Stressed out...

[hawkchick11]

I'm a single mom, my son is only 11 weeks old and it hasn't been easy (not that I was expecting it to be). I'm worried.. I don't know how I'm going to juggle school, work and spending time with my son. Frankly, its stressing me out to no end. I'm afraid what kind of effect it will have on my son. I don't want him to be stuck in daycare all day.. and his father's class schedule doesn't really make it possible for him to watch him a lot during the day.

I can't drop out of school, because I've already taken time off and I need to get my degree so I will be able to better provide for my son. I just don't want to let this have a bad effect on him.

(sorry folks I just needed to vent a little)

[digilight]

If it makes you feel any better they have done studies that children who are in daycare versus being watched my parents/family all day do better socially and are more prepared for school. Just make sure that the daycare will encourage the educational as well as the social interaction. Our first daycare didn't do that and we are paying for it now, but the kids have come a long way in a short time allready.

As far as being stressed out, I don't blame you its hard, but its whats gotta be done. And might I add, good for you for sticking to getting your degree to provide for your son. Good luck, it will get easier.

[NightWolf]

I'm sorry to hear of your stress load. :(

Vent away, thats what we are all here for. A good dose of friendly support from your loving CSers. :D

[NightAngel]

You're very right about the not dropping out. I've been there- trying to juggle school, kids, work, etc. all at once is tough. It'll be worth it in the end though- don't give up. *pats shoulder*

Check with your school on their policies. The university I went to allowed parents to bring their children/babies to class as long as the children weren't a disruption. The people with babies usually just sat close to the door so they could take them out if they cried.

Also, check and see if your campus has any daycare programs. Some do and it's a real life saver. It's usually cheaper because you're a student and your child is on campus, near you, so you can pop in between classes or at lunch.

Kids are quite adaptive and resilient- in the end as long as your son knows he's loved he'll come through just fine. :)