blas
02-07-2007, 02:06 PM
If anyone's noticed, I've been very scarce or pretty much non existent for the past few weeks or so. I know, I know, other CS members have been AWOL for much much longer, but since I used to post regularly, several times a day, and then all of a sudden disappeared, I figured I'd give you all an update of what's been going on.
The Monday after my birthday (so two days later basically), my roomate took the computer sometime after I had gone to work that night. I came home and saw it was gone. At first I freaked out thinking someone had broke in, but then I remembered everything that's been happening for the past few months and it dawned on me. Now, I realize that no one should have to tell someone else that they are taking THEIR own stuff, but since I have furniture, a TV, and a DVD player in storage at my parent's house for when he officially moves out.....well....and considering I was going to buy a laptop that very weekend with my birthday money........I wanted a little bit of notice if he was going to start moving stuff out, simply because I cannot move my furniture nor my TV on my own and I'd need my father or brother's help, and I can't just force them to bring it over on a dime. We had agreed to this months ago that he'd let me know when everything was going to disappear so that I wouldn't have to sit in an empty apartment for a week before I could move all my stuff in.
Well, I sent him an angry text message, saying "Let me know before you move more stuff out so I don't end up in an empty house".....which he replied that the computer was broken........liar. He's the type to text or call and say "Hey, this is broken and won't be here for a few days" and whatnot. If he really didn't want me using it anymore, he could have changed his password. But no, he just took it. And stashed it somewhere, because he's had his own laptop and his girlfriend's computer to use for the past 6-7 months. I know it was his.....but if he wanted me to stop using it....there's more adult ways of going about this than waiting until I leave at night and then taking it.
So now every day I am worried that there will be nothing left and the whole place will be empty, except for my room and my food. Needless to say, as soon as this whole thing is over, I will never speak to him again.
Oh, what next? I found a new roomate. I know I said I'd never do it again, but one of my good friends needed a place to live about two weeks ago. She told me that she had the security deposit money to give my roomate and she had her own computer and she needed a place asap. I ask my roomate, because he's been telling me all along to find a new roomie or get ready to be alone.
His response? He does not know exactly when he is moving out, he hasn't even looked at ANY houses yet........soo.......he will NOT be moving his bed or any of the other things he has still at the apartment until then. Even though he found someone's place to stash his computer and could probably stash everything else at (considering he's at the point where he's moved his DRESSER and ALL of his clothes and ALL of his toiletries and ALL of his small electronics to his girlfriend's apartment, which is sizeable to ours)...........yeah. He blatantly refused to let my friend move in. He said he isn't going to move until he's ready. Well no FRICKEN duh...but since he's moving everything else out, why stop now? When there is someone who NEEDS a place and works with me, so I KNOW that she has the money, I KNOW she is not a slob, I KNOW she doesn't play mindgames......no. The answer was no. I was told to "have a roomate READY for when I move out". Yeah, I'm gonna tell someone to be ready to move when I tell them. I think not.
To top it all off, things are going very slow and very poorly at work, I just got my medical bills from my girly problem, I now owe over $500 in that............
But the good news........I will have my own laptop come this Friday or Saturday, and I will never be without any of you again! Until then, see you at my parents' house every morning.
The Monday after my birthday (so two days later basically), my roomate took the computer sometime after I had gone to work that night. I came home and saw it was gone. At first I freaked out thinking someone had broke in, but then I remembered everything that's been happening for the past few months and it dawned on me. Now, I realize that no one should have to tell someone else that they are taking THEIR own stuff, but since I have furniture, a TV, and a DVD player in storage at my parent's house for when he officially moves out.....well....and considering I was going to buy a laptop that very weekend with my birthday money........I wanted a little bit of notice if he was going to start moving stuff out, simply because I cannot move my furniture nor my TV on my own and I'd need my father or brother's help, and I can't just force them to bring it over on a dime. We had agreed to this months ago that he'd let me know when everything was going to disappear so that I wouldn't have to sit in an empty apartment for a week before I could move all my stuff in.
Well, I sent him an angry text message, saying "Let me know before you move more stuff out so I don't end up in an empty house".....which he replied that the computer was broken........liar. He's the type to text or call and say "Hey, this is broken and won't be here for a few days" and whatnot. If he really didn't want me using it anymore, he could have changed his password. But no, he just took it. And stashed it somewhere, because he's had his own laptop and his girlfriend's computer to use for the past 6-7 months. I know it was his.....but if he wanted me to stop using it....there's more adult ways of going about this than waiting until I leave at night and then taking it.
So now every day I am worried that there will be nothing left and the whole place will be empty, except for my room and my food. Needless to say, as soon as this whole thing is over, I will never speak to him again.
Oh, what next? I found a new roomate. I know I said I'd never do it again, but one of my good friends needed a place to live about two weeks ago. She told me that she had the security deposit money to give my roomate and she had her own computer and she needed a place asap. I ask my roomate, because he's been telling me all along to find a new roomie or get ready to be alone.
His response? He does not know exactly when he is moving out, he hasn't even looked at ANY houses yet........soo.......he will NOT be moving his bed or any of the other things he has still at the apartment until then. Even though he found someone's place to stash his computer and could probably stash everything else at (considering he's at the point where he's moved his DRESSER and ALL of his clothes and ALL of his toiletries and ALL of his small electronics to his girlfriend's apartment, which is sizeable to ours)...........yeah. He blatantly refused to let my friend move in. He said he isn't going to move until he's ready. Well no FRICKEN duh...but since he's moving everything else out, why stop now? When there is someone who NEEDS a place and works with me, so I KNOW that she has the money, I KNOW she is not a slob, I KNOW she doesn't play mindgames......no. The answer was no. I was told to "have a roomate READY for when I move out". Yeah, I'm gonna tell someone to be ready to move when I tell them. I think not.
To top it all off, things are going very slow and very poorly at work, I just got my medical bills from my girly problem, I now owe over $500 in that............
But the good news........I will have my own laptop come this Friday or Saturday, and I will never be without any of you again! Until then, see you at my parents' house every morning.