House Hunting and about to scream!

[bookworm]

When we bought our house, we literally looked at hundreds (like 400-500) of houses. Found a house we liked, bid on it, and got outbid. Found a house we liked better and got outbid on that one.

Finally found the house we bought, and it's almost exactly what we wanted (and better than the other 2 houses we bid on). The only real complaint I have is a very small yard.

It took a full 3 months to finally find out house though.

It's out there somewhere, it just takes time to find that perfect deal.

[LewisLegion]

It's not the skills, its the cost.

To make that house move in ready, I would at the very least have to replace two toilets, resurface or replace both tubs (which due to design would mean cutting them out of the wall, cutting a whole in the wall to remove them through, and then repairing those cuts once the new tubs are in place). To resurface would likely still mean at least cutting tile away from the tub and then having to replace it again. I would also have to replace four broken windows...frames and all.

That's just to be able to move in and tolerate it while the rest of the stuff is done.

[AccountingDrone]

I'm not so much worried about finding the perfect house in the perfect condition. I don't mind a little fixing. What I do mind is having to spend four thousand after I buy the house JUST so I can move into it. The duplex would have had to have all the toilets, sinks, and tubs replaced or fixed before they'd be functional.

Replacing porch banisters or ugly faucets...that I can handle and expect at the price range I'm looking at. But peering in a window of a house I want to purchase and seeing one room made of nothing but framework and plywood...that's beyond my capabilites or even desires.

Thanks for the luck, sweetie.

good luck, though replacing the bathroom components are actually pretty easy, and dont really take that much in the way of tools ... and most home depots/lowes have people that can advise you on how to do it .. I may have started out an inside/outside mechanic, but i didnt use any of my mad mechanicle skillz replacing the toilet. I just made sure that I had a new seal to replace the one I scraped off, and the right tools for the job [and surgical gloves are great for helping scunge off the old nasty seal ... ]

Maybe you should consider reconsidering that property? If gimpy old girly me can do it, you should be able to do it=)

[LewisLegion]

That's ok, EQ, but thanks for the offer My realtor has been fantastic.

I sent her a list yesterday of about nine houses I found...she sent me back two of them, crossing the others off the list for various reasons...pending, pending, cash only...

You know how much easier things would be if realty websites ACTUALLY listed the loan types they allow on a property? I can't tell you how many I've sent her only to get back that they are cash/conventional only.

[draftermatt]

I've bought 2 houses, and nothing else compares to the stress, the sleepless nights, etc.

The first time we found a few houses that we liked, but sold within like 5 minutes of us stepping foot into them. (2003, when things were good in the finicial world).

The 2nd time the buyer of our house backed out at the last minute (he paid for it, I made him cover all my expenses in getting the house ready for him then double it).

But once you find that place, get settled in and say "I'm home" all that other stuff kinda melts away.

Good luck!

[Evil Queen]

Well, what is your price range and are you still in Washington? I used to know a realtor out there. I can see if she still lives there if you want.

[LewisLegion]

I'm not so much worried about finding the perfect house in the perfect condition. I don't mind a little fixing. What I do mind is having to spend four thousand after I buy the house JUST so I can move into it. The duplex would have had to have all the toilets, sinks, and tubs replaced or fixed before they'd be functional.

Replacing porch banisters or ugly faucets...that I can handle and expect at the price range I'm looking at. But peering in a window of a house I want to purchase and seeing one room made of nothing but framework and plywood...that's beyond my capabilites or even desires.

Thanks for the luck, sweetie.

[Evil Queen]

Buying houses are hard. But usually worth it in the long run. If you're handy with a hammer, paintbrush and drill, go for a fixer upper. Even doing the simplest of things (replacing the porch banister, for instance) will add LOADS of value to the house. Heck, replacing the faucets alone increases value by something like a grand.

Unfortunately, unless you spend loads of money up front, you're not going to get the perfect house in perfect condition.

Good luck Lewis. I wish you the best.

[LewisLegion]

I really haven’t fallen off the face of the planet or anything, I swear. What’s happened is thusly:

My best friend and her husband came and visited me in October. She’s closer to me than some of my own sisters…in fact, pretty much all of my own sisters. I’ve known her for a decade. They live in PA though she has come to see me several times.

Anyway, they hate PA. She has very little social network or structure there, her family being…dysfunctional at best. Her husband as well is sick of the area.

My family loves her. They love this area.

So we made a plan.

I would buy a house (something I was intending to do eventually anyway)…a duplex or a split level or something of that nature. Once the house was secure, they would come cross country and move in with me. We would split the mortgage and they would stay as long as they needed/wanted until they found (felt the need to) move into their own place.

So anyway, I’ve been on the house hunt now officially for about two months. I’ve been working extra-uber-overtime to get the down payment and stuff ready and I am out looking.

This is my first house. I’m working with a fabulous realtor and banker but man…I’m about going insane! I get a lead on a house that will work, that we like, go and see it and it’s either a) crap or b) some other wall jumps in our way.

For instance, found a duplex that would work beautifully, gorgeous pictures…only it needs repainting in and out, windows replaced, entry floor rebuilt, tubs resurfaced, all plumbing fixtures replaced, fenced, flooring replaced, porch steps rebuilt, and the basement floods. Basically it would need 20-50 thou more after we bought it to make it ‘ok.’.

So scratch that.

Found a rambler that we all liked, big yard. Not EXACTLY our perfect ideal…but workable. Little bit of fixing up. Nothing we couldn’t handle. Ten thou under my max affordability. Decide to put an offer in, the listing agent calls us before we do and basically laughs, says don’t bother, seller’s ready to walk away, another offer is in anyway, blah blah blah. So I told my agent ok then, don’t bother.

Next day the listing agent calls my agent again and says ‘what happened to your offer? We really want to sell this place…” And my agent told him in no blunt terms why exactly our offer hadn’t gone in. The house is still listed for sale and I may reconsider it again at some point, but I don’t play those games.

Find two houses in a rural area where the pics are GORGEOUS. Again, the pics lie on the first one. It’s garbage, roof needs replacing, windows broken, next to a very LOUD train that runs every hour, and on the riverside that FLOODS. Scratch it off. *sigh*

Another one that IS in fact gorgeous but it’s a short sale. Put an offer in last night, this morning the agent laughs, says I need to put my ‘best foot forward’ if I want the property…I put in my max offer. That WAS my best foot. So…we’ll see what happens with it but I doubt it’s gonna go through.

Is getting a house always like this?? It’s like I almost don’t dare get excited about anything any more because the moment I do the door gets slammed in my face.

Bleh. Anyway, sorry. Just had to vent. Any support/thoughts appreciated.