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Knightmare
04-05-2007, 02:28 AM
I had Emily yesterday. Picked her up in the morning at Gramma's house. We get into the Family Truckster and start driving.
Me: "So... what are we doing to do today, Emily?"
Em: "Hmm..." while tapping her finger in her chin. "Hmm.. I know! Let's go to the park!"
Me: "Are you sure? We do that every time we're together."
Em: "I like the park, daddy. I like to swing, high into the trees."
Me: "I know you do, sweety. Ok.. which park?" We are lucky enough to have 3 large city parks within a 20 minute drive.
Em: "(name of town)!" Her favorite park.
Me: "Ok. To (name of town) we go!"
So we drive for a little bit, and I see a billboard for a surf shop in Cocoa Beach. My brain starts firing electrons, neutrons, protons, quarks... whatever I had in my brain at the time.
Me: "Hey, Em. Would you like to go to the park, or... TO THE BEACH?"
Em: :eek: "The beach! The beach! The beach!"
She's only been to the beach once, with her mother. She and I have never been there together.
So I make the turns and head to Daytona Beach. Emily is excited! She likes these little "adventures" of ours. It was spur-of-the-moment, so we don't have bathing suits, extra clothes or towels. I did, however, have sunscreen. I keep some in the car.
She's making up a beach song, which she just had to teach me, and kept telling me I was singing it wrong. :) Then.. she falls asleep 15 minutes into the ride. Ah well. At least I can listen to the radio.
We arrive an hour later. I wake her up, and we get something to eat at Wendy's.
We sit at a window seat. I tell Em to look out the window.
Em: "Daddy, what is all the blue?"
Me: "That's the Atlantic Ocean, sweety."
Em: :eek: "WOW! Wow! wowwowwowwow! It's BIG!"
We finish our lunch and head for the beach. You can drive on Daytona Beach. And it was busy. Cars all over the place. 10 minutes after arriving at the beach, we find a spot.
We get out, take off our shoes and she runs to the ocean. And stops 20 feet from it because she sees a little tide pool. She's much more interested in that.
The water was warm, and she splashed for a little bit. I told her not to get too wet; we don't have a change of clothes. So what does she do? She jumps into the pool and splashes herself and me. Her shorts are very wet, so I think "what the hell. It's only water."
Me: "Come on, Em! I'll race you to the ocean!"
Em: "I'm going to win!"
We run the 20 feet (of course I let her win) and splash around. The ocean was unusually warm; it felt very refreshing. We run back and forth, build little sandcastles (which she destroyed) and draw faces. Then she has a "great idea." She's going to bury her feet. She digs a hole, steps in, and asks me to cover her feet with sand. She wants to help, so *plop* she sits down, getting sand on her shorts.
I don't think she noticed the wave coming into shore. If she did, she acted like it didn't bother her. But here it comes, breaking about 5 feet away, and washing up to us. Her wet shorts and now soaked. And all she did was laugh. So we get up and run into the ocean, soaking her shirt. We splash, play, have fun.. all the things you do at the beach. She even gave me some seashells as a present.
Then a family with a baby and little boy walk up and Em asks the boy if she wants to play. Off they go! The parents and I talk while watching the kids. The kids wind up playing the game of "Oh, no! The waves are coming in and are going to get us, so lets run away as fast as we can, then run back to catch them!" Apparently is was a very fun game because they played it for a long time. The family is on vacation from New York City, I found out.
It was finally time for us to go home. The NYC family had to go back to the hotel for an early dinner.
Guess who threw a tantrum because she didn't want to leave? Me.
No, just kidding. It was Em, of course! You silly people.
So I had to physically pick her up and carry her under my arm away from the water. I walked to a t-shirt shop so Em wouldn't have to wear wet clothes. I bought a very redneck t-shirt that says "Daytona Beach, FL" and some shorts. She's crying about having to leave. I bought her a Sponge Bob ice cream, and it was all good after that. (An ice cream truck drove by, and was playing Christmas music. "That's just silly" Em said.)
And then we head to the car and the trip home.
We both had so much fun, we're going back very soon. This time I will bring bathing suits and towels and food and all the other stuff that's required for a day at the beach. This year she is definitely learning how to swim.

Thanks for reading!

blas
04-05-2007, 03:07 AM
Can I come next time?

Your daughter is truly blessed to be able to see the ocean at such a young age.

What a cute story :)

NightAngel
04-05-2007, 05:12 AM
That's great! I'm glad you two got to go together. The beach is a great way to spend family time. Not to mention a relatively inexpensive passtime- well, except you have to drive an hour to get there.

:D

Greenday
04-05-2007, 06:10 AM
Can I come next time?

Your daughter is truly blessed to be able to see the ocean at such a young age.

What a cute story :)

Man, you guys out in the middle of the country definately got screwed. The beach is so freaking awesome when you are a kid. By the time you turn 19 and are in college, you REALLY take it for granted. And since I lived two miles from the beach, everyone knew how to swim. Now that I'm in PA for college, I've been meeting people who don't know how to swim. It freaks me out.

sportsmom
04-05-2007, 02:49 PM
Where I grew up, I was so close to the Atlantic that I'm not really a beach person anymore. I've seen it so many times that it's just not that cool. My dd's think it's cool, so I have taken them to the beach when we've gone to visit, but otherwise it's just the same old thing to me.

I do laugh at my hubby though. Last summer he looked at me and said "Let's take the girls to the beach." I looked at him as if he had lost his mind and once I figured out what he was talking about I just told him "Honey, that's not the beach, it's a lakeshore." He wanted to take the girls to Lake Michigan. Silly midwesterners, they don't even know what a beach is. :lol: ;)

blas
04-05-2007, 02:57 PM
sportsmom, it's all we have around here are lakeshores.......they are Laguna Beach to us lol.

Thrifty
04-05-2007, 03:47 PM
I really enjoy the stories about your little one, she sounds adorable! Thanks for sharing and keep them coming.

Jester
04-05-2007, 05:22 PM
I love those unexpected trips.

One of the more memorable ones I took happened back in college. Gee, big shock there, huh?

I was hanging out at my friend Marc's place. We both had a couple of days off, and decided we needed to make a road trip. So, we broke out a road atlas he had laying around, opened it up to a map of Arizona, and spun a pen. It landed on Nevada. So we figured, let's go to Laughlin, Nevada Right Now! Laughlin is a small town on the north end of the Arizona/Nevada border, basically a mini Las Vegas. So we called our friend Sherna (I think that was her name) to invite her along. She jumped at the chance. So the three of us jumped in my car and hit the road.

Did I mention it was about midnight when all this started? And that we were surprisingly sober?

So we head to the gas station to gas up the Shadow, and as we are doing so, we are talking excitedly about the trip. A girl who was gassing up her Jeep overheard us babbling, and asked us what we were talking about. We told her, and she said "That sounds like a great idea." So for the hell of it we asked her to come along. She said what the hell, parked her Jeep, and jumped in the Shadow.

And off we went, out of Phoenix, down The Highway of Death (Arizona Rt. 93, notorious for people getting killed on), and to Laughlin, all the while me going on and on about having eggs and beer. And we arrived in Nevada right after sunrise, and went right to breakfast in the casino. We ordered, and when I asked for the beer, they asked for my ID...and I realized I had left my wallet in the Shadow. (Often when driving, I will take my wallet out of my rear pocket for comfort.) So I went off to get it. As I was heading out to the parking lot, on a whim I threw a couple nickels in a slot machine, winning nothing, of course. At that moment, a security guard practically pounced on me, saying "Hey! You know you're not supposed to do that!" Huh? "What are you talking about?" He glared at me menacingly, saying "You know you have to be 21 to play those!" I guess he saw the ripped jeans and the rock concert shirt and assumed I was one of the local high schoolers or something. I told him I WAS 22, thank you very much, and was merely heading out to my car to get my ID, if he was interested in looking at it when I got back. Realizing I WASN'T one of the local punks, he semi-apologized, and told me that, in the future, I should make sure to have my ID on me when gambling. I in turn apologized for the oversight, and assured him I would do so.

ID retrieved, I enjoyed a lovely breakfast of beer and eggs (which has since become a favorite of mine), and we went about gambling at our favorite games.

Marc had bragged about always winning money in casinos, so the three of us were rather amused to see him lose for once. The girls did alright. Myself, I was down, down, down, and then recouped on one hand of blackjack all my losses, plus enough extra to pretty much just pay for my breakfast, the gas, and the other expenditures of the trip. Basically broke even for the trip. Smartly, I stopped gambling after that.

We spent some time puttering about Laughlin, then drove back to Phoenix (five hours each way, not something you normally want to do all in one day), getting there at night. We dropped the girl off at her Jeep, then I dropped the other two off at their apartment complex (they were neighbors) and I went home amused, after my very first trip to Nevada, my first casino, my first legal gambling, and my first of many breakfasts of eggs and beer, though still the only one at sunrise.

All from a random spin of a pen on a map and too much time on our hands.
:cheers: :cheers: :cheers: :cheers:

protege
04-05-2007, 08:07 PM
The closest beach for me...would be in Erie. Even though it's only a few hours north, I've only been up there twice in the past 30 years. Cape May, NJ (nearly 8 hours east) is where we've been going for years. We've done nearly all of the "touristy" things over the past 30 years. Even so, there's always something to do--most of my time is spent on the beach, either trying to ride the waves, or going on long walks--either to the abandoned WWII bunker at C.M. Point, or towards the Coast Guard base towards Wildwood.

The only "spur of the moment" trip I've taken, was when I went to Rowlesburg, WV...after spending most of the day in Grafton. Why? Well, over that way sits M&K Junction, on the former B&O Railroad. I'd heard about it for years, yet didn't realize just how close it was. Getting there was a pain though--many of the roads aren't well marked, and they twist all over the place. I did though, eventually find it--not much to see, unfortunately. CSX isn't exactly "railfan friendly" and I wasn't about to get busted for tresspassing. On the way back, I got to see a wonderful selection of old machinery in a "museum" just off the highway. You name it, they had it--old diesel locomotives, frieght cars in various states of disrepair, old (and mostly junk) cars, steam engines, buses, etc.

Caveat Emptor
04-05-2007, 10:17 PM
The closest beach for me...would be in Erie. Even though it's only a few hours north, I've only been up there twice in the past 30 years.

Lake Erie water? Ewww... :p

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BookstoreEscapee
04-05-2007, 11:56 PM
Man, you guys out in the middle of the country definately got screwed. The beach is so freaking awesome when you are a kid. By the time you turn 19 and are in college, you REALLY take it for granted. And since I lived two miles from the beach, everyone knew how to swim. Now that I'm in PA for college, I've been meeting people who don't know how to swim. It freaks me out.


When I went away to school in PA I learned that all the Pennsylvanians call it "the shore." We're going down the shore this weekend. No you're not, you're going TO THE BEACH!! :lol:

*Note: I live not far from Greenday...but not as close to the beach as he does.

I'm not a huge beach person (being part albino I'm not much for sunbathing) but I love the beach at night.

Greenday
04-06-2007, 01:05 AM
I don't hit up the beach much either anymore. I work 5 days a week and the other two I'm too tired to really go out and be active.

And what is with people saying, "Going down the shore."? It's the beach! Going to the beach!

stormtreader
04-09-2007, 12:56 PM
Knightmare, your stories always cheer me up :)
They're like those Famous Five adventure stories that you wish were true, but yours really are! :D

Food Lady
04-25-2007, 07:19 AM
Knightmare, you and your little girl are so cute!