My brother is getting married. I generally like the bride, even if she can be a bit dramatic.
Today we went wedding and bridesmaid dress shopping. The wedding is a year away, so smart planning on her part.
We found the perfect bridal dress (I made sure not to take any pics of it)
And the perfect bridesmaid dress pics
I asked permission to post the pic of me in the bridesmaid dress as long as the bride's dress wasn't revealed in anyway. I do remember her saying yes, so we take it and I post it a few hours later.
I get messages and texts from her saying how she is upset that I did that and how she wanted it ALL a surprise until wedding day.
I texted her back, apologized profusely and explained I truly thought she said yes it was okay. She replied how she asked another bridesmaid to back her up saying she said no, but ignores me calling and makes my brother answer it. I deleted it and tried to do some damage control but she isn't responding.
I can't help but feel two things.
1. That I will be kicked from the wedding party for this
and 2. That this is one of the stupidest things to get upset over. I never heard of people getting upset over the mere bridesmaid dresses not being a surprise. The's bride's gown? Sure. I am ALWAYS extra careful with that. I'm not an asshole.
But the thing is, there is already a lot of strain between her and our father, and her and my brother's aunt (he is my half-brother)
...I really think this is an immature thing to get upset over, wedding-party wise. I'm in my early 20's, though, so not the best judge of maturity...but she also mid-to-late 30's...
I understand if I misheard and that I could be in the wrong for that alone, but I really want to fix this with the least drama. Help.
Today we went wedding and bridesmaid dress shopping. The wedding is a year away, so smart planning on her part.
We found the perfect bridal dress (I made sure not to take any pics of it)
And the perfect bridesmaid dress pics
I asked permission to post the pic of me in the bridesmaid dress as long as the bride's dress wasn't revealed in anyway. I do remember her saying yes, so we take it and I post it a few hours later.
I get messages and texts from her saying how she is upset that I did that and how she wanted it ALL a surprise until wedding day.
I texted her back, apologized profusely and explained I truly thought she said yes it was okay. She replied how she asked another bridesmaid to back her up saying she said no, but ignores me calling and makes my brother answer it. I deleted it and tried to do some damage control but she isn't responding.
I can't help but feel two things.
1. That I will be kicked from the wedding party for this
and 2. That this is one of the stupidest things to get upset over. I never heard of people getting upset over the mere bridesmaid dresses not being a surprise. The's bride's gown? Sure. I am ALWAYS extra careful with that. I'm not an asshole.
But the thing is, there is already a lot of strain between her and our father, and her and my brother's aunt (he is my half-brother)
...I really think this is an immature thing to get upset over, wedding-party wise. I'm in my early 20's, though, so not the best judge of maturity...but she also mid-to-late 30's...
I understand if I misheard and that I could be in the wrong for that alone, but I really want to fix this with the least drama. Help.
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