The plan was BFF come out the second week of Nov and stay through the holidays.
The DAY AFTER she arrives I have to take her to the ER because she misplaced her antibiotics on the road. The Dr says "Due to your past medical history I was to do a CT scan."
Yeah, sure, OK.
Well... they found a mass in her lung.
She left right after turkey day, had a biopsy that week, they found a second mass.
Yes it's cancer.
They staged it last week... it's stage 4.
Surgery would be possible if there was only one tumor.
She is refusing chemo and radiation.
At this point they are watching it to see how fast it's growing so they can get a time line on how long she has to live.
I have been sleeping between 4 and 6 hours a night ever since the ER visit.
At stores when they ask "How are you today?" 50/50 I burst into tears. They're just not prepared for THAT!
I've known her longer than I haven't known her. She's the sister I chose.
And she'll be gone soon.
The DAY AFTER she arrives I have to take her to the ER because she misplaced her antibiotics on the road. The Dr says "Due to your past medical history I was to do a CT scan."
Yeah, sure, OK.
Well... they found a mass in her lung.
She left right after turkey day, had a biopsy that week, they found a second mass.
Yes it's cancer.
They staged it last week... it's stage 4.
Surgery would be possible if there was only one tumor.
She is refusing chemo and radiation.
At this point they are watching it to see how fast it's growing so they can get a time line on how long she has to live.
I have been sleeping between 4 and 6 hours a night ever since the ER visit.
At stores when they ask "How are you today?" 50/50 I burst into tears. They're just not prepared for THAT!
I've known her longer than I haven't known her. She's the sister I chose.
And she'll be gone soon.
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