..it lands at my front door....@ 3am.
So, ive vented on here before about my sister. To sum her up: Shes 23, no job, no motivatoin, HUGE pothead and generally a bitch all around. Shes lives with my parents and listens to nothing they say, but they support her and basically put up with her shit.
Wellll, my sister and her current BF came to visit me lat night, which usually is a pain in the ass, trying to entertain them, while all they do is show up high and eat all my hot pockets. But they came sober and we actually had a good time! Played cards and I was drinking wine so i was relaxed, all in all, it was a good night.
They leave and me and hubby go to bed at like midnight. 3am...my doorbell rings. I sleepily kick my hubby out of bed and tell him to answer it. He comes back upstairs and says my sister has to talk to me and shes crying. I throw on a robe and go downstairs to my sister and her BF.
Me: What happened?
SistersBF: Umm, she got like, kicked out the house by your dad.
Me: What happened?
SisBF: He took her key.
Me: OK, but WHAT happened?
So, long story short...they got caught FUCKING by my mom. My dad was hearing weird noises from her attic bedroom and sent mom to investigate. This is an issue b.c her BF is not allowed to be in the house after 9pm and they dont like him due to other issues theyve had (arguing alot and etc). But shes been doing this shit for YEARS, sneaking her BF's and others up to her room for God knows what.
Anywho, my dad kicked her BF outta the house and told my sister to hand over her key so she took that for her getting kicked out too, so they left. Apparently they stood in front of my house for an hour or so debating whether or not to wake us up, but they had no where to go. Im not going to turn ANYONE away at 3am, much less my sister, so I inflated a mattress and told them to go to sleep after talking to them a little bit.
I call my mom this morning @ 0730, and she starts yelling at me. She thought I was my sister. Lol. she calms down after she realizes its me, but is pretty pissed by the previous nights events. I talked to her for maybe 10 minutes, telling her that yes my sister needs to get herself straight but you dont start by foisting her off on other family members when you refuse to fix the problems at home.
Thats not exactly fair to say, my parents do try to talk to her and whatever, but their efforts are admittedly halfassed. They for lack of a better word, spoiled her after my older brother and I moved outta the house.
So immediately after I hang up with my mom, my dad calls. Hes LIVID...tells me about what happened last night, that he didnt kick her out, she followed him after my dad kicked the bf out. And to tell BF if he sees him again, hes going to kick his ass. Fine.
I go back to bed and wake up a little later. Wake them up, relay to them what the parents said, and my sister just refuses to talk. I encourage her to calll my parents that she can go back home. But like the stubborn jackass she is, she refuses and her and her BF leave to go to see about a job app for him.
/sigh..
I love my sister, but I refuse to support her financially. I think she has some major depression going on that she self medicates with weed and alcohol and usually any other drug she can get her hands on, sadly. She wont get a job, she stopped going to school and for NO reason. She doesnt listen to reason, and if you want her to do anything for herself, she wont. She is a HUGE entitlement whore. I have no idea where she got it from. She literally had to be hand fed to go to school and the only job shes ever had was given to her my my cousin who was a manager, but once he saw what an EW she was, she convenienly wasnt given hours until she was off the schedule altogether.
IDK!!!! I hope she goes home and talks to the parentals and gets her shit together but im not holding my breath.
This'll make for an awkward holiday.
So, ive vented on here before about my sister. To sum her up: Shes 23, no job, no motivatoin, HUGE pothead and generally a bitch all around. Shes lives with my parents and listens to nothing they say, but they support her and basically put up with her shit.
Wellll, my sister and her current BF came to visit me lat night, which usually is a pain in the ass, trying to entertain them, while all they do is show up high and eat all my hot pockets. But they came sober and we actually had a good time! Played cards and I was drinking wine so i was relaxed, all in all, it was a good night.
They leave and me and hubby go to bed at like midnight. 3am...my doorbell rings. I sleepily kick my hubby out of bed and tell him to answer it. He comes back upstairs and says my sister has to talk to me and shes crying. I throw on a robe and go downstairs to my sister and her BF.
Me: What happened?
SistersBF: Umm, she got like, kicked out the house by your dad.
Me: What happened?
SisBF: He took her key.
Me: OK, but WHAT happened?
So, long story short...they got caught FUCKING by my mom. My dad was hearing weird noises from her attic bedroom and sent mom to investigate. This is an issue b.c her BF is not allowed to be in the house after 9pm and they dont like him due to other issues theyve had (arguing alot and etc). But shes been doing this shit for YEARS, sneaking her BF's and others up to her room for God knows what.
Anywho, my dad kicked her BF outta the house and told my sister to hand over her key so she took that for her getting kicked out too, so they left. Apparently they stood in front of my house for an hour or so debating whether or not to wake us up, but they had no where to go. Im not going to turn ANYONE away at 3am, much less my sister, so I inflated a mattress and told them to go to sleep after talking to them a little bit.
I call my mom this morning @ 0730, and she starts yelling at me. She thought I was my sister. Lol. she calms down after she realizes its me, but is pretty pissed by the previous nights events. I talked to her for maybe 10 minutes, telling her that yes my sister needs to get herself straight but you dont start by foisting her off on other family members when you refuse to fix the problems at home.
Thats not exactly fair to say, my parents do try to talk to her and whatever, but their efforts are admittedly halfassed. They for lack of a better word, spoiled her after my older brother and I moved outta the house.
So immediately after I hang up with my mom, my dad calls. Hes LIVID...tells me about what happened last night, that he didnt kick her out, she followed him after my dad kicked the bf out. And to tell BF if he sees him again, hes going to kick his ass. Fine.
I go back to bed and wake up a little later. Wake them up, relay to them what the parents said, and my sister just refuses to talk. I encourage her to calll my parents that she can go back home. But like the stubborn jackass she is, she refuses and her and her BF leave to go to see about a job app for him.
/sigh..
I love my sister, but I refuse to support her financially. I think she has some major depression going on that she self medicates with weed and alcohol and usually any other drug she can get her hands on, sadly. She wont get a job, she stopped going to school and for NO reason. She doesnt listen to reason, and if you want her to do anything for herself, she wont. She is a HUGE entitlement whore. I have no idea where she got it from. She literally had to be hand fed to go to school and the only job shes ever had was given to her my my cousin who was a manager, but once he saw what an EW she was, she convenienly wasnt given hours until she was off the schedule altogether.
IDK!!!! I hope she goes home and talks to the parentals and gets her shit together but im not holding my breath.
This'll make for an awkward holiday.
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