queston for our female members

[irateguy]

I have two questions for females:

1 What do you talk about when youre just w the girls
2 Why when youre at a club or bar or whatever do ALL of you have to go to the bathroom together.

Guys usually talk about sports when we are amongst ourselves If we do talk about women it gets raunchy more often than not:)

[April]

1. My friends and I talk about everything, from politics, world views, religion, parenting, guys, children, periods, sex, EVERYTHING.

2. I don't and I never got why women have to pee in twos (or more)

[Reyneth]

2) It gives us a chance to talk/laugh about the guys we are with and how they are acting. There can be a bit of a wait if the place is busy, so it passes the time. Oh, and we need to rate how hot the waiter is and can't do it in front of the guys. ;)

[kerrisan]

1) Stupid guys, our days, our fears, our men, sex . . .

2) There's safety in numbers.

[JuniorMintz]

1. People we're sleeping with, people we'd *like* to sleep with, people we're *trying* to sleep with, drinking, music, tv, and movies.

I don't have a lot of girlfriends and I'm no ho, but when I'm out with the ones I do have it gets pretty naughty. :D

2. I don't know, why do guys pee in urinals? I'd have a hard time whipping it out if I weren't in a stall, myself. Plus, when we're done peeing and are all standing around the mirror primping, we bring our friends so that if our friend puts on too much eyeliner and looks like a ho, we can tell her. :lol:

[Kiwi]

none of my friends pee together, unless they actually have to pee

who wants to hear their friends using the bathroom???

not me!

[irateguy]

I don't know, why do guys pee in urinals?


Because we can. + we dont usually make it a habit to look at each others "packages"

[Severen13]

If I told you, I'd have to kill you.

[April]

Slightly OT, we were at a dinner event yesterday, and my 17 year old sister refused to go up to the buffet by herself to get more. She would NOT go unless my mom or myself went up with her. It was a whole 10 feet a way. What is up with that??

[Greenday]

Because we can. + we dont usually make it a habit to look at each others "packages"

The keyword is usually. Back in high school, a lot of guys WOULD look. Kind of made you aquire a shy bladder. Gnar kill.

But yea, urinals are much more convenient. You just walk up and do your thing. Stalls, you gotta walk into it, shut and lock the door, do your thing, unlock the door, it just adds too much time.

[Ackee]

1) yes, we are talking about you and how silly you are being. But never mind, most of us are nice and we will only gently tease you and not make you a laughing stock.
2) Well, we do this so we can talk about YOU and not let any of our mates know what we are saying. Also, they will tell you if have tucked your skirt into your panties and your sanitary towel is showing, if you have lipstick on your teeth or if you have loo roll stuck to the bottom of your shoe.


P.S. Girls can stand and pee too...
http://myvag.net/pee/standing/
Please note this girl writes alot and extemely honestly about her, erm, bits

http://www.ampnet.co.uk/femorabilia/pee_standing.html
You could look here instead.

[iradney]

1. we talk about our jobs, our parents, the cute bartender, the drunk girl in the corner, politics, cars etc etc

2. we go in groups coz it's safer - specially in some parts of the country!

[BusBus]

1) Talk about life, people, gossip...usual girly things

2) It's nice having someone to talk to :)

[Crazyredhead]

#1 I don't have any girlfriends. #2 I don't go out anywhere. But when I used to go out it was supposed to be for safety in numbers. There was (along time ago) a woman (alone) who got abducted outside of the restroom and taken to another room and raped.

[blas]

We're doing the same thing you guys are doing........gossiping about you guys, what we think you're going to try and pull on us, what we're going to do about it, how we plan on playing your games right back......in a word: plotting. We're talking about you and we know that you know we're talking about you.

[KuzcoLlama]

We're doing the same thing you guys are doing........gossiping about you guys, what we think you're going to try and pull on us, what we're going to do about it, how we plan on playing your games right back......in a word: plotting. We're talking about you and we know that you know we're talking about you.

Really?

I talk about how funny the word "spoon" can be if you say it many different ways (like holding out the "oo" for a long time). Oh! I also talk about my new strawberry shoelaces. And llamas. Definitely llamas. But I do hang with a weird crowd.

[blas]

Don't act so surprised, Llama..........I once went through quite an eavesdropping phase, and the things I heard guys talking about amongst each other would have made their grandmothers blush. I think it's a pretty fair statement that girls do the same thing in the bathroom, except most likely with different vocabulary and more giggling going on than anything else.

[BiscuitMunroe]

I don't think this question quite applies to me, but when my girls and I are together, we generally start by checking out the waitress and then it goes downhill from there. (not all the time,we also talk about other stuff).

and oddly enough, me and my straight girlfriends don't go to the bathroom in twos, me and my lesbian friends always do.

[Mighty Girl]

We talk about anything and everything. The severity of our periods, cool stuff that guys do, idiotic stuff that guys do, overbearing parents, where to find a good deal on shoes, whether or not we should get highlights, etc.......

We go to the bathroom together for several reasons.

-People, especially guys, eavesdrop. We hate that. There have been times I've been talking about something very personal, and some doofus will be listening and use it as an "in" to start a conversation with me. Shocking as it may seem, I don't wish to discuss my ill-fitting bra with you, moron.

-We do it to talk about hot guys. To be caught eyeing a guy while in a group of girls often comes across as easy and skanky.

-We want to touch up our makeup, and in doing so, ask if our lipstick looks ok with our outfit. Also, if you get into a stall without toilet paper, one of your friends can always hand you some. And if you forgot something, one of your friends probably has some you can borrow.

[Mighty Girl]

Slightly OT, we were at a dinner event yesterday, and my 17 year old sister refused to go up to the buffet by herself to get more. She would NOT go unless my mom or myself went up with her. It was a whole 10 feet a way. What is up with that??

Standard teenage behavior. She probably figured if she went by herself that people would think she was a pig, but if she went with someone else, she could always rationalize that she was just accompanying them up there, and decided, what the heck, she'd get a little more too.

If there were other teenage girls there, I GUARANTEE this was the reason. Girls are vicious.

[blas]

We fix our makeup and hair and adjust ourselves (ahem, our bras for instance) in the bathroom because you men seem to whine and throw tantrums when we do it in your presence.

[ShortTemperHatesStupidity]

1) Everything that happens to cross our minds at the moment. It could be anything from how our shoes fit that evening to the latest gem to leave Mr. President Bush Jr's mouth... depends.

2) Safety in numbers if at a club. If at a restaurant it's usually to talk about you.

I hope this answers the questions-I see you got quite a few responses...

[Cia]

1. If we wanted you to know then we would translate from female speak to male speak - but what's the fun in that?

2. To drive guys crazy. And it evidently works.