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    Growing a Pair: FAILED (rant)

    Remember these people? My husband's supposed best friend C (for coward, cretin, etc) and his wife B (for...well, you can surely guess)?

    http://www.customerssuck.com/board/s...ad.php?t=36107

    Today N, the husband, saw that C had put pics up on his Facebook page. Of his birthday party from last week. A birthday party N was NOT invited to.

    Now, to be fair, apparently it was a surprise party and B sent out the invites. She invited all C's pals from the town they live in, and all the guys N and C hung out with in high school (and whom N still sees and plays WOW with).

    All except N.

    Now N says maybe she didn't have our new address, or his new e-mail address. But, since she was inviting ALL the friends they both know, don't you think she could have asked one of them for his new contact info?

    I told N he is far too forgiving. As far as I'm concerned, all evidence points to BITCH ON A STICK.

    I think he should go on C's Facebook page and make a comment such as, "Wow, looks like you guys had fun."

    Nothing accusatory. Just letting them know that he knows.

    Passive aggressive? Yeah. Beneath us? Yeah, but it just makes me livid.

    And he will probably let it drop, which is up to him. But he has spoken to his high school friends about it so they all know that he was shunned. I am personally hoping it will get back to C.

    I know, it's none of my business. But N is the single finest man I have ever met and he doesn't deserve to be treated this way by some evil bitch who hates him (for some reason I can't fathom...or maybe she just hates me and didn't want him to show up at the party with me?), so I can't help but feel outraged on his behalf. I know he is hurt by it even if he pretends to shrug it off.

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    Good people don't deserve to be treated like dirt. I wonder what C thought when he learned one of his friends wasn't there? And then learned N wasn't invited.
    Ridiculous 2009 Predictions: Evil Queen will beat Martha Stewart to death with a muffin pan. All hail Evil Queen! (Some things don't need elaboration.....) -- Jester

    Ridiculous 2010 Predictions: Evil Queen, after escaping prison for last years prediction, goes out and waffle irons Rachel Ray to death. -- SG15Z

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    • #3
      That's the thing, if B sent out the invitations, maybe she just told C we couldn't make it, so he doesn't know N wasn't invited. That's why I hope word of N being shunned gets back to him.

      I hate drama.
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      • #4
        Drama is only good on TV.

        *gives hugs and offers cookies*
        Ridiculous 2009 Predictions: Evil Queen will beat Martha Stewart to death with a muffin pan. All hail Evil Queen! (Some things don't need elaboration.....) -- Jester

        Ridiculous 2010 Predictions: Evil Queen, after escaping prison for last years prediction, goes out and waffle irons Rachel Ray to death. -- SG15Z

        Ridiculous 2011 Prediction: Evil Queen will beat Gordon Ramsay over the head with a cast-iron skillet. -- FireHeart

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        • #5
          Well if your husband doesn't want to say anything then you always have the option of leaving a message on his facebook page about not being invited. Maybe he wants to stay quiet but if it hurts him then shouldn't you tell C that he's hurting his friend?
          How was I supposed to know someone was slipping you Birth Control in the food I've been making for you lately?

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          • #6
            "Looks like you guys had fun" won't give that "I wasn't invited" vibe.

            I suggest "Wow, you had a party? Hope you had a good time!" The surprise of finding out there was a party giving away the "I was not invited" part.

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            • #7
              I am not close enough to C to get involved, and N wouldn't like it if I was. I made it clear to him how I feel about them, and he can handle the rest. He's an adult and when he finally gets sick of the bullshit he'll cut them out. And C will regret not standing up to her, having lost his best friend.

              The sad thing is, at one point in their relationship N could have totally said, "Hey man, why wasn't I invited?" and they could have figured it out. They were very honest with each other.

              After their kid was born we sent them a nice gift (despite the fact we never got a birth announcement...) and got this sickly fake thank you note from B, saying, "When you have your baby we can arrange play dates!"

              Yeah, not if I have anything to say about it, you harpy.
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