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  • Sitting on the side of the road screaming.

    Sometimes everything that is going badly in your life merges together into a perfect {blank} storm. Last night was one of those nights for me.

    Things you should know before I start my story:
    1) My university is at the top of a very large hill. The whole city is very mountainous so getting around is really hard on the legs. Especially as most of the stores at either on Main Street (the bottom of the city), or are much higher up than the school.

    2) I haven't received my student loan for this semester yet. This means that if I want to buy things like food, I have to call home and ask my dad for money. I don't really like doing this, as things are tight back home. So I usually have very little to no money. That means no cash for cabs. Also, because I had no money all semester while I was waiting for my student loan, my cell phone has been suspended.

    3) My dad sent me a grocery store gift card for easter. This is not a bad thing. But it means that I can only grocery shop at one store, which is on Main St.

    4) Buses here don't run after 7pm. Even if they did, I have now money for bus fare.

    Now let us begin:
    Last night I decided to head down the grocery store and pick up some stuff. I'm going home next week, so I really only needed to grab milk and juice. As I was walking down the hill, I noticed my right calf felt a little tight. I shrugged this off, however, as I was completely out of liquids and didn't want to have to walk back empty handed. I was already partly down the hill, and didn't want to have to attempt the trip another night.

    So I get down to the grocery store just as it is about to close. (It takes a while to get down the hill.) I grab my groceries, then stop at Tim Horton's for a hot chocolate. As I'm walking up the hill, my leg starts to sting a little. I stop once or twice, but always keep going. In front of a church, I stumble. Now the stinging in my leg is an all out pain. I sit down on a step in front of the church. I decide to just sit, enjoy my hot chocolate, and wait for the pain to pass.

    Except it does not pass.

    The pain in my leg starts to become very hard to stand, and I can't seem to get up. It's snowing, and actually pretty cold. I get nervous. What am I supposed to do? I can't call anyone because I didn't see any point in carrying a cell phone I can't use with me. So I do the only thing I can, start screaming at cars for help. No one stops, and I get more scared.

    Because of the cold weather, there is no one walking down the street. So all I can do is call out. Still, no one stops. Part of my brain reasons that maybe they can't here me. Perhaps I just look like I'm sitting down taking a break. Maybe they think I'm a hitchhiker or a vagrant. Still, I'm a little surprised no one helps me. Not even the police stop when they pass me. Eventually, the pain dulls enough that I can get up and walk back down to Tim Horton's. There, a woman offers to give me a drive.

    Once I get back to school, Security and an RA help me back to my room. I put my groceries away, and think the whole ordeal is over. It took me a long while to get to sleep because of the pain.

    Then this morning I get a call from security. It turns out that in the middle of all the craziness last night, I had dropped my wallet. A woman who works at the grocery store had found it in front of the church and was holding it there for me. So I called asking if she could run it up to the school, because I'm injured and completely unable to walk down to the store and back. She informs me that she walks everywhere, so she can't take it up to the school.

    Luckily for me, I found one of the girls on my floor has a car. I've asked her to drive me down to the store. She says she will take me sometime before 3pm, which is when the woman who found my wallet will get off work.

    So I'm sitting here, half-awake, and in pain waiting for that knock on my door. I'll tell you how this all ends once I get back.
    Hinakiba777- Student of Divinity-Always trying to get laid.

    Annoying student=I pay tuition here so I pay your salary!
    Desk Worker=I pay tuition here, too. So I guess I pay myself.

  • #2
    *offers hugs and an elastic bandage*

    I'm sorry.
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    • #3
      *gentle hugs*

      Sending you happy thoughts!!!
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      • #4
        I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope your leg feels better!
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        • #5
          I'm so glad that someone was able to get it for you! Hope you get better!

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          • #6
            Im so sorry. Im glad that you at least will get your wallet back.

            Are you going to get your leg looked at?

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            • #7
              Not so many moons ago, I was a ballet dancer. Due to pointe work, I would sometimes get horrible, delbilitating cramps in my calves. I also had my inner thigh muscles lock up more than once. I'm glad you're getting checked out, and here's some other stuff that helped me:

              --Stretching. Hiking up and down that hill keeps your calf muscles in a near constant state of contratction. Gently stretch them out so they will relax.

              --Make sure you drink enough water to keep those muscle fibers lubricated.

              --Be conscious of how much potassium you're getting. Muscles need postassium to function properly. Baked potatoes with the skin are great sources of potassium and so are bananas and many other fruits and veggies.

              --Run your thumb down your calf and see if you can feel any knots. You'll know them if you find them. Sometimes the knots can be really deep. I used to either roll my calf on a tennis ball or used a massager to get them to release.

              Good luck!
              I am no longer of capable of the emotion you humans call “compassion”. Though I can feign it in exchange for an hourly wage. (Gravekeeper)

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              • #8
                That's for the hugs everybody. ^-^ It's good to remember not everyone in the world is a jerk.

                And Jedimaster, I will remember to take your advice.
                Hinakiba777- Student of Divinity-Always trying to get laid.

                Annoying student=I pay tuition here so I pay your salary!
                Desk Worker=I pay tuition here, too. So I guess I pay myself.

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                • #9
                  Do so. It sounds to me like you might have a trigger point, which is a very specialised kind of muscle knot. Fortunately VERY gentle stretches, heat, and especially massage will gradually release a trigger point

                  I don't have anything to add to Jedimaster's advice except the specifics of locating and massaging a trigger point:

                  Give the muscle a massage, noting where it's sore. If you find a sore patch, poke it gently, then gradually deeper and deeper. If you find a place where touching it is amazingly-more-sore than the rest, then you've found a trigger point.

                  Unfortunately, the only ways to get rid of a trigger point all involve touching it. The expensive solutions involve a doctor touching it, but there's a free one. You, or a trustworthy friend, massage it.

                  Use a small knobby bit on a handheld massager, a small ball, your knuckles, your elbow... something like that. Press on the trigger point, stroke along the length of the muscle, lift so that you're still touching the skin, return to the start, repeat.

                  Aim for as much pressure as the patient can find sort-of-a-bit-pleasant. If possible, the patient should be able to relax into the pain. You should definitely avoid the level where the patient is trying to attack the masseur!
                  Do as many repetitions as the patient can tolerate, but stop when the patient starts to tire.

                  Continue the massages until you can no longer find the trigger point at all, even when you really, really look for it and prod the muscle and give the muscle a thorough massage.

                  Note that people rarely have one trigger point. If you have one, you probably have more developing!
                  Seshat's self-help guide:
                  1. Would you rather be right, or get the result you want?
                  2. If you're consistently getting results you don't want, change what you do.
                  3. Deal with the situation you have now, however it occurred.
                  4. Accept the consequences of your decisions.

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                  • #10
                    Jedi's right on the button with advice, and so is Seshat.

                    I once got a calf-knot out of someone..by heat.

                    He had been skiing, and somehow his calf got a kink in it.. I could see the bulging muscle and it LOOKED unhappy.

                    You might shake your head at me, but this is what I did:
                    Had him lay down on his tummy
                    I put my hands together and told them to get HOT.
                    Rubbed my hands and pushed all the heat I could muster to the hands.
                    I layed my hands on his calf and told it to come to me. (sounds hinky, I know)
                    I could FEEL it twitching and starting to unwind.
                    Put my hands back together and told them to heat up again.
                    Put my hands on his leg...and SNAP the thing let go.

                    He kept asking me how I did it. I don't know. But my leg hurt right after his got happy.

                    So, for you? Water, banana, HOT heat pack thingy on your leg. And SIT, Missy!

                    Cutenoob
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                    • #11
                      so...how did the story end? does your leg still hurt? didja get your wallet back? is there a happily ever after?
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                      • #12
                        My leg feels fine now, though I think I'll avoid leaving campus. I'm a little worried about moving out next Tuesday and Wednesday, as I will be doing all the heavy lifting.

                        But yeah, I got my wallet back and all is okay on that front. Thanks again for the advice.
                        Hinakiba777- Student of Divinity-Always trying to get laid.

                        Annoying student=I pay tuition here so I pay your salary!
                        Desk Worker=I pay tuition here, too. So I guess I pay myself.

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