Ok, so the other day I check my email, and I see a LinkedIn request from someone. It's my mother -- but using the last name of Prison Boy.
In reference to these two threads:
http://www.customerssuck.com/board/s...d.php?t=107407
http://www.customerssuck.com/board/s...d.php?t=111381
The problem I'm having is how to move forward. She sent me a "connect" request on LinkedIn.
We're in VASTLY different fields, and I try to keep my "connect" list limited to colleagues in tech, and tech recruiters.
So I'm thinking of responding, "When did you change your name?"
I know that the stuff is gonna hit the fan. Prison Boy gets out (or is supposed to, anyway) in March of 2017. So in the neighborhood of seven months.
I'm still considering taking some of the advice given in the previous threads on this topic. I have a feeling, though, that there will be a lot of guilt involved.
On top of it, mom doesn't make a lot of money anyway. She's likely going to have to support this guy, because it might be hard for him to get a job with his record. AND on top of it, she wants to take a cruise for her 60th birthday in January.
But the cruise is a side note. She's going to have a hard time finding a place to live, too, I think. If I know my sister like I think I do, she's going to check to make sure that Prison Boy registers as a sex offender within the amount of time he's supposed to. Sis is really not afraid to send him back to jail.
But I'm rambling.
Overall, what course of action do you guys think I should take as far as this LinkedIn thing? Part of me wants to roll the dice, so to speak, and just say, "So, when did you change your name??", and part of me just wants to ignore it until March.
Thoughts?
In reference to these two threads:
http://www.customerssuck.com/board/s...d.php?t=107407
http://www.customerssuck.com/board/s...d.php?t=111381
The problem I'm having is how to move forward. She sent me a "connect" request on LinkedIn.
We're in VASTLY different fields, and I try to keep my "connect" list limited to colleagues in tech, and tech recruiters.
So I'm thinking of responding, "When did you change your name?"
I know that the stuff is gonna hit the fan. Prison Boy gets out (or is supposed to, anyway) in March of 2017. So in the neighborhood of seven months.
I'm still considering taking some of the advice given in the previous threads on this topic. I have a feeling, though, that there will be a lot of guilt involved.
On top of it, mom doesn't make a lot of money anyway. She's likely going to have to support this guy, because it might be hard for him to get a job with his record. AND on top of it, she wants to take a cruise for her 60th birthday in January.
But the cruise is a side note. She's going to have a hard time finding a place to live, too, I think. If I know my sister like I think I do, she's going to check to make sure that Prison Boy registers as a sex offender within the amount of time he's supposed to. Sis is really not afraid to send him back to jail.
But I'm rambling.
Overall, what course of action do you guys think I should take as far as this LinkedIn thing? Part of me wants to roll the dice, so to speak, and just say, "So, when did you change your name??", and part of me just wants to ignore it until March.
Thoughts?
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