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The ex I broke up with...well...I am trying to be friends, but he is crossing the line.
We're still close and I still want to be around him before he leaves, but lately he is being a huge jerkoff. Why? Cause of a stray kitty.
Like my first from April, my friends and I found another stray. A male tabby. We named him Sapporo Car Bomb. (Don't hate)
Car Bomb is still a kitten but aside from a few moody moments, is very friendly and lovable. To everyone. (Much better than my Guinness who hates interaction unless you're sleeping or have food) He isn't fixed but we're working on that.
I told my ex we found a cat and would keep him outside. My new apartment is a safe haven for cats and rabbits, and people keep those pets outside cause its a like a tiny forest-y meadow-y like place. (The rabbits were turned loose by previous tenants, don't really come near people anymore, so we just feed them)
I think Car Bomb was previously owned, or may have been fostered, cause I smelled the type of flea medication we would give my late kitty Gizmo. Plus his personality and how the first thing he did in my house was go to the litterbox naturally, made us wonder. But no one has been claiming him and no one is missing a kitty it seems, so me and my neighbors help take care of him.
My ex...started being a total douche-monger about the whole thing. Started saying I was diseased cause of the kitty, and that he won't come near me. I knew he disliked cats, but that was fine before. He never started like this. He keeps saying I could have scabies or rabies or "parasites that come from saliva in the cats"
Scabies? No. Because we BOTH previously got scabies. Me once, him twice, and I remember being told by my doctor once you're exposed, latter cases come up much quicker cause you know what to look for plus your skin gets agitated easier.
Rabies? I doubt it. The parasites? I know kitties have worms but in my years of helping shelters and such in town, along with taking Zoology classes, I never heard of kitties here getting people sick with those.
He keeps taking it too far. I told him if he doesn't want to see me he CAN man up and just tell me so without being offensive but he keeps saying this is the only reason, but he won't drop it when I tell him to. I changed the subject but it goes back to that.
I'm diseased? He sounds like the one who is. In the head.
I miss him, but he is really making me want to cut off contact. Its that bad. Almost 4 years of being close being ruined over a cat? WTH
We're still close and I still want to be around him before he leaves, but lately he is being a huge jerkoff. Why? Cause of a stray kitty.
Like my first from April, my friends and I found another stray. A male tabby. We named him Sapporo Car Bomb. (Don't hate)
Car Bomb is still a kitten but aside from a few moody moments, is very friendly and lovable. To everyone. (Much better than my Guinness who hates interaction unless you're sleeping or have food) He isn't fixed but we're working on that.
I told my ex we found a cat and would keep him outside. My new apartment is a safe haven for cats and rabbits, and people keep those pets outside cause its a like a tiny forest-y meadow-y like place. (The rabbits were turned loose by previous tenants, don't really come near people anymore, so we just feed them)
I think Car Bomb was previously owned, or may have been fostered, cause I smelled the type of flea medication we would give my late kitty Gizmo. Plus his personality and how the first thing he did in my house was go to the litterbox naturally, made us wonder. But no one has been claiming him and no one is missing a kitty it seems, so me and my neighbors help take care of him.
My ex...started being a total douche-monger about the whole thing. Started saying I was diseased cause of the kitty, and that he won't come near me. I knew he disliked cats, but that was fine before. He never started like this. He keeps saying I could have scabies or rabies or "parasites that come from saliva in the cats"
Scabies? No. Because we BOTH previously got scabies. Me once, him twice, and I remember being told by my doctor once you're exposed, latter cases come up much quicker cause you know what to look for plus your skin gets agitated easier.
Rabies? I doubt it. The parasites? I know kitties have worms but in my years of helping shelters and such in town, along with taking Zoology classes, I never heard of kitties here getting people sick with those.
He keeps taking it too far. I told him if he doesn't want to see me he CAN man up and just tell me so without being offensive but he keeps saying this is the only reason, but he won't drop it when I tell him to. I changed the subject but it goes back to that.
I'm diseased? He sounds like the one who is. In the head.
I miss him, but he is really making me want to cut off contact. Its that bad. Almost 4 years of being close being ruined over a cat? WTH
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