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  • #1

    Dear Abby - how do i tell my wife I found her sex tape?

    Well I'm giving this the "NSFW" tab just in case but there's no dirty links here really.

    It's just a letter from last month's Dear Abby posted in the Sun Times.

    http://www.suntimes.com/lifestyles/7...es-a-star.html



    Apparently he found a video online of his wife being porked. He's not upset cos it happened before they met but... apparently she didn't know she was being taped at the time... So, he's wondering if he should tell her about it.

    Abby's suggestions aren't really too bad... "Yes" but that he may have to explain HOW he found it too


    Although personally I'm thinking she may also have a legal case against the ex if he released it online without her permission...
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    John Prine - Dear Abby

    "You are what you are, and you ain't what you ain't."
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    • #3
      How does he know that his wife didn't know she was being filmed though?
      A crisis is a problem you can't control. Drama is a problem you can, but won't. - Otter

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      • #4
        That's a tough one! I would sure want her to know it was out there so we could get it pulled but I wouldn't want to have to explain how I found it. Can't exactly get a buddy to tell her either 'cause you know they would watch it first! What a slimey thing for an ex to do.

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        • #5
          Honey, did you notice you have 314,592 Facebook friend requests?
          I am not an a**hole. I am a hemorrhoid. I irritate a**holes!
          Procrastination: Forward planning to insure there is something to do tomorrow.
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          • #6
            That's incredibly sleazy and underhanded to secretly tape somebody like that and put it on blast online.
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            • #7
              The main problem I see with telling your wife is that as soon as you do, the issue is no longer going to be "Hey.. I have a this video" on the internet, but the issues will become "What were you looking for/doing when you found this", which could(and most likely) open up a big can off worms that would make the original video secondary.
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              • #8
                If he's been married for 10 years, he shouldn't have a hard time being honest with his wife.

                Or maybe he does, and now is a good time to start.

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                • #9
                  Quoth drunkenwildmage View Post
                  The main problem I see with telling your wife is that as soon as you do, the issue is no longer going to be "Hey.. I have a this video" on the internet, but the issues will become "What were you looking for/doing when you found this", which could(and most likely) open up a big can off worms that would make the original video secondary.
                  I guess that all depends on how she feels about him looking at porn...some wives are ok with it..
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                  • #10
                    Quoth BookstoreEscapee View Post
                    I guess that all depends on how she feels about him looking at porn...some wives are ok with it..
                    True. And there are some women who do like to look at porn as well.

                    Did I say that?
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                    • #11
                      I guess when I think about which is worse, the idea of hubbie looking for porn or a woman having been filmed, supposedly without her knowledge, and then posted online for the world to see...the online posting hands-down wins in the horror department.
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                      • #12
                        Quoth JambaBamba View Post
                        How does he know that his wife didn't know she was being filmed though?
                        Camera angles, whether it looks "natural" or not etc. (for instance, someone who KNOWS that they're being filmed might want to moan a bit more)

                        As for the camera angles, if it's at an awkward angle, it suggests that the camera was hidden.
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                        • #13
                          It's actually illegal for the ex to do this; if the wife can bear to do it, she could certainly prosecute him for putting the video online.

                          http://www.avvo.com/legal-answers/is...-t-316304.html
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