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Jester
12-23-2008, 07:53 AM
I know what you're thinking. "Jester, when customers bitch like that, the stories go in the Sucky Customers section." And you're right....but this was NOT a bitch by a customer. This is MY bitch!

Actually, my New Year's was ruined way back on the 13th, 18 full days before New Year's Eve. "How is that possible?" Well, I'm glad you asked.

My new bartending schedule is pretty sweet. With one bartender leaving and another one scaling back her shifts due to pregnancy, I got bumped up from 3 to 5 shifts behind the bar per week, four of them being day shifts at the main bar (Tuesdays through Fridays) which is pretty freakin' sweet. And it told me that, since this will be my schedule for a while, I would have New Year's Eve off, and even though I would have to be in to work at 10 am on New Year's Day, that would be sweet. Right?

Au contrer, mon frer! See, my Rocking Manager decided to schedule me Wednesday night on the floor waiting tables. So I get to open New Year's Eve, work the night shift as well, and then open New Year's Day. Sure, I'll be the first one cut on the floor, but what are the odds that it is at an early enough time that I get to go have any serious New Year's fun? Right. Zero. You know how many other people on staff are working a double on New Year's Eve and than a day shift on New Year's Day? If you guessed "none" you are absolutely freakin' correct. And the thing of it is, I DO have seniority, being fourth on the bar staff and second on the wait staff, having worked at The Bar for just under two years. And here I was hoping, if nothing else, to find some lovely young thing to smooch with New Year's Eve, maybe even get together with a girl I've been flirting a lot with lately. Fat freakin' chance of THAT!

So I am a bit pissed off, about that and other things. "Wait, there's MORE ranting?" In the words of Sarah Palin, you betchya! A few things that have irritated me lately.

Reach out and touch THIS!

So I'm walking through the complex parking lot the other morning, on my way to my truck to head to work. I am on the phone to my friend, Frank. This lady drives up in a minivan. "Excuse me!" I don't say anything to her figuring, duh, she can see I'm on the phone. "EXCUSE ME!" Okay, this is ridiculous. I look at her, not very much in the mood for this nonsense, and yell "I'm ON the PHONE! Do you MIND?!?!" And stomp off to my truck without another word. She yells after me sarcastically, "Merry Christmas!" And her, her companion in the van, and the lady they then stopped and asked directions (or whatever) all just look at me like I'm the devil.

Well, pardon me, darlin', but since when does your need for directions or whatever the hell you needed trump my right to having an uninterrupted conversation OR the basic manners people are supposed to have. Why the hell do you feel like you can just interrupt someone who's on the phone that you don't even know? And how DARE you throw that smarmy holiday greeting after me when I call you on your shit. Ya know what lady? FUCK YOU! I hope the next time you need directions, you interrupt someone far more violent than me, and rather than telling you off, they shove their phone so far up your ass that you taste ringtones for breakfast. At which point I'd love to walk up to you and ask, "Can you hear me NOW?"

@#$%&*!

So I'm walking from my truck to my apartment tonight (what IS it with my parking lot?!?), sorting out my mail when *WHACK!* I slam my knee into something HARD. I almost fall over, my knee is in pain, and as soon as I catch my balance (and my mail, which I almost dropped), I realize that I have just walked into the (black) trailer hitch on this really large truck that is backed into its spot. And this is the SECOND time I have done this this week.

To the yahoo that owns this truck: "Listen, Gomer, I know how much you love your oversized truck, which you so clearly NEED on this 2 by 4 mile tropical island where my little Blazer is considered large, but MUST you back it in right up to the dark part of the sidewalk where no one can see your hitch that is not even chrome, but black? Do you have any idea how painful it is to walk into that thing? Is there any PARTICULAR reason you have to BACK it in? Are you TRYING to injure people, fucknuts? I so very much want to take my Louisville Slugger to your four-wheeled penis extender, so do us both a favor and LEARN HOW TO PARK SO YOU DON'T FUCKING INJURE PEOPLE!

Woof!

So there's a lovely young lady I've been flirting with, who happens to be a bartender at one of my favorite watering holes. And fate keeps interfering with any plans I try to have of us getting together when one of us is not behind the bar slinging drinks. I'll spare you the grisly details for most of them, but last night is a perfect example. I had invited Flirt to join me after she got off work at a friend's Christmas party, and she said that it would be fun.

And then Flirt got a text from her sister telling her that she (the sister) had sent her (Flirt) a dog for a Christmas present, and it was at the airport for her (Flirt) to pick up. Now, Flirt didn't want a dog, but far be it from her sister to respect her wishes. So, rather than go to the party with me, she (naturally) went to the airport and (naturally) fell in love with said pooch.

That's right, folks. I was dogged...for a dog!

"Jester, you DO realize that there are people out there with far worse problems than you, right?"

Of course I do. I realize in many ways I am very fortunate for my life, and in general, I am one happy motherfucker. But that does not mean things aren't going to piss me off, nor that I am not going to rant about them.

Besides, every now and then, it really does feel good to rant. Hell, some people even get PAID for it! (Hello, Mr. Olberman, Mr. O'Reilly, and Mr. Miller, among others.)

And on lovely note, I shall go to bed to dream of Flirt, having left the dog at home with her cats, showing up (finally!) for a New Year's date with me, driving that oversized truck right into a wall (but jumping out before the impact, of course) with that very annoying woman strapped to the hood with someone's phone gagging her. "But what about your manager?" Hell, she is still Rocking Manager. But she can be in my dream too, serving us cocktails! :lol:

Here endeth the rant.

Ree
12-23-2008, 12:36 PM
OK...the chick who was interrupting you on the phone shouldn't have been so pushy, but maybe she was lost and in a panic and it didn't occur to her that she was being incredibly rude? :shrug:

As for the rest...that sucks big time.

No wonder you're in a pissy mood.

draggar
12-23-2008, 01:42 PM
To the yahoo that owns this truck: "Listen, Gomer, I know how much you love your oversized truck, which you so clearly NEED on this 2 by 4 mile tropical island where my little Blazer is considered large, but MUST you back it in right up to the dark part of the sidewalk where no one can see your hitch that is not even chrome, but black? Do you have any idea how painful it is to walk into that thing? Is there any PARTICULAR reason you have to BACK it in? Are you TRYING to injure people, fucknuts? I so very much want to take my Louisville Slugger to your four-wheeled penis extender, so do us both a favor and LEARN HOW TO PARK SO YOU DON'T FUCKING INJURE PEOPLE!

Type that up, print it out and put it on his windshield. :)

OK...the chick who was interrupting you on the phone shouldn't have been so pushy, but maybe she was lost and in a panic and it didn't occur to her that she was being incredibly rude? :shrug:

It's Key West, you have to TRY to get lost there (especially Old Town). I've been there twice in my lift time (only once did I drive) and I didn't get lost (even found the touristy shopping areas). All you really need to know are Route 1 and Duvall St - maybe even Mallory Square.

persephone
12-23-2008, 06:20 PM
It's Key West, you have to TRY to get lost there (especially Old Town). I've been there twice in my lift time (only once did I drive) and I didn't get lost (even found the touristy shopping areas). All you really need to know are Route 1 and Duvall St - maybe even Mallory Square.

Yes, but if I recall correctly (at least I THINK from what I've read in his posts?), Jester doesn't live in Old Town. I've been to Key West to visit friends -- there are no "complexes" with parking lots in old town. You have to get a bit off the tourist-beaten path to find them.

Not saying she wasn't rude and annoying, but Ree's probably right. She was probably panicking and not thinking. But still, should have realized when Jester didn't answer her the first time that, well, he was busy!

Sorry you're having a rough week, Jester! I'd offer to cheer you up with kitcheny goodness, but it's a bit far from you! :p

crazylegs
12-23-2008, 06:29 PM
Jester, I feel your pain. I'm working a 10:00-22:00 shift New Years Eve, then I'm starting again at 09:00 on New Years Day! I think I shall be retiring with a nice mug of cocoa when I get home! :lol:

Gravekeeper
12-23-2008, 08:33 PM
Jester, I feel your pain. I'm working a 10:00-22:00 shift New Years Eve, then I'm starting again at 09:00 on New Years Day! I think I shall be retiring with a nice mug of cocoa when I get home! :lol:

I'm working 11pm - 7:30am Christmas eve and again Christmas day, and again Boxing day and the day after.

So both of you can bite me. =p hehe

I'm not even sure if I have news years off yet. I'm *suppose* too since the deal at work is if you do one, you get the other off ( Between Christmas and New years ). But I work a shift that really has no back up staff for the most part and my night shift coworker is already out of town. ( Jackass. ). -.-

Am I the only one that would smack a friend/relative if they send me a live animal as a present for Christmas, by surprise, when I didn't even want one, and told me to go pick it up at the airport?

crazylegs
12-23-2008, 08:40 PM
I'm working 11pm - 7:30am Christmas eve and again Christmas day, and again Boxing day and the day after.

So both of you can bite me. =p hehe

Ouch. That sucks. I'm lucky insofar that I'm off from today until the 27th!

Amethyst Hunter
12-23-2008, 08:45 PM
Am I the only one that would smack a friend/relative if they send me a live animal as a present for Christmas, by surprise, when I didn't even want one, and told me to go pick it up at the airport?

Nope, I'd do it too - and I love critters. -.-

Becks
12-23-2008, 08:45 PM
Am I the only one that would smack a friend/relative if they send me a live animal as a present for Christmas, by surprise, when I didn't even want one, and told me to go pick it up at the airport?

I don't think so.

SengaKitty
12-23-2008, 08:45 PM
Sorry to hear it Jester :hug: hopefully you'll get to your new years smooch anyway :D

I guess I'm lucky.. For the first time since SO started working at his restaurant, they're closing for Christmas, so he'll be off Christmas Eve and Christmas day to spend with me, which is very very good for me, when considering the present situation...

As for new years? I'll probably be going to a party at a friends, or something of the sort..

AdminAssistant
12-23-2008, 09:31 PM
One of the best things about being in school... :p

Unless one of my friends here has a kickin' New Year's Eve party I'm going back home to spend it with the Boy. I dunno, I say the next time you get some time with the Flirt, have your own countdown, then kiss her. Who cares about dates?

DesignFox
12-23-2008, 11:44 PM
Aww Jester. I'm sorry to hear this.

I second the notion of you and Flirt having your own celebration. ;)

Jester
12-24-2008, 04:22 AM
OK...the chick who was interrupting you on the phone shouldn't have been so pushy, but maybe she was lost and in a panic and it didn't occur to her that she was being incredibly rude?

She was definitely NOT in a panic. Had she been frantic or something, I would have been far more understanding.

She wasn't.

Fuck her.

It's Key West, you have to TRY to get lost there (especially Old Town).

Yes, but if I recall correctly (at least I THINK from what I've read in his posts?), Jester doesn't live in Old Town.

Not saying she wasn't rude and annoying, but Ree's probably right. She was probably panicking and not thinking.

I disagree....you can get lost in Key West.

And I don't live in Old Town.

But as I said, this woman was hardly in a panic. She was calm and relaxed. And fucking rude.

I'm working 11pm - 7:30am Christmas eve and again Christmas day, and again Boxing day and the day after.

So both of you can bite me.

I worked Fantasy Fest (even though I didn't want to) and Thanksgiving.

I am working Christmas Eve (day), Christmas Day (day), New Year's Eve (day AND night) and New Year's Day (day).

Not to mention that, to add to the misery, I am working another double the day after New Year's Day.

So YOU can bite ME, GK. :wave:

Am I the only one that would smack a friend/relative if they send me a live animal as a present for Christmas, by surprise, when I didn't even want one, and told me to go pick it up at the airport?

Yeah, I thought that was kind of fucked up myself.

I say the next time you get some time with the Flirt, have your own countdown, then kiss her. Who cares about dates?

I don't care about a formal date per se, but as I said (I think I said it, anyway), the only times I have seen her at all, one of us was working. Can't exactly follow your suggestion when one of us is not only at work (with the prying eyes of coworkers) but on the freakin' clock.

Shards
12-24-2008, 04:36 AM
I don't care about a formal date per se, but as I said (I think I said it, anyway), the only times I have seen her at all, one of us was working. Can't exactly follow your suggestion when one of us is not only at work (with the prying eyes of coworkers) but on the freakin' clock.

Perhaps you could do it in front of the scheduling manager, being as blatant as possible (without overdoing it, of course), and when she says something tell her you're just trying to keep a good customer happy.

Jester
12-24-2008, 05:54 AM
Nice idea, Shards, but there are some problems with it. The most important one being that I have no idea if Flirt is even interested in anything beyond flirting. It's the not knowing that sucks, of course.

Other problems include the fact that I am probably going to be very busy New Year's Eve at work actually, you know, working, and one amusing problem to your idea is that Rockin' Manager would have no problem with me hooking up with a Cute Young Thang in general, and would actually rather support it as she adores me, but would take a dim view to my interrupting my work and doing so in front of customers....and I would agree with her that that would be rather unprofessional.

But again, we go back to the main problem listed above. And frankly, I really don't want the first time this girl kisses me (if ever) to be while I am at work working. Kind of kills the romance, ya know?

To add to my amusing week, I had a Major Prick with an ID Issue today. Gee, big surprise there. The sad thing is, the prick in question may have actually been correct in what he was saying, but the Florida statutes I have looked at tonight are rather vague and don't really answer my question about that. And no, I am not going into further details, as I already lived through that asshole once today.

I'm just going to keep repeating: 2009 will be better than 2008. 2009 will be better than 2008. 2009 will be better than 2008......

Shards
12-24-2008, 06:01 AM
I'm just going to keep repeating: 2009 will be better than 2008. 2009 will be better than 2008. 2009 will be better than 2008......

And perhaps in '09 you won't get the raw end of the holiday deal.

One can dream, yes?

Danno
12-24-2008, 06:13 AM
Don't you know, saying "Excuse me" automatically negates whatever rude behavior you're currently participating in? Sorta like prefacing racist statements with "Some of my best friends are black."

Gravekeeper
12-24-2008, 03:34 PM
So YOU can bite ME, GK.

Alright, but just this once. However, if I find out I'm working New Years Eve/Day as well I'm filing an appeal. ;p

SengaKitty
12-24-2008, 04:02 PM
I'm just going to keep repeating: 2009 will be better than 2008. 2009 will be better than 2008. 2009 will be better than 2008......

I'm having to do that too.... I think a lot of people are... Good luck Jester, you've got my number if you just want someone to vent at