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People constantly respond to my actions with, "You're weird/strange/bizarre/whatever." My auto response now? "Yeah... and? 'Taint news, love it anyway."
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Quoth HawaiianShirts View PostRamblin' Man speaks: "You need to get a job!" Then he laughs, and walks away.
If he considers talking to someone serving him to be almost like a friendly conversation, and he lacks opportunities for conversation, he could genuinely be a bit jealous watching you answering questions at work.
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Quoth Sorianna View PostSo this guy again stops in the middle of the steet and shouts out the window "You're fat!" I look at him, confused, than continue on my way. He follows me down the street and says "Hey, I said you're fat!". I laugh out loud, 'cause, what the hell? And he eventually drives off.
I'm at a loss to see how that is meant to embarrass us.
I'm fat. I know this - nobody calling me fat is causing me a hideously traumatic new revelation. What's more everyone else knows I'm fat too - anyone who glanced at me for 2 seconds will have noticed, I'm not going to be embarrassed that they've suddenly discovered my secret.
I've come to the conclusion that these jerks are doing us a favour.
I'm fat. It's one of the most negative things about me - and one of the most visible. I'm smart, and I work hard, and I help people at home and at work, and I'm good to my family, kind to small animals, have an evil but silly sense of humour... (I'm not modest but you don't get to be when people think it's all right to revile you in the street). Nobody can see that, but they all notice I'm fat.
But these jerks have something much worse - and all they have to hide their negative aspect is to keep their mouths shut. Every time they open them they let on that they are inconsiderate, cruel, unimaginative, nasty jerks.
So - anyone who wants to call me fat is welcome to. I consider it a public service - to warn everyone what they are like, and let them humiliate themselves.
Best of all it doesn't upset me. The only people whose opinion I care about is my doctors, and the opinions of those who love me. Not jerks.
Victoria J
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Quoth Sorianna View PostSo this guy again stops in the middle of the steet and shouts out the window "You're fat!" I look at him, confused, than continue on my way. He follows me down the street and says "Hey, I said you're fat!". I laugh out loud, 'cause, what the hell? And he eventually drives off.
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Quoth Sorianna View Post
Next one is even better. Same situation, same road. Different car (fancy red sports car) and different people (a guy and his girlfriend, I assume). Now, I'll admit, I'm overweight. I'm not really ashamed. Sure, I need to lose weight, I'm not as healthy as I'd like to be. But I'm not morbidly obese or anything.
So this guy again stops in the middle of the steet and shouts out the window "You're fat!" I look at him, confused, than continue on my way. He follows me down the street and says "Hey, I said you're fat!". I laugh out loud, 'cause, what the hell? And he eventually drives off.
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Quoth Sorianna View PostSorry, I know it's a little off-topic, but this made me think of the random sentances people shout (almost always out the windows of I-have-a-small-penis-but-can't-admit-it cars) at me.
One time I was riding my relatively nice bike down the sidewalk (I don't really wanna get run over, and there are crazy drivers here. Also, I'm slow and don't wanna slow down traffic or anything. So sidewalk it is.), dressed, if not fancily, than nicely. Some jerk in a huge dark blue SUV filled with similarly-minded idiots stops in the middle of the road, rolls down his window, and shouts "Get a job, bitch!" out the window at me. No one else around, has to be me, and I've never met him. I guess the car wasn't enough to inflate his penis? His friends giggle, I look at him like and continue on my merry way, mildly confused.
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Quoth thehippie777 View PostSo alls I could think is he is one of those people who have little to no social skill. Ya know the type, make a "joke" that apparently only they thought to be funny. You are his only friend other then his mom. I weep for you.
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Sorry, I know it's a little off-topic, but this made me think of the random sentances people shout (almost always out the windows of I-have-a-small-penis-but-can't-admit-it cars) at me.
One time I was riding my relatively nice bike down the sidewalk (I don't really wanna get run over, and there are crazy drivers here. Also, I'm slow and don't wanna slow down traffic or anything. So sidewalk it is.), dressed, if not fancily, than nicely. Some jerk in a huge dark blue SUV filled with similarly-minded idiots stops in the middle of the road, rolls down his window, and shouts "Get a job, bitch!" out the window at me. No one else around, has to be me, and I've never met him. I guess the car wasn't enough to inflate his penis? His friends giggle, I look at him like and continue on my merry way, mildly confused.
Next one is even better. Same situation, same road. Different car (fancy red sports car) and different people (a guy and his girlfriend, I assume). Now, I'll admit, I'm overweight. I'm not really ashamed. Sure, I need to lose weight, I'm not as healthy as I'd like to be. But I'm not morbidly obese or anything.
So this guy again stops in the middle of the steet and shouts out the window "You're fat!" I look at him, confused, than continue on my way. He follows me down the street and says "Hey, I said you're fat!". I laugh out loud, 'cause, what the hell? And he eventually drives off.
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So alls I could think is he is one of those people who have little to no social skill. Ya know the type, make a "joke" that apparently only they thought to be funny. You are his only friend other then his mom. I weep for you.
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Quoth HawaiianShirts View PostRamblin' Man speaks: "You need to get a job!" Then he laughs, and walks away.
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The Return of Ramblin' Man; or, A New Twist on "Do You Work Here?"
A regular customer made my brain reboot itself today.
[back story]
Once upon a time, before cs.com went down due to some kind of hack, I posted a story about Ramblin' Man. He comes into my store quite regularly. He can talk for-ev-er. I know I just posted about a guy who had to ask his entire question before hearing any response I made, but Ramblin' Man is different. He understands the social cues that mean "I know what you're saying." He just doesn't understand the social cue that means "I don't want to talk to you any more" or the similar one that means "I'm walking away and ignoring you."
Ramblin' Man spent a great deal of time with me once, babbling about computer stuff, how smart he is, how tech savvy he is, how tech savvy his mom is not, how he still lives in her basement and just bought her old car, what kind of monitor and computer and graphic card he wanted, what DVDs he owns, how his girlfriend just dumped him and stole half of his DVDs, all the stuff he downloads from LimeWire, and on and on and on. He bought nothing.
A few months later, he came in with his mom and convinced her to buy him a new computer package. It was about $2000. He told her he "needed" it all. I didn't have to help him that day, but one of my co-workers must have spent over an hour with him. And I overheard the part of the conversation where he detoured from graphic card options to the synopsis of his favorite Babylon 5 episode.
I've seen him in the store a few times since then, but not much. He's usually just looking at movies or video games, and I try to avoid him. I can usually succeed, but, I guess since I spent so much time with him before, he now thinks I'm his friend. If he catches me, I'll be polite and helpful like a good little employee, but I'll find an excuse to disappear into the stockroom as soon as I can and work back there until I figure he's gone.
[/back story]
Now that you understand all that, perhaps you'll understand one of the reasons why I made a WTF face today.
I'm talking with a nice couple about a computer for the husband's parents. Suddenly, I spot Ramblin' Man. I cringe, hoping he doesn't try to pull me away from this couple for a "quick question." Ramblin' Man spots me, smiles, and starts walking down the aisle toward me.
I'm doomed.
Ramblin' Man speaks: "You need to get a job!" Then he laughs, and walks away.
Me: ... ?
Brain Error. (A)bort, (R)etry, (F)ail?
The customers were a little confused, too, and they laughed about it. After all, I was at work, in my uniform, and working, and it was obvious that I did, in fact, have a job.
What really threw me for a loop, though, was that he spoke one sentence. Just one! That was it! And then he was gone! Not that I'm complaining or anything; it just was not at all what I expected.
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