At Alice Cooper andMisfits concert, but Can’t leave

[depechemodefan]

My 55 year old husband loves going to concerts that have his favorite bands from his youth. More than a month ago was the Circle Jerks, 2 weeks ago we see Front 242, tonight is Fear, Alice Cooper and the Misfits, and he wants to see Black Flag next week . We saw Front 242 a year or two ago, this the third time seeing AC, we went especially to Chicago to see the Misfits, not counting when we saw Danzig. He can’t go by himself, he doesn’t like going by himself and he drinks a lot so he needs a dd (I don’t drink). I don’t like going out so much .
Then he’s in a garage band, and I’m stuck going with him be because he drinks at his gigs, and I don’t like the music of his band.
Last week the gig his band had was cancelled. His friend suppose To go to that concert. Today was the concert we are at now but he never told me his friend was coming with us. He swore he told me. I told him he did not or else I would have suggested he take his friend. Side note , friend said he wasn’t sure he was going because he had a ride with other friends but he wasn’t sure they were going. Ugh.
so when told my husband plans could be altered, like me dropping them off and picking them up latter, he said the ticket was $60, though several times he bought tickets for shows and didn’t go because he had to work or feeling sick, and not worried to much he lost money.
I have more about how I feel he doesn’t listen to me but I’ll talk about it tomorrow.

[Kristev]

Can you tell him to make someone else the D. D.?

[depechemodefan]

Can you tell him to make someone else the D. D.?

Unfortunately he doesn't know many people. Yeah, he could get Uber, but he doesn't want to be by himself.

The rest of the story: So when The Misfits came on stage, I told my husband, "why don't I go, then come back at the end and pick you up?" Of course he does'nt want me to go and said, "It will be a long line of cars to pick up people. And it won't be safe for you to walk by yourself/" Which he's kidding, the ass, since he has me going out by myself at night to buy him beer. Though I don't know if it is rude to leave people behind to do your own thing when you all go out.
Like that time I was with some relatives, waiting at a Pizza buffet place for another family who are throwing a party for their son, and we were invited. I wanted to walk to a Toys R US to buy a toy for the boy (I was over 40 at the time), and one relative was saying I couldn't go since it was rude to leave them. Then one relative tries to walk in, saying someone else was paying for them, and was told since it wasn't paid ahead, she would have to pay to get in. And so she said she needed to use the bathroom. She walks in without us, goes to the bathroom and then goes to serve herself.
Anyway, the point is I wanted to not go, then when I was there I wan'ted to leave. And of course his friend was another one of those people that don't pay for anything, like the hotel or food. He bought himself a concert shirt, not even a beer for my husband. The next morning I had to move our car before 7am or at least put money in the meter. I was planning to put money in the meter, since paying for parking at the hotel would be $30. At first my husband (after I parked the car the concert in front of the hotel) said I had to move it. like "huh-huh, your going to move it." I got up, but he got up and said he will but money in it and got my coins for t he meter. But he paid $30, when we will be there only 4 more hours. Anyway, I decided to get our breakfast at 7am. Around 9 the friend decided to get up and get breakfast downstairs, and brought plates of eggs, bacon. He did latter on give us $15, so at least it's a little bit of gas. I guess I'm salty since my husband's brother didn't give him anything when he stayed in our hotel room when we went to Corpus a month ago. When I mentioned he didn't give any money, the brother says, "well who lets you borrow his Hulu account? Uh-huh." Considering how he kept his broken down Mustang in our garage for years and never paid my husband for storing his car....he's a dick.

[depechemodefan]

Hee, I was thinking about start drinking Kittish, for him to see how it is to have a drunk wife around who can't do anything for him, being as drunk as him. But I don't enjoy drinking. Teas sounds like a good Idea. I can act drunk. Or hey, I like weed, I can smoke some before hand.