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  • #31
    Quoth GingerBiscuit View Post
    I'm not sure anyone else would appreciate nude bondage photos, even if they are really well p0hotographed and look fantastic.
    Says who?

    Quoth Jester View Post
    2. PM said pics to said interested parties upon request. And if we're pulling numbers for that, I'd like to claim 1, please.
    I'd like to claim 2, please.
    If I dropped everybody who occasionally said something stupid from my list of potential partners, I wouldn’t even be able to masturbate

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    • #32
      Quoth GingerBiscuit View Post
      They are really, really, REALLY likely to get me banned. I'm not sure anyone else would appreciate nude bondage photos, even if they are really well p0hotographed and look fantastic.
      Bondage Makes Everything Better.

      Quoth Jester View Post
      PM said pics to said interested parties upon request. And if we're pulling numbers for that, I'd like to claim 1, please.
      Claiming 3 on my end.
      Now a member of that alien race called Management.

      Yeah, you see that right. Pink. Harness.

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      • #33
        By the way, I should point out that I am not in any way a bondage fan, but if the subject is right (say, GB), I can make exceptions.

        As I say this, I notice that my PM box is sadly, like my dating life, disturbingly quiet. Why am I not surprised?

        Quoth draggar View Post
        Where was it? I should get that for my wife.
        I saw it in Ft. Myers Beach, FL, but I am sure you can find said t-shirts online.

        "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is
        Still A Customer."

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        • #34
          Quoth HorrorFrogPrincess View Post
          I've got the booty, but the rack does NOT match. >>
          LOL! If it means anything, my rack has actually been shrinking as of late. In fact, I should tell the truth and change my tag to "C Cups Full of Justice (if that!)".

          Stupid female body-lose 5 pounds, and 4 come from your tits.

          Quoth HorrorFrogPrincess View Post
          The Ass that Launched a Thousand Ships.
          And this?!? Genius! I'm seriously tempted to steal it... I won't, but I'm damn tempted...
          "This is the first time I've seen you look ugly, and that makes me happy!"

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          • #35
            Quoth Jester View Post
            1. Post a link only. Those who want to see can go see, those who don't, won't.
            2. PM said pics to said interested parties upon request. And if we're pulling numbers for that, I'd like to claim 1, please.
            Links out in the open are against established site rules. PMs are fine, but I suspect a professional photographer won't have them up on a website to see.

            Rapscallion

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            • #36
              Ginger,

              As you (might) know, I have serious health issues. I've come up with a line of self-talk that helps me feel better about my appearance. It goes kind of like this:


              My genotype is a human female genotype, therefore my body's natural shape and structure and colouring is a human female shape and structure and colouring.

              Starting from when I searched for a good doctor, I have been looking after my body to the best of my ability given the information I had and the condition I was in.

              Therefore my body is a human female shape etc that has been being looked after to the best of my ability for more than ten years.

              Ergo: as long as I'm clean, my nails are trimmed, my hair is unknotted, and I have clothing that fits and is in good condition, I look just fine. Maybe even hot.



              PS: clothing is really important for helping you look good.

              Find a neutral that suits your colouring, and a set of colours that suit your colouring (and each other). Get swatches of those colours: raid your local hardware store's paint-sample counter.

              Find a style that suits your body, lifestyle and personality.

              Get a set of classic basics in the neutrals.
              Always buy your 'fancy' or 'personal flair' clothes and your accessories in the colours (or the neutrals, just sometimes).

              Make sure the clothes *fit* properly. Get to know a dressmaker or an alterations place, and get them to tell you what fitting problems are cheap/easy, and which are hard. Or learn to alter clothes yourself.
              If there's a garment you like but the alterations would be expensive or really hard, don't buy it! Only buy things that fit you properly, or can be cheaply/easily altered to fit properly.
              The wardrobe manager for Seinfeld got George's clothes one size too small to make him look dorky. One size too big is better than one size too small! The right size is even better.

              Keep your clothes in good condition.

              Review the colours and styles every few years. Not every year, just when you've made a significant change to your general appearance, or every five years (cause age changes you).

              Do this, and you'll be able to blindly reach for any of your clothes and make a great outfit you'll look fantastic in!

              Of course, it will take time to get to the stage where your whole wardrobe is like this. But it will happen!
              Seshat's self-help guide:
              1. Would you rather be right, or get the result you want?
              2. If you're consistently getting results you don't want, change what you do.
              3. Deal with the situation you have now, however it occurred.
              4. Accept the consequences of your decisions.

              "All I want is a pretty girl, a decent meal, and the right to shoot lightning at fools." - Anders, Dragon Age.

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              • #37
                Quoth Jester View Post
                By the way, I should point out that I am not in any way a bondage fan, but if the subject is right (say, GB), I can make exceptions.

                As I say this, I notice that my PM box is sadly, like my dating life, disturbingly quiet. Why am I not surprised?

                I saw it in Ft. Myers Beach, FL, but I am sure you can find said t-shirts online.
                She's a tease. (j/k)

                TY for the T-shirt information, I'll look it up when I get home.

                Quoth Rapscallion View Post
                Links out in the open are against established site rules. PMs are fine, but I suspect a professional photographer won't have them up on a website to see.

                Rapscallion
                If she has the pictures, she can scan them and post them online. Even in a password protected directory (note to OP: disable right clicking if you do this).

                I'll put down $20 that Raps PM'ed her for the link.
                Quote Dalesys:
                ... as in "Ifn thet dawg comes at me, Ima gonna shutz ma panz!"

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                • #38
                  Quoth draggar View Post
                  I'll put down $20 that Raps PM'ed her for the link.
                  Then you've lost. I accept payment in cookies.

                  Zero calorie cookies.

                  Rapscallion

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                  • #39
                    $20-worth of cookies then

                    I've gone on about my appearance before. Let's just say that it hasn't done me any favors. Still, I haven't aged like some people I know
                    Aerodynamics are for people who can't build engines. --Enzo Ferrari

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                    • #40
                      Quoth Jester View Post


                      I almost got a t-shirt for a friend of mine while on vacation that would work just as well for you. On the front it read "Who needs big boobs?" And on the back, with an arrow pointing down, it read "...when you've got an ass like THIS?"
                      Oh, wow. I SO need to get that!


                      Quoth JuniorMintz View Post
                      LOL! If it means anything, my rack has actually been shrinking as of late. In fact, I should tell the truth and change my tag to "C Cups Full of Justice (if that!)".

                      Stupid female body-lose 5 pounds, and 4 come from your tits.



                      And this?!? Genius! I'm seriously tempted to steal it... I won't, but I'm damn tempted...
                      Yeah, you never lose it where you want to lose it.

                      And I may have to put that on a different T-shirt. With a Jolly Roger attached. Butt-love and Pirates. Together at last.
                      "For the love of all that is holy and 4 things that aren’t but feel pretty good anyway" ~ Gravekeeper

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                      • #41
                        Quoth draggar View Post
                        Where was it?
                        Quoth HorrorFrogPrincess View Post
                        Oh, wow. I SO need to get that!
                        I've seen it on tshirthell.com

                        Unseen but seeing
                        oh dear, now they're masquerading as sane-KiaKat
                        There isn't enough interpretive dance in the workplace these days-Irv
                        3rd shift needs love, too
                        RIP, mo bhrionglóid

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                        • #42
                          Quoth Becks View Post
                          I've seen it on tshirthell.com

                          Thank you. I'll check there. ^^
                          "For the love of all that is holy and 4 things that aren’t but feel pretty good anyway" ~ Gravekeeper

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                          • #43
                            Ok, I've found his website. He is a famous photorgrapher- people pay for his prints and apparently a few of mine have been quite popular, including the one we've ordered a copy of- so I can pm people his website, so you can see his style- but I'm not on there. I do have a few unfinished, unedited photos he sent me, but the finished ones are better.

                            Edit- Jos just said I am whats wrong with the modern world. I have a pretty face, amazing hair, and a body that screams sex and fertility- and myshape is unfashionable, my face is old-fashioned, my hair is 'untameable' All words used to describe me in the past.

                            And all I can see is that I'm short, pale, with big arse and a little waist and-yes, the rack to match- but I'm not all tall and lean and long limbed and tanned and oval faced.

                            Seshat
                            I don;t wear netrals, at all, I'm too much of a goth for neutrals other than black, but I have a real problem with fit. I am teaching myself to sew, because of it. A picture of my body- no head- is on 'shape of the nation' on the channel four website, if it's still up.

                            No modern clothes are designed to fit me, and I can't afford custom. Goddamn it, if I ever win the lottery that's the first expenditure.
                            Deepak Chopra says, "Fear deprives people of choice. Fear shrinks the world into isolated, defensive enclaves. Fear spirals out of control. Fear makes everyday life seem clouded over with danger.

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                            • #44
                              I totally feel you, GB. I'm just....*sigh* dumpy and overweight. Nice rack, fairly nice rear, but I carry a lot of weight in my belly and its. just. so. hard. Hard to find clothing, hard to find sexy underthings, hard to look in the mirror sans clothing, and hard to be comfortable nude with BT.

                              Blah.
                              "Even arms dealers need groceries." ~ Ziva David, NCIS

                              Tony: "Everyone's counting on you, just do what you do best."
                              Abby: "Dance?" ~ NCIS

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                              • #45
                                Quoth AdminAssistant View Post
                                find sexy underthings
                                Frederick's of Hollywood.

                                Pricey but worth it. Remember, quality over quantity.
                                I'm bringing disdain back...with a vengeance.

                                Oh, and your tool box called...you got out again.

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