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Kogarashi
07-19-2007, 12:49 AM
...but some people in CT really push it.

I was driving to a local park yesterday for a playgroup activity with my baby in the back seat. On the highway, I'm driving at a fair clip (10+ miles over the speed limit, just like everyone else on the road, and there were still people zooming past me), but once I pulled off the highway and onto the residential street where the park is located, I slowed down to 30 mph, the exact speed limit. I figured this was reasonable, since the area is residential, there's at least two large parks that cater to families with young children, and the road is only one lane in either direction.

Of course, 30 mph wasn't enough for this one lady who ended up behind me. Now, I'm driving a Jeep. A good sized car, if not necessarily a monster in proportions. The "lady" was driving a dinky little thing. And proceeds to tailgate me. I can see her face in my rearview mirror, and she's making all these "ugh, come on" faces and hand gestures at me. She backs off a bit, then rides right up my tailpipe again. She proceeds to do this for about four blocks, back-off then tailgate. I'm midly annoyed by this, but I'm doing the speed limit and, as I said, the area's got homes and kids. I'm not about to speed just because someone behind me is tailgating and making faces.

Then the road widens a bit. It's still only one lane in either direction (with a solid double yellow line down the middle), but since I'm driving close to the middle line, the lady has just barely enough room on my right to pass me. Which she does. And proceeds to gun it just as we're coming up on the first park. Oh, what I wouldn't give for a speed trap right there....

Of course, it doesn't get her far. Not one block from where she passed me, the road is closed due to road work, apparently. She stops, and proceeds to have some sort of conversation with the construction guy telling her to take a side street detour. She turns, and I follow, and I get to watch her gunning it up the hill past several houses. Luckily I didn't have to stay behind her any longer, since was no longer heading in the direction of the playground.

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Then, of course, on the way home, I get on the interstate that takes me to my street, and see the LED sign warning about an accident just past my exit. The sign warns that the left two lanes (out of four) are closed, and to merge over. There's already a backed up line in the right two lanes, and my exit is a left exit, so I carefully merge left anyway in the hopes that my exit will be before the site of the accident and actual lane closures.

Now, apparently, people in CT don't have any semblance of understanding about lane closures and merging in a reasonable fashion. This means that the left two lanes (despite the early warning of lane closures) are packed with cars zooming on ahead without a care in the world. Everyone and their dog tries to merge at the last moment, which results in major congestion near the bottleneck, and lots of frustration (and likely more accidents).

Luckily, my exit was not closed. Unluckily, a good fifty other cars (no kidding) had the same idea and were also trying to exit there. The exit ramp is one lane, and bends in a very tight curve before meeting the southbound exit ramp and coming to a stop sign (two lanes side by side) as the leg of a T intersection. Despite the exit ramp being one lane, and most of the cars waiting in a single file line, many more cars displayed the CT mentality of cutting in line and merging at the last possible moment. I saw spots in the line where cars were side by side, though once they hit the curve they had to merge as there was no room there. I sat in the middle of the exit ramp, and had at least three cars pass me on both sides. One was forced to merge right in front of me because she did this at the last moment, when the road narrowed and wouldn't let her further.

I finally got to the stop sign and turned right, but into the left-hand lane on my street (it's two lanes either direction there) because the right lane very quickly turns into a right-only lane and I needed to go straight, and I wouldn't have had any room to merge had I done it properly. This car behind me, who had been riding my bumper the entire exit ramp, pulls into the right-hand lane next to me, guns it, and merges in front of me, nearly clipping both my front bumper and the rear bumper of the car in the right-hand lane ahead of her. And then she proceeds to do at least 35 in a 25 mph residential area with a school. :rant:

I can't wait to move back to an area where the majority of drivers are sane, rather than stupid-crazy-entitled. Unfortunately, my hubby's PhD is going to take a while.

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And the highway incident reminded me of something that happened back in April when I was driving up to NH to visit my former college roommate.

I was driving up the same interstate that the previous anecdote occurred on, when I saw signs warning about the left two lanes being closed (of three). Like a good, sensible driver, I merged right immediately so as to avoid the crunch later on. Cars still zoomed past on the left. After a while, and several orange construction signs telling us to merge, a semi decided to ride the line between the left two lanes so people couldn't keep passing him and trying to merge at the last second. I saw several frustrated drivers, but I personally wanted to cheer for the semi because he was nipping dumbness in the bud there.

Unfortunately, the semi himself had to merge right when the trucks carrying the blinking merge arrows became visible. I gladly let him in front of me. Some of the people stuck behind him proceeded to speed ahead, slam on the brakes when they saw the arrow trucks, and try to merge. At least one had the gall to merge left again once he passed the arrow truck and sped ahead. The whole situation was an accident waiting to happen.

And happen it did. Thankfully, I was up around Hartford (half an hour later) when I heard it over the radio. "An accident on I-91 around exit 14," which is where the lane merges were. :doh:

blas
07-19-2007, 01:19 AM
I totally feel for you and everyone else who deals with idiots like this every day.

When I was younger, I used to LOVE driving. I'd volunteer to run all my parents errands and I'd take any opportunity to take a toodle to the big city where I live now. No matter what gas prices where, no matter what the weather or time of day/night...

Now I dread driving. I hate driving to work, I hate driving home, I hate city driving, I hate country driving........I HATE driving.

I can't even go a block down the street without having someone pull out in front of me and nearly kill me or be tailgated by some asshole in a Honda Odyssy, and I can't even take the short 10 minute drive on the bypass without two semi trucks holding hands going 50 mph in a 65.

Shoot me now.

ReverendBSB
07-19-2007, 01:21 AM
It's everywhere. People are idiots now. They have no patience and never think about anyone but themselves.

Catwoman2965
07-19-2007, 02:00 AM
I had issues tonight leaving job #1 for job #2 - had to go on a 3 lane county highway i guess you'd call it, with stores, etc. up and down. There was a water main break earlier today, so WAAAY up ahead, only one lane was open. But this is the only road leading to where me and many other people live...so traffic is bad on a goodday, and if there's an accident, or construction, you are screwed.

So i'm creeping along, and am about 1/2 mi from where i turn in for work. I signal, and attempt to get in the right lane, so i don't have to cut anyone off right before the shopping center. Like to guess what happens? Do you think anyone let me in? nope - and it wasn't like we were GOING anywhere...we were all stuck, crawling at about 10mph..pissed me off. For god's sake, just let me change lanes! Total time: 45 minutes to go about 6 miles. thank goodness i was working; home is another 5 miles up the road!

hecubus
07-19-2007, 02:24 AM
I can't wait to move back to an area where the majority of drivers are sane, rather than stupid-crazy-entitled. Unfortunately, my hubby's PhD is going to take a while.

Unfortunately, from what I've seen, there's no place like that left.

ditchdj
07-19-2007, 03:08 AM
Oh that aint nuttin!!!!!! This evening, sitting at a red light in the left turn lane, last car in the line. I was talking to my wife with our four-year-old daughter in the back seat and then from behind SLAM! I find myself being forcefully shoved forward into my airbag! :eek: We just got rear-ended. I saw smoke coming out of the airbag. Thinking the car may be on fire, I bolted out of there FAST. My wife's crying and screaming at me to get our daughter, so I got her out as fast we I could and helped my wife out. I ended up with abrasions on my left arm and chest from the airbag, a scrape and knot on my right leg, large knot on my upper left arm, and a dull headache from being jarred. My wife ended up with a fractured right leg and sore back. Our daughter was not hurt, still secured in her car seat. The other three vehicles in line sustained small bumper damage from being pushed forward. Oh and get this: the clown that hit us started driving off. I went behind to mentally get his plate number and the woman in front of us ran and got right in front of him while he's still moving saying, "Oh no! You're not going anywhere buddy. You do it and it's hit-and-run and you'll go to jail for it!" He stopped and we just got back home. My wife may have to have surgery on her leg since it has rods and pins from a car accident she was in when she was 15.

I can't believe that this is my FOURTH serious car accident I've been in and have NOT been seriously hurt! :eek: Makes me really wanna know when my time's gonna come for real and why it hasn't yet.

Irving Patrick Freleigh
07-19-2007, 03:36 AM
Ouch! :eek:

Hope your wife has a speedy recovery.

NightWolf
07-19-2007, 05:14 AM
Unfortunately, from what I've seen, there's no place like that left.


Yeah, I second this! I moved from Green Bay to Wausau a while back and figured, meh, a town of 30,000 compared to a town over over 100,000. The traffic will be much better. WRONG!! I swear all the idiots from Green Bay followed me to Wausau. Don't think it matters where you go, people seem to have an odd sense of entitlement to do whatever they want everywhere. :(

powerboy
07-19-2007, 06:02 AM
I hate asshole drivers. Once I was driving Eastward bound on the freeway, driving to one of my ghost hunter meetings, that is another town away. I nearly got killed because of this once jackass truck driver, driving way to fast onto the freeway. Nearly hitting me and the car on my left. A cop saw it, and done nothing about it. Once, a few years back. A guy on a bike, rode out onto the street, and myself and another car, had to slam onto the brakes, because of that jerk.

Cia
07-19-2007, 05:15 PM
I had some stupid idiot in an RV decide to change the 2 left turn lanes off Mt. Rushmore Road onto West Main into 3 left turn lanes. After much tire screeching and horn blaring as the idiot turned infront of me he just looked back with this 'duh?' expression on his face.

Then the jackenassen turns right onto West Blvd presumably to go out to I-90. If the idiot had just gone straight like he was supposed to, he would have turned left onto Omaha and still would have ended up getting out to I-90 much more easily w/o trying to kill me.

OMG the Sturgis Rally starts in 2 weeks. Just kill me now. <shudder>

Caveat Emptor
07-19-2007, 06:35 PM
Kogarashi, is that your daughter in your avatar? With eyes like that, you better invest in a shotgun to keep the boys away in 15 years! :D

Gawdzillers
07-19-2007, 11:31 PM
Two Mustangs were street racing on the highway.
Not drag racing on a deserted street, no, they were weaving in and out of traffic at Ludicrous Speed. ;) How could I tell they were street racing? They really looked like they were going at it. One would speed up, the other would do the same.

blas
07-20-2007, 02:06 AM
The reason they were driving at such Ludicrous speeds was because their hero, Ludacrus (or however the hell you spell his name) was one of the people in Fast and the Furious teehee no pun intended! Some people can't differenciate fantasy from reality.

Kogarashi
07-21-2007, 06:33 AM
Just remembered this other one that happened Monday when I went to do our bi-weekly grocery shopping.

Where I get onto the interstate from my street, the on-ramp's lane has only a short distance available before it's forced to merge in with the other four lanes. Normally this is not a problem.

Monday's experience, of course, wasn't normal.

I was driving behind this white minivan on the (quite long) on-ramp approach, going around the tight curves that seem to be common in my city. The van was keeping a reasonable curvy-on-ramp-speed, about 35 or 45 mph, so I didn't think much of it. Until they got to the last straightaway that then merges onto the interstate proper.

They maintained the 45 mph speed. I quickly caught up with them as I was gearing up to the 65 or so that most of the cars around here drive on the interstate, and I had to hit my brakes to keep from hitting them when I realized how slow they were going. Another car or two quickly came up behind me had had to follow suit.

I wanted to merge left to get out from behind them, but there was a maroon van coming up in the right-most lane that wasn't merging or slowing down for me (despite my blinker being on), and proceeded to pace my rear bumper with their front bumper, keeping me locked in behind the white minivan. The lane forced us to merge left, with the maroon van uncomfortably close behind me. They apparently got frustrated, as they honked and then merged left when an opening appeared (like I could do anything about it). I proceeded to merge behind the maroon van once it was safe.

As I passed the white minivan, still plodding along at 45 mph, I got a look at the driver. It looked like a teen boy, and he was laughing. I couldn't decide if it was malicious laughter at a deliberate slow-down or not. The expression on his face, and the shape of his features, lead me to think he might possibly be a bit mentally handicapped, but I thought that would make it loads harder, if not impossible, to actually get a driver's license or permit. But who maliciously tries to cause near accidents by driving 20 miles slower than the rest of the interstate traffic for no apparent reason?


Kogarashi, is that your daughter in your avatar? With eyes like that, you better invest in a shotgun to keep the boys away in 15 years! :D

Yep, that's her. Good suggestion. Maybe I can borrow one of my dad's....

Princess-Snake
07-21-2007, 03:08 PM
Last night, my family and I went out to dinner. After we left the restaruant, my sister and I are in the backseat and my parents are in the front seat. As my mom's driving me home, she's about to make a turn when this asshat comes out of nowhere and speeds right past us making the same turn my mom was going to make and nearly hits the car. As he drives off, he yells "F*ck you!" at us like it was our fault he nearly hit us. Later as we keep driving, we pass this guy and my dad sticks his hand out the window and gives him the finger. My mom looks at him horrified while my sister and I are lauging our heads off. He then turns to us and says, "Don't do what I just did, children." Words to live by.:lol:

Pagan
07-25-2007, 03:40 AM
Thank you all for validating my view that we do not "have the worst drivers in the country" here in ABQ. Just proves my point that the idiots are everywhere!

I remember when I lived in El Paso (the Horror!!). I was still commuting from Las Cruces to East side. Well, there were signs at the Sunland Park exit telling you that the farthest left lane was going to be closed at the Spaghetti Bowl (where about 6 flyovers cross over the interstate). This is a distance of about 15 miles. Yet there were still people that either didn't believe the signs or didn't think it applied to them....I'm thinking the latter. :p

Kogarashi, your little one is an absolute doll!

MadMike
07-26-2007, 05:24 AM
My son and I were on our way home from.... I forget where, it's not important. Anyway, we got on the highway, and some jackass followed on and proceeded to ride my ass. We were in the rightmost of three lanes, and the other two were open, so I don't know why he didn't just pass us.

I tapped on the brake a few times, which sometimes gets them to back off or pass, but not this guy. Finally, in frustration, I took my foot off the gas completely and let the car just slow down, until he finally got pissed off enough to pass us.

I wasn't really watching him, but right after he passed us, my son told me, "Dad! He flipped you off!"

If I had seen that, I would have smiled and waved to him with the shittiest grin I can come up with. :devil:

ditchdj
07-26-2007, 11:56 AM
Is there anyone on here that think that bad drivers are increasing on the roads??? I started thinking that after getting slammed into last week! My mother-in-law talked to him and he said he hit the gas pedal instead of the brake pedal. :eek: That was pretty obvious since there were absolutely no skid marks and the force of the impact caused minor bumper damage on the THREE cars ahead of us! It's getting to the point where it feels like driving somewhere feels like I'm risking my life because people here dont pay attention to where they're going and act like they're the only ones on the road.

draftermatt
07-26-2007, 12:43 PM
On the Baltimore beltway last night. Signs for miles saying right lanes closed at exit 18. Of course people waited until the last freaking minute to get over. I refused to let a one of them in.

Idiots, wer'e all packed in like sheep, and you want to be the head sheep? You can sit there all night.

ditchdj
07-26-2007, 06:24 PM
Idiot Driver of the Week.....

Fresh out of last week's major wreck and today almost got into yet another goddamn wreck and it's starting to piss me off!!!! I was passing someone in a mid-sized SUV when I notice that the car's passenger door started getting bigger. Sure enough, I had to hit my brakes because she suddenly wanted over, no turn signal or nothing. I lay on the horn and the stupid bitch ignores me and just gets over anyway. When I finally got past her later I yelled, "You're gonna kill someone you dumb bitch!" She just looked at me and just calmly looked forward. :mad: God I'm so pissed I feel like hitting someone. Well, at least not with my left arm because the bruise on it still hasnt completly healed from the freakin' wreck I was in last week! :rant:

blas
07-26-2007, 11:12 PM
There is a little service road by the strip where I go tanning. There are several little stores along it, it's like a big mini mall. It's also a red zone, because people will back up and REFUSE to look behind them to see if anyone is coming.

I was toodling along this afternoon and I saw a white Cavalier backing up, of course, a young looking girl with a bouncing blonde ponytail driving, the fucking retard wasn't even LOOKING BEHIND HER, she was just backing up! She kept going until she nearly hit me. I laid on the horn and she turned around and looked at me like I was the stupid one!

On the freeway last weekend, with that country festival and rock festival, there were tourists EVERYWHERE. And while I was driving out and about (which I tried to avoid but couldn't), I had to play asshole and idiot driver and I wove around everyone like an idiot because NO ONE was going the speed limit. Every car I saw had either an Illinois or Minnesota license plate, and no one was going over 60 mph, the speed limit is 65. It was perfect weather, completely dry Friday AND Saturday night. NO REASON for that crap. I had to pass everyone just go to my typical speed of 65-70.

The same thing happened today, although I was running late because I fell asleep at my parent's house and stayed too late. I HATE driving between 4 pm and 5 pm on the freeway. NO ONE will go over 60 mph, just like last weekend. Me and two other cars kept weaving around everyone. What is the matter with people? It wasn't even raining or anything. Perfectly sunny day, and the roads weren't even that busy, only a bit clogged because NO ONE in either lane would MOVE.

Cia
07-28-2007, 03:14 AM
I'm driving out to Seattle next month and I'm starting to get creeped out about the traffic on I-405 and I-5.

Jester
07-29-2007, 03:37 PM
This thread seems like another excellent opportunity to espouse more of The Wisdom of George (Carlin, that is). He had a great comment about driving that is so, SO very true:

"Have you ever noticed that anybody driving slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac?"

ArenaBoy
07-29-2007, 07:25 PM
You know, the more idiots I see the more I'd consider moving to a city that has a good public transit system. Toronto and NYC are a great example of this only because I don't have to worry about some idiot driver and even though the system runs on their time I don't have to pay for gas.

There are some days that I really hate driving.