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  • Flying Off To See a Lovely Woman

    "Oh, Jester, not another post about the new girlfriend?"

    No, it isn't. I am flying off to see a lovely woman, who I love dearly, but it's not my new girlfriend. Furthermore, it's a woman my new girlfriend knows about, has no problem with, and actually wants me to go see.

    No, we're not swingers. The woman I'm flying off to see is my niece, Dragon. My favorite niece, if you will. Practically my daughter, as some of you may remember. So naturally the new girlfriend is totally fine with it. If she wasn't, she'd be the new EX-girlfriend.

    In any case, Friday is Dragon's 22nd birthday. It seems like just yesterday that she was graduating high school and we were jumping out of an airplane together. (In fact, it was June of 2012.) Dragon didn't really have much of a 21st birthday, since she was involved with a complete dirtbag criminal druggie asshole, and was doing stuff she isn't proud of, and has been trying to rebuild her life ever since. She's had some bumps in the road along the way--I've lit into her a couple times, and scolded her a bit tonight on what it means to be an adult, especially with so many people trying to help her get back on her feet--but I think she's progressing, even if it's slower than I'd prefer.

    In any case, I decided she deserved a real 21st birthday, and so I am flying off to Texas to surprise her for her birthday, and take her out for some good craft beer, which she likes. Hopefully she will also see what hard work can garner you, since she can't do for herself what I'm gonna do for her: take her into Houston (she lives out in the sticks beyond Houston), take her to a real craft beer bar, and put the two of us up in a nice hotel for the evening so we don't have to drive all the way back to the sticks that night. And she is smart enough and knows she's smart enough to do far more with her life than I've done so far with mine.

    In any case, it's a mini vacation to go see a woman I love dearly, and to have my first legal drink with my Mija. I just hope she's REALLY surprised when I show up tomorrow.

    "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is
    Still A Customer."


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    She was really, really surprised.

    "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is
    Still A Customer."

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    • #3
      Quoth Jester View Post
      She was really, really surprised.
      Glad you enjoyed it, Jester!

      Hopefully you started her down the path of having discriminating beer tastes, and moved her forward down that positive path that you wanted.
      Skilled programmers aren't cheap. Cheap programmers aren't skilled.

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      • #4
        On the first point, she was already on that path, enjoying good craft beer, though she couldn't always afford it. I merely was feeding her tastes, and giving her an idea of what else could be out there. I would never take a non-craft beer drinker to drink craft beer for their birthday unless that was what they wanted. This was special for her because she already had a taste for good draft beer. Not that I had anything to do with that taste being cultivated over the years.

        As for the second point.....I hope so. But we'll see. She's in a better spot than she was last year, certainly, but she has not been living up to her end of the bargain with her mom, stepdad, and other uncle, and it's now been made clear to her that she needs to do better, because we're not always going to bail her out of situations, and she needs to become more self-sufficient. And start being the adult that she is, in actions, not just age. Drinking good beer is one of the perks of being 22, but there are also responsibilities, and she needs to address those. Will she? As I said, we'll see.

        "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is
        Still A Customer."

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        • #5
          Gonna come to Orlando last week of December to come visit me?
          "I've found that when you want to know the truth about someone, that someone is probably the last person you should ask." - House

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          • #6
            Quoth Greenday View Post
            Gonna come to Orlando last week of December to come visit me?
            Highly unlikely, I'm afraid, for several reasons, some of them being:

            --the last week of December is very busy here, and it seems unlikely I'll be able to take the time off.

            --even if I could, it's unlikely I'd be able to afford it, as I plan on flying out to California in early December to see my girlfriend who, no offense, is a lot cuter than you.

            --chances are good my various would-be hosts in Orlando would be busy with holiday doings, and would not be able to put me up.

            "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is
            Still A Customer."

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