im pissed....

[Ljt09863]

so some of you have read my other posts, about a water bill that we feel we are not responsible for. well, fiance and i had a plan worked out, and we were just waiting for a day that the owner of the park could make it out here and speak with us. we knew exactly what we were going to do , and to actually make things go in our favor in a really good way.

today, fiance texted me. his fucking mother went behind our backs and paid the water bill. once again, she can't let us handle our own problems, she has to treat us like freaking children who can't handle lifes little problems.

i am so pissed right now. every time i get something going, that i can handle, and i have a plan, and i feel like im coming out as a great adult, she has to step in,and shove me right back down. I COULD HAVE HANDLED THIS!!!!! she thinks we can't do anything ourselves!

im so sick of them treating us like children. yes, i understand that to them, we will always be children, by don't treat us like it! my mother would NEVER butt into our lives like that!

i know she thought she was going to help us, but all she did was piss us off. fiance then texted me saying that he told them we would pay them back. im not giving them a freaking penny! i ddn't want them involved period, let alone paying for it! they want to go behind our backs and do that, they can suffer with it.

[Ljt09863]

another thing to add. i don't know if you read my other post recently, about us having to move home to save up? everybody was ok with it. today, his parents told him that we need to stay here, and not move back with anybody. i know they don't have to let him move back home. its their house. but it would help so much, and they were fine with it before! now they aren't.

i guess that gets to me, cause if i ever need to move back home for any reason, my mother would never deny me. i don't understand why his parents treat him the way they do. it wasn't like he was going to freeload off of them. they asked for rent, and he was going to pay it. now, i know my mother isn't going to say no to us. she wants to help us anyway she can. so you knowwhat that means? fitting five people into a two bedroom apartment. we also have six animals. cats are allowed, and i think birds, but no dogs. we have two dogs. so now, we have to figure out what to do with them, obviously,we do not want to get rid of them. that is something we won't even consider. we just have to find somebody who will let us keep them there,and we come in every day and take care of them.

every time something seems to be going to a great direction for us, it takes a turn for the worst.

[Kyree]

That is one giant circle of suckage there >.< Do you happen to live in Minnesota? I still live in an apartment, but I could help you guys find a place to hold the puppies for a while :( Good for you for not giving them up!

[Ljt09863]

That is one giant circle of suckage there >.< Do you happen to live in Minnesota? I still live in an apartment, but I could help you guys find a place to hold the puppies for a while :( Good for you for not giving them up!

thanks for your offer, but we live in SE Wisconsin. it'd be quite a trip to visit the dogs:p

[Becks]

*hugs*

Too bad you're not in NE WI. I know people with plenty of space for some dogs to have some fun.

[blas]

Or NW Wisconsin!

Come stay with me. All utilities are included in rent.

[Ljt09863]

awww. you all so nice! fiance would love to movesomewhere in Oconto county up north. his parents have some land there. its beautiful, but i don't want worse winters. we really don't want to move back at all. technically, we don't have to. we could still live where we are, but to do whats best for us, we are going to try to move back with my mom....

[Evil Queen]

Is there a reason why your Future M-I-L knows about your water bill?

I mean, even my parents don't know what MY bills are. And we're close.

[blas]

I finally changed my address a while back because my parents were opening my mail and making sure I didn't have any overdue balances and was paying my bills like I should be.

I wanted my mail to all go to their place because I didn't trust my neighbors or other people getting my mail, now I just deal with the risk because I was so pissed when I saw my parents looking at my credit card statements and other bills.

[Ljt09863]

fiance likes to talk to his parents about all our problems. which, sounds innocent enough. who doesn't talk to their parents about some of their problems. lately, i have been trying to get him to vent his frustrations more to his friends, because once his mother knows, the whole world seems to know.....

unfortunately, his mother knows where the manager of the trailer park lives, so it wasn't hard for her to find out how much to pay. they don't care where the money comes from, as long as it gets paid.

i jsut can't get over this. fiance really wants to figure out how to get their money back(we don't feel we owe this money, which REALLY pisses us off that she paid it) and i told him that she can figure it out. she put herself into the mess, she can get herself out. i don't care if she doesn't get her money back.

this woman is psycho. we've been getting home loan letter for HER at MY home. fiance still hasn't spoken to her about that....ugh...i hate her. Jester, how do you feel about lending me your friends with the boat?i promise to clean up afterwards.

[Ljt09863]

oh, yeah, cause i forgot to mention it. fiances mother used to ALWAYS open his mail. EVERY TIME something came in. and until i moved in he didn't have a problem with this. he was 25. so once my name started to get put onto things, i put my foot down, and said she is not to open any mail with mine, or his name on it. it took a LONG time, but we finally won. it was bad enough that i threatened to get a P.O. Box though

she actually had the gall to open peters cousins mail once, because it was from a credit card company! she opened it to see how much of a balance they had! this woman wants control over everything.

[Evil Queen]

:eek:

Move far away. Far. Far. FAR away.

[BookstoreEscapee]

If it's not addressed to her technically I think that's illegal...

My parents wouldn't dream of opening my mail. All the important stuff (car insurance, credit card bills, Glamour magazine;)...) come to my apartment but some stuff still finds its way to my parents'. If something looks like it might be important my mom will tell me it's there, and sometimes I'll ask her to open it, but otherwise she just sets it aside until I come over (which is usually once a week or so).