first 2 sessions. I've also had DM's that are nothing but a contest to see how many bodies they can have piled up before the first break. (367 for the record)
the way *I* DM is I tend to give more XP for Roleplaying and thinking things through and trying to work things out, rather then go in and slaughter things needlessly.
As for our current group, since the DMs usually have a set story in mind, we don't hand out XP for the encounters as written in the rules (in D&D/Pathfinder). Instead, we hand out levels (or partial levels) at the end of the sessions, scaling things appropriately with the story in mind. So the party completes a dungeon I have planned, they gain a level. I usually scale things so they'll be around level 20 when the final session happens. World of Darkness and similar settings are a bit easier because you don't level up so much as just get stronger, and there it makes more sense to hand out bonus XP for good roleplaying. For D&D/Pathfinder, we just hand out extra action points instead (since we're using an action point system).
Quoth Kheldarson View PostSo question for the other female gamers here, since I'm trying to expand my character repertoire right now: How many of you have played a male character and any advice?
Quoth Panacea View PostI've written for the gaming industry, and a number of other female gamers have as well."Enough expository banter. It's time we fight like men. And ladies. And ladies who dress like men. For Gilgamesh...IT'S MORPHING TIME!"
- Gilgamesh, Final Fantasy V
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I gave up gaming with a group when I discovered computer RPG, then it segued into MMORPGs.
When Rob retires and we possibly move to an actual city we may take it up again, but probably not. Getting my gaming fix online is way better IMHO - I have a world of people to play with, at any hour day or night, any day of the week. I do not have to clean the house, make snacks, or listen to snarky girlfriends/boyfriends/pets. Nobody has to know my sex if I don't want them to, and if I am in a guild, we frequently have a voice chat program and I trust my group enough to not be hitting on me instead of killing the slimesnakes. I also do not have to pay attention to someone elses ammo/mana/munchies, it is automatically done and a lot less cheating.EVE Online: 99% of the time you sit around waiting for something to happen, but that 1% of action is what hooks people like crack, you don't get interviewed by the BBC for a WoW raid.
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Quoth ArcticChicken View PostWritten what, if you don't mind me asking?
Quoth Moirae View PostHave to say though, the only time I've ever met other female gamers is at Dragon Con. Can't wait till September, we're going again. My favorite time of year.
Damn, it's been too long since I've been to a convention. I need to go againThey say that God only gives us what we can handle. Apparently, God thinks I'm a bad ass.
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Quoth Kheldarson View PostSo question for the other female gamers here, since I'm trying to expand my character repertoire right now: How many of you have played a male character and any advice?
Before I stopped using this character, I was going to start having him develop a bit more of his true nature but the storyline I had been involved in suddenly died. This was one of my more favorite characters I've used, I'm thinking that if I ever RP again I'll use him. Hell, I still have his profile stored on my computer.
I haven't played any desktop RPG's in a long while, I tend to play more MMORPG's nowadays if possible. I'm hoping to be able to install NWN and it's expansions onto my current computer one day again, that was awesome and could easily build my own worlds with the tool builder. In fact this was the platform that I devloped a couple of character's with.Eh, one day I'll have something useful here. Until then, have a cookie or two.
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Arctic Chicken, I hear the new ShadowRun is better, from the numbers-guys in our group...
I too have never played with another girl Meh. The games are good!
Panacea... I am totally jealous of you. Not so much for the writing, but the other things you mentioned! (so cool...)
This is an awesome thread.
EDIT: advice on playing male characters... I actually researched this, and transgender information helped. From pop-chart books to actual scholarly articles, I managed to get nuances that simply observing dudes in nature (ie my friends) didn't net me. I have to research the crap out of things before I can enact even small parts of it, like an iceberg/tip situation. I've only tried once to play a guy, and it didn't turn out well, mostly 'cuz I was a newb to gaming. Most of my characters turned out poorly (like... 5 out of the 10 I've had, I'll have to figure it out!). Granted, 3 of those characters have lasted more than a year and a half (60+sessions!), but still. One only lasted 2! (Not my fault, we broke the game-- CRIT FAIL. Even Scott was impressed.)Last edited by teh_blumchenkinder; 05-28-2011, 06:23 AM."Is it the lie that keeps you sane? Is this the lie that keeps you sane?What is it?Can it be?Ought it to exist?"
"...and may it be that I cleave to the ugly truth, rather than the beautiful lie..."
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I just got into d&d for the first time about a month before i moved away from houston. Now i am in the southern tip o texas and cannot find ANYONE TO PLAY! Wish i lived closer to you...~LSTYD~
Quote: Dalesys:
you may want to take a census of your brain squirrels... maybe one escaped?
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Quoth Sarlon View Postthe way *I* DM is I tend to give more XP for Roleplaying and thinking things through and trying to work things out, rather then go in and slaughter things needlessly.
Levels did go up faster but the games were better when people realized what was going on (they learned quickly, by the third session of this we had a great RPG).
I know of one other D&D person in my area - he's into it and is jealous of my 5th edition boxed set (from the early 70's?). I'd love to get a good Spelljammer (don't knock it until you're REALLY played it) campaign going again.Quote Dalesys:
... as in "Ifn thet dawg comes at me, Ima gonna shutz ma panz!"
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Sunday is a difficult day for getting people to commit.
My husband is part of a gaming group that meets Sundays, and he's always having to cancel due to family events. If anything else is going on in our lives, it's on a Sunday.
Maybe you'd have better luck trying for a night in the middle of the week?
If you have to ask, it's probably better posted at www.fratching.com
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I would love, love, love to find a group. To actually play instead of running the game. For 20+ years, I've always run the groups..and to me my material is getting stale. Despite having untold number of whole galaxies, solar systems, and worlds completely mapped out...I get the BTDT syndrome. Need to actually play as a player for a bit . Skype, here, phone, whatever.Engaged to the amazing Marmalady. She is my Silver Dragon, shining as bright as the sun. I her Black Dragon (though good honestly), dark as night..fierce and strong.
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Quoth teh_blumchenkinder View PostI've only tried once to play a guy, and it didn't turn out well, mostly 'cuz I was a newb to gaming."Enough expository banter. It's time we fight like men. And ladies. And ladies who dress like men. For Gilgamesh...IT'S MORPHING TIME!"
- Gilgamesh, Final Fantasy V
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Quoth Kogarashi View PostI would suspect having a background in story writing helps somewhat. I've played a couple guys in my roleplaying career, and even once had the players forgetting that I personally wasn't a guy. But then I used to write fiction prolifically and spent a lot of time trying to get into the heads of my male characters. Same for my female friend who roleplays guys more often than I do.
/Monstrous RegimentI am not an a**hole. I am a hemorrhoid. I irritate a**holes!
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I don't play myself, but as the wife of a gamer, I'd much rather he do Friday nights than Sunday afternoons. I can easily make plans with friends on Friday nights to keep myself busy. I wouldn't care if he was out until 4 am.
I just think of Sundays as "family time", you know?
If you have to ask, it's probably better posted at www.fratching.com
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I might have mentioned this before, but my group and I play on Wednesdays and Thursdays. It used to be Tuesdays, then we added another game on Thursday (after I left my Thursday commitment) and Wednesdays have been around for a while. We dodge around Belegarth for one, work for another, school (most of us are graduated/out now), and Fridays/Saturdays/Sundays are party/family nights for at least two of us-- and worknights now for another! Only one of us works '9-5 M-F.' Thus we now play on Thursdays and Wednesdays."Is it the lie that keeps you sane? Is this the lie that keeps you sane?What is it?Can it be?Ought it to exist?"
"...and may it be that I cleave to the ugly truth, rather than the beautiful lie..."
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