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    My mother has Parkinson's. It is not only affecting her (control over her) body, but also her mind. She is sometimes hallucinating, she mis-remembers things, and words don't come out right.

    She has been in an assisted living facility since late last year, and she is going downhill at a slow but accelerating rate. (Not sure if it's at 9.8 m/s^2 or not.)

    I stopped in early this week, and she asked if I was really there. Because I and my step-father had been there earlier that day, evidently, but wouldn't talk to her. (Despite the fact that I was at work at the time, and he was up at the house and not at Mom's.)

    She also called me yesterday to ask if I had spent the afternoon with her. I had not; I was at work again.

    She knows she is hallucinating. That has got to really, really, really suck.

    Pretty hard on me, too.
    “There are two novels that can change a bookish fourteen-year old’s life: The Lord of the Rings and Atlas Shrugged.
    One is a childish fantasy that often engenders a lifelong obsession with its unbelievable heroes, leading to an emotionally stunted, socially crippled adulthood, unable to deal with the real world.
    The other, of course, involves orcs." -- John Rogers

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    I had an uncle with Parkinson's -- I didn't know hallucinations could be part of that. I'm so sorry. That's gotta be really tough on everybody.
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    • #3
      It is really tough. I lost my Mom to dementia. As was mentioned in Kanalah's thread about her grandmother, it's like they died twice.

      Prayers and good thoughts to you and your family.
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      • #4
        My mom has had Parkinson's since she was in her early 40s. She's now in her late 60s. One thing that greatly improved her quality of life was http://www.parkinson.org/understandi...in-Stimulation

        Your mom may or may not be a candidate but it's worth looking into.

        My prayers are definitely with you and your mother.
        Question authority, but raise your hand first. -Alan M. Bershowitz

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        • #5
          Sending good thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

          Other than that, the only advice I can offer you is to take things one day at a time.
          Human Resources - the adult version of "I'm telling Mom." - Agent Anthony "Tony" DiNozzo (NCIS)

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          • #6
            *hugs NunavutPants*
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