Binky
10-04-2007, 06:32 AM
With all these new myspace and facebook things coming out I'm finding that I'm running into a lot of old school/uni/work people. Now I was not particularly popular at school, uni, or work, in fact I was pretty much a loner, but majority of the people I have come across seem more than willing to add me and say hello. And are very friendly and interested in getting to know me properly (it's been a few years)
However, I have come across some that will not accept me. Now the only reason I have an issue with this is they have added everyone else (mutual friends) but yet continue to refuse me.
Thing is WHY do I care about this? Am I mental? Its the INTERNET! Why do I care? If they don't add me then they are not worth knowing at all. But yet I'm so utterly insulted by this. It hurts somewhat as well, that they are treating me like a loser. Like I'm not "worthy" of them.
Once again YES I should not care. All rational thought tells me this is not a big deal, I should not care, they are assholes and not worth my time, and by caring I've let them win. Yet I still care! It still hurts!
I don't obsess over it which is a good thing, if I did I know I'd have a bigger issue on my hands, it's more when I see an update that so'n'so has just been accepted by 'person that won't accept me' I get a pang of hurt and feel bad.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I hate people
However, I have come across some that will not accept me. Now the only reason I have an issue with this is they have added everyone else (mutual friends) but yet continue to refuse me.
Thing is WHY do I care about this? Am I mental? Its the INTERNET! Why do I care? If they don't add me then they are not worth knowing at all. But yet I'm so utterly insulted by this. It hurts somewhat as well, that they are treating me like a loser. Like I'm not "worthy" of them.
Once again YES I should not care. All rational thought tells me this is not a big deal, I should not care, they are assholes and not worth my time, and by caring I've let them win. Yet I still care! It still hurts!
I don't obsess over it which is a good thing, if I did I know I'd have a bigger issue on my hands, it's more when I see an update that so'n'so has just been accepted by 'person that won't accept me' I get a pang of hurt and feel bad.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I hate people