Ok, it's the end of the school year. In two weeks, I'll never see the guy again. But I have a moral issue that I still have trouble with: how he treats his girlfriend/fiance/whatever they currently are.
He basically just verbally abuses her all the time. Every time he is talking to her on the phone, he's calls her stupid, tells her to "Shut the fuck up", dumbass, etc. etc. Apparently, he told her to call him around a certain time today, and she called mad late, because she was at work or something. So he berated her on the phone, calling her stupid, lazy. Told her he's no longer going to visit her tonight. And this is typical of what always happens. He just yells and yells at her. Loudly. My neighbor, a RA on my dorm's floor, can hear it, but she never says anything. One of the last times his girlfriend was actually over, I was out. I later found out he got so loud while yelling at her that multiple people called Public Safety (campus police) and my RA told him to shut up and wrote him up (a.k.a. slap on the wrist that is laughable).
So yea, I feel bad for her for putting up with it. It sounds like they've been together for a few years, and she likes him enough to get engaged to him, but still, I don't think anyone should put up with that kind of abuse. What should I do?
He basically just verbally abuses her all the time. Every time he is talking to her on the phone, he's calls her stupid, tells her to "Shut the fuck up", dumbass, etc. etc. Apparently, he told her to call him around a certain time today, and she called mad late, because she was at work or something. So he berated her on the phone, calling her stupid, lazy. Told her he's no longer going to visit her tonight. And this is typical of what always happens. He just yells and yells at her. Loudly. My neighbor, a RA on my dorm's floor, can hear it, but she never says anything. One of the last times his girlfriend was actually over, I was out. I later found out he got so loud while yelling at her that multiple people called Public Safety (campus police) and my RA told him to shut up and wrote him up (a.k.a. slap on the wrist that is laughable).
So yea, I feel bad for her for putting up with it. It sounds like they've been together for a few years, and she likes him enough to get engaged to him, but still, I don't think anyone should put up with that kind of abuse. What should I do?
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