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Mighty Girl
12-05-2006, 06:02 AM
I am very fair skinned, and I was very lax about using sunscreen growing up. And it's now coming back to bite me in the ass.

I've had countless suspicious looking moles removed, every one of them came back benign, until this year. Earlier this year, I asked my doctor about this little bump on my leg. Tiny bump. It literally had no pigment. It looked like I dropped a tiny little drop of super glue on my leg and it dried. Smaller than a zit that hasn't reached the surface, but everytime I shaved my legs, I hit it and would nick myself. Finally, it got on my nerves once too many- and I had her check it out. She removed it, and the tests came back, "Actinic keratosis". Which translates into, precancerous skin damage caused my overexposure to the sun, if left untreated would likely lead to squamous cell carcinoma. Not good would be an understatement. :eek: Excuse me while I pick myself up off the floor.

I made an appointment to come back and have the area excised- have the area as well as a bunch of area around it removed and cauterized. My tiny bump turned into a black mark on my leg a little smaller than a quarter. With that over with, I returned to the normal chaos I call life- which actually seemed quite serene and downright celebratory.

Then, I visited the dr. again about two more moles. At the time she performed the shave biopsy, she said she was a "little concerned" about one of the moles, as it seemed to have a larger blood supply than the average mole. Her concern turned out to be prophetic. Focally Moderate Melanocytic Dysplasia. I have graduated to having to go see a specialist. The word in that heart-stopping phrase that means the most is "moderate". Apparently, if it said "mild", we'd all be having daiquiries. But it said moderate. My appointment is next month, and I'd be lying if I wasn't a little freaked out. I have very sensitive skin, and every little bit of acne, ingrown hair, rough spot, etc. has me on edge.

I promise, right now, to use sunscreen religiously. I already slather my daughter up in it constantly (in the summer months, of course). Now, I'll also take care of myself.

So, sorry so long. USE SUNSCREEN. There is no such thing as developing a "healthy base tan". Go get the sunless tanning spray (btw, Neutrogene and Estee Lauder are the best, IMHO), and get sunscreen and use it.

Last winter, we buried my uncle. He was only in his fifties. He had melanoma, but never knew it until it spread, and he had to have massive surgery. One kidney removed, the possibility of never walking again. You know what that surgery bought him? Two years. One, was pretty good. He had the surgery, recovered and had a good 10 months of good times. Then, it came back. And he spent the last 4 months of his life in a lot of pain. He died in hospice, heavily sedated due to all the pain.

Take care of your skin. Protect it.

Sorry for this being so long.

Greenday
12-05-2006, 06:37 AM
That sucks the big one. At least you caught it early on before it could cause serious damage. My friend's mom has skin cancer. Except she does a ton of sun tanning. Even now that she knows she has skin cancer, she still goes sun tanning. A huge wtf? :confused:

Barefootgirl
12-05-2006, 01:15 PM
Oh Mighty Girl, what a horrible situation for you. It must be very worrying. I would be deeply freaked out as well. I hope it can be removed and treated when you see the specialist.

Because I'm half-Indian,I have fairly olive-y skin, but believe me, I am religious about sunscreen. Both my moisturiser and foundation have to be at least SPF15 or I look for other brands. My poor kid doesn't get to go outside in the summer unless she's slathered in sun cream and is wearing a hat.

Whatever your skin tone, ladies and gentlemen, WEAR SUNSCREEN !

AirHostess
12-05-2006, 01:53 PM
Oh I hope you're ok, you must be worried. *hugs*

I have very pale skin too and I always wear sunscreen and a daily facial moisturiser with SPF 30 under my make-up. Even in winter there are are still free radicals and UV rays and pollution.

Mighty Girl
12-06-2006, 06:24 AM
Thanks. I have what I think is an unusually high number of moles, so I try to keep a close eye on them. I totally envy people with an olive complexion, or even people who just aren't quite so fair. My friend has dark hair and kind darker complexion, and she looks so beautiful in colors that make me look like I'm late to meet those "What not to wear" people. (Side note- get stressed out and down on yourself? Watch that show. I get bummed about my SAHM "uniform"- i.e. track pants or jeans, loose cotton shirt, slip on shoes- then I watch that and I feel like Donna Karan).

The slightest thing happens and people ask me if I'm feeling well- everything shows up hugely and right away. If I'm cold, my lips turn blue. If I'm hot, my face turns red. Got a cold? Nose turns red and skin peels off the sides constantly. (Just a little whinefest, don't mind me). I'm part Polish/German/Russian/Swedish- all very fair people. And I bruise easily too. My husband fell donw the stairs- from the top of the stairs. He bruised his elbows and his knees were sore. I fell almost from the botton- guess what happened. I needed stitches. It's like that movie "Unbreakable", but the opposite.

Sorry for all the tangents there. I'm really tired, going to bed. I'll make more sense tomorrow.

Hugs to all of you. You are such kind and sensitive people, I really appreciate the encouragement.