im bumming

[irateguy]

I have a very good female friend that someday I want to be more than friends with. Ive posted about her on a couple other threads. Anyway she works 2 jobs and im always working weekends and nights and alot of weekend nights Its very seldom I get a fri sat or sun night off. Today was one such lucky day. I call her this morning and she says shes sick and the air just went out of my balloon. I saw her at a bar I go to last Friday but it was only for 20 min as the people I went there with wanted to go to the other bar we were going to. Prior to that the last time I saw her was the day before Easter she came to my store on my lunch break and we ate at panera but again that was only 20 min I had to get back to work. Wednesday shes going to Orlando for her job and she wont be back until the day after Memorial Day. Im having withdrawl pains here. I wonder If ill ever get to see her again. I call her once or twice a week and she says well get together but everytime I wanna do something something always gets in the way and its starting to wear on me. I hate being alone. I like her alot I just wanna have fun w her again

Will it ever happen?

[blas]

Psychic blas says yes you will.

Trust me, if I can somehow work things out with friends who work 1st and 2nd type shifts, or even the 12 hr weekend shifts at the factory, while I work 3rd shift.........if I can do that, you can too.

It's very difficult when your friends and love interests work opposite shifts than you. It's difficult, but if you're willing to put the effort into it, you can make anything work.

[Greenday]

Ah, Murphy's Law, you are such a biotch.

Heck, I'm still trying to get the first face-to-face meeting with the person I like. After a couple months of patient waiting, I'm becoming pretty damn impatient. But hopefully, HOPEFULLY, we can hang out next week. Figures she just HAS to live in Pennsylvania.

Don't worry, everything will work itself out in the end. Or some random cliche thing like that.

[BookstoreEscapee]

Aw, poor Irateguy! You'll see her again, I promise. Maybe you should have taken her some soup when she was sick...;)

sending :hug: your way, I don't like being alone either :(