Ugh. Work or clean my house.

[Pimento]

Also in situations like the last few days. Something popped in my lower back. It hurts. I'm not the kind of guy to run to the er or complain about it really. Took a few days off of work. Trying to lay in bed.

I texted her I hurt my back. Suddenly she hurt her finger when she let the dogs out. I've been doing shit with the dogs (ones 60 lbs ones 80. Pitbull Shepard mastiff pups) so tugging while I put them on their leads outside sucks.

I've been grocery shopping which sucks. Add to that a lowered car. Sucks way worse.

The pain has doubled and traveled down to my legs. Gonna go jam tomm just to avoid the guilt trip for wanting to be in bed. At least drumming isn't as hard on me as she is lol.

[Pimento]

Well for legal reasons I can't mention too much. But needless to say the wife makes odd bird of cash here and there. She expects me to dump money from work and business (my business requires me to keep a certain amount of money to cover expenses) and she always complains until I spend my buffer money.

Then she'll want new shoes or something and complains when I need the money she's brought in for the business. If that makes sense.

[Aethian]

Okay so dates are good.

What about finances, do you two work on them together so that you both have full vision of whats going on?

[Pimento]

Well since we have two kids. Each of them from past relationships. I ask her out every weekend they're at the other parents place. She'd rather buy some booze and hang out at home. Hell. This past weekend I stayed up until 6am with her one day singing songs on YouTube. Not something I really ever do lol. But it was great

[Aethian]

When was the last time you took her out on a date? Even a cheap one...

[Pimento]

No. We communicate. Some days she's just a different person. Or she'll do the housework for a week with a big smile then if I don't throw a parade shell list everything and argue with me about how I don't contribute

[Aethian]

Maybe I'm just seeing this wrong but it looks like there isn't a good bit of communication going on. Could she be stressed over something that she hasn't been telling you? Like has something in your lives been fully placed on her shoulders and it should be something that should be shared?

[Pimento]

I dunno. It's up and down. She has hormonal issues so that sucks sometimes. But it seems every time I get hurt she gets hurt. And her mom is the biggest hypochondriac ever.

So I dunno. I work my ass off between my regular job and other stuff I do to bring in cash. Prolly almost 80 hours a week. So when I'm hurt I'd just like to relax.

[Pixilated]

This sounds very not good ... have you two been able to sit down and talk about the situation? Any chance you'd both consider marriage counselling?

[Pimento]

Today I hate my wife. Had to call in for the night cause I destroyed my back.


Getting yelled at to do laundry and let dogs out .etc is not really what I need.

Honestly there's days where she's the greatest woman in the world. But we're having more days like today where she decides to pick a fight over everything.

When we moved into the house the agreement was shed get a job. She had one for 2 months. Hasn't had one since.

I'm beginning to consider taking off. I was in a band when she married me. Now she flips out when I'm gone 2-3 times a week at night to jam. Honestly. I hate the bitch today lol.