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  • The summer of Jaws

    Since losing my wonderful...erm... since losing my job in November, I scrambled around and got a summer camp job.

    Welcome to the summer of Jaws.

    I'm in charge of a classroom of 2-3yr olds. Most of them are mildly adorable, snot-nosed little buggers. One spoke not a single word of English, but she was damn cute.

    One child obviously had some problems. He was non-verbal, trouble focusing, and resorted to violence as soon as things weren't his way. On my second week of work, he toddled up behind me and bit me, vampire style!!!

    We (me and my two coworkers in the classroom) reported this to his grandfather who came to pick him up. He sighs and tells us yes, it's a problem, but his parents refuse to get him any help.

    Little Jaws gets worse. He bites his friends and us over and over. One day I got three chomps in a row! We beg our boss to talk to the parents, to do something, anything! The parents keep refusing to do anything. They pick him up and RUN from the classroom before we can beg and plead with them to find Jaws some help.

    One day, we practically corner the lady. She goes "There is nothing wrong with Jaws. He hasn't been vaccinated yet! There can't be anything wrong with him!"

    We have sprinkler days, Jaws and grandpa come in late one morning ad we have to change him into his bathing suit. He smells HORRID and I notice white gunk in his hair. Turns out, it's mold! Mommy and Daddy find bathing him too difficult, so they don't, says grandpa. Feeding him is also impossible, so they leave a bowl on bench for him!

    Jaw's story ends with a glimmer of hope, I guess. An anonymous CPS tip had him removed from our program. The students had a total of 45 bites between all 18 of them, and I walked out with almost 20 myself!


    Side story: We had two unpottytrained kids. Jaws, and A. Since the program was only 9-12, we decided to change them both around 11, since that was well after 9:30 snack time. A's mother starts to complain that A comes home with a soiled diaper. We explain we change him. She demands we change him at LEAST three times, with proof.

    With proof?

    She wants to see A's soiled diapers now. Eurgh. Oh, and we have to bring A to our director to make sure his bottom is 'clean' after each changing, and to see the soiled diaper.

    Director complies to this, I have to carry wet or full diapers to her office almost every hour, then keep them in baggies off to the side so A's mother can see it. Most of the times they were dry, but sometimes we'd have very full, very smelly diapers, sitting on a shelf in the room. Can we say gross?
    You seem to harbor barbaric tendencies. I suggest you visit a physician at your earliest convenience.

  • #2
    Seriously? I would yank my child immediately from any program that allowed a little monster like Jaws to run wild and repeatedly assault my child (I'm not blaming you, but the administration).

    I've heard of children being kicked out of day cares and preschools for similar offenses. Why couldn't they expel him from camp as well?

    I hope the poor kid gets the help he needs, his parents are obviously too lazy and self-absorbed to take care of him.

    As for diaper lady, what a freak.
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    • #3
      Mold in his hair and and a bowl of food left out like he's a dog.
      and they wonder why he bites.

      for calling the authorities on them.

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      • #4
        Wow... poor Jaws. If he broke skin on anyone, I hope they have gotten vaccinations. I can't imagine if he has mold on his hair what other horrid disease he could be spreading around. The parents need to go to jail, period.
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        • #5
          Ana - I think the problem here is that, in the mother's own words, "There is nothing wrong with Jaws" >_< Also, is it just me, or does the Mom's next line not imply that she thinks vaccinations CAUSE some sort of serious problem, rather than prevent them, as they are intended to do? (I mean, other than normal side effects from meds or bad reactions). How did he get into the program without childhood vaccinations anyway? o_O Not that BuggedMel could have done anything about that anyway >_>

          Tho Mel, was this recent? While it may be anecdotal, I've always heard that human bites are potentially MORE dangerous (in terms of infections) than those from many animals. For a non-vaccinated kid, this goes double.

          Oh, and MOLD?! O_O Good on *ahem* whoever dropped a dime for calling CPC. This kid needs/-ed proper care that his parents weren't giving him. I thought the diaper thing was bad enough. Probably not legal, either; might wanna suggest that yer boss look up the local laws on that sort of thing.
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          • #6
            Quoth EricKei View Post
            Ana - I think the problem here is that, in the mother's own words, "There is nothing wrong with Jaws" >_< Also, is it just me, or does the Mom's next line not imply that she thinks vaccinations CAUSE some sort of serious problem, rather than prevent them, as they are intended to do? (I mean, other than normal side effects from meds or bad reactions). How did he get into the program without childhood vaccinations anyway? o_O Not that BuggedMel could have done anything about that anyway >_>

            Tho Mel, was this recent? While it may be anecdotal, I've always heard that human bites are potentially MORE dangerous (in terms of infections) than those from many animals. For a non-vaccinated kid, this goes double.

            Oh, and MOLD?! O_O Good on *ahem* whoever dropped a dime for calling CPC. This kid needs/-ed proper care that his parents weren't giving him. I thought the diaper thing was bad enough. Probably not legal, either; might wanna suggest that yer boss look up the local laws on that sort of thing.
            We're not allowed to say the, apparently, dreaded "autistic" word to parents. We can only suggest they get checked out because we notice a developmental difference between the child and their peers. She had been told this many, many times by many different teachers in this camp (daycare during the school year), but refused any and all (FREE) help.

            I think the main problem was that the center I was working at is VERY soaked in the community spirit. Everyone knew everyone, rules were broken left and right. As an outsider, the whole camp was horrific to me. Food was served without gloves ffs. Ugh. So, the kid got in pretty much because mom knew mom who knew mom who is best friends with the director. And which is also why this kid made it to three years old being completely non-verbal and totally behind, developmentally, his peers.

            He never broke the skin while biting, I was nervous as hell that he would.

            I really hope he's getting help now. The day before... some outsider... called CPS I learned that Jaws beat the family dog, and mom was expecting a new baby!
            You seem to harbor barbaric tendencies. I suggest you visit a physician at your earliest convenience.

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            • #7
              I learned that Jaws beat the family dog, and mom was expecting a new baby!
              This is horrible. And sad.
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              • #8
                Poor kid.

                Glad to see that he's getting some help now, rather than being treated the way he was. this is probably going to be one of the hardest things I'll have to deal with when I start teaching (kids with behavioural issues)

                From what you've described, it sounds like Jaws may have been using the biting as a method of communication since you mentioned he was non-verbal. Still doesn't make it OK, but sometimes it helps to get to the root cause of the behaviour before anything can be done.
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                • #9
                  Quoth BuggedMei View Post
                  I really hope he's getting help now. The day before... some outsider... called CPS I learned that Jaws beat the family dog, and mom was expecting a new baby!
                  I hope he's getting help too. If he beats the dog, the dog is likely to defend itself, and get euthanized because it "without provocation" bit "poor innocent Jaws who never did anything wrong".
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                  • #10
                    I could barely manage to read that. Whomever called C. P. S. should be congratulated. Those parents belong on leashes, locked in a kennel!
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                    • #11
                      Poor child... to not be treated with the care that anyone would deserve. It does not sound like his parents are ready to be parents, and if that's their reaction, I hope that the CPC keeps an eye on them...
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                      • #12
                        Quoth fireheart View Post
                        Poor kid.

                        Glad to see that he's getting some help now, rather than being treated the way he was. this is probably going to be one of the hardest things I'll have to deal with when I start teaching (kids with behavioural issues)

                        From what you've described, it sounds like Jaws may have been using the biting as a method of communication since you mentioned he was non-verbal. Still doesn't make it OK, but sometimes it helps to get to the root cause of the behaviour before anything can be done.
                        It was so incredibly clear Jaws had problems, but I'm just so poorly trained currently in best ways to redirect him properly. I tried chasing him around with pictures of things he might want so he could point, or teaching him some simple signs I knew (more, I want, snack, juice), but since I couldn't enforce anything, it just never took.

                        I'm in a Intro to Special Ed class right now in school and I always think of Jaws and hope he's getting the care he really needs.
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                        • #13
                          It's not yer fault. If you're anything short of the place's GM or a Specialist they hired, there's no way you could have reasonably been expected to deal with all of this little guy's issues.

                          I'm glad he's gonna get help, too ^_^ With any luck, they will be able to get through to the Mom as well and help her to help her kiddles.
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