Announcement

Collapse
No announcement yet.

My dad passed away

Collapse
This topic is closed.
X
X
 
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

  • My dad passed away

    Last Wednesday morning, when he was at the Oklahoma Heart Hospital. A week earlier, he had a taken too much of one of his prescriptions and had to be taken to the hospital. After they got him back to normal, they didn't like the way his blood sugar looked, so they kept him overnight (special note; they made this decision at 2 am)

    Friday, he was OK but was in an anxiety attack mode. They put him on Oxygen to try to calm him and control his breathing, but about 10pm, I got a call he was in arrest. He had what is called Diabetic Acidosis and that triggered a heart arrhythmia.

    If he had not been in hospital, he would have died right there. They had to put him on a respirator and he was on it all day Saturday, but he was aware and responsive.

    Sunday they took him off the respirator and he was back to himself, even joking with the nurses and paramedics. They decided to send him to the Heart hospital in OKC and when he left, he looked great. I get home later and get a call from my brother telling me they had to shock him twice on the way.

    When I got to the hospital Monday, my brother told me they had to shock him a couple more times over night and put him back on the respirator. When we talked to his doctor, Dr Adamson one of the best heart doctors in the world, he said based on their tests, my dad should have dead years ago. He was amazed that my dad was not only alive, but functional. All of his arteries had blockages, his heart, which has three arteries, had one 100% blocked and another 95% blocked. The arteries in his legs had created their own bypass.

    We knew his wishes and agreed to the DNR, Do Not Resuscitate. Of course after we decided this, he slowly improved all day Monday and Tuesday. Tuesday night was my night to stay with him, so from 3:30am I watched over him. Wednesday morning they removed him from the respirator, he was alert and responsive. He talked to the doctor and confirmed the DNR. They gave him a breathing treatment, a few tests and he was OK, then all of a sudden the heart monitor went red and he was gone before all of the nurses were in the room.

    It was fast and painless.

    He wished to be cremated and he always joked he wanted to have his ashes dispersed over a lake to get revenge on all the fish he never caught. Well, my brother's boss has a plane (And he has been known to drop Twinkies on employees houses on their birthdays)

    Now comes to chore over the will and changing everything that was in his name. And of course dealing with the fact that my life has been my job and taking care of my dad and now both of those are gone now.
    "First time I ever seen a chainsaw go down anybody's britches,"

  • #2
    I'm sorry, Dark Psion. I'll send good thoughts your way. I wish I could do more.
    I have a...thing. Wanna see it?

    Comment


    • #3
      You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I know what you are going through, because I lost my Dad to a heart attack last June. I don't think you ever get over it, but it does become easier to live with as time goes on.
      "I guess they see another cash cow just waiting to be dry humped." - Irving Patrick Freleigh

      Comment


      • #4
        I am so sorry for your loss.
        Too tired of living and too tired to end it. What a conundrum.

        Comment


        • #5
          I'm very sorry for your loss.

          Comment


          • #6
            *snugs hard and just holds* Sorry to hear about that.

            Comment


            • #7
              My Dad passed away when I was 16, so I know what you're going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
              Take this job and shove it. I ain't workin here no more.

              Proud Air Force Mom

              Comment


              • #8
                I'm really sorry. This must be very hard and I'll be thinking about you and your family.

                Comment


                • #9
                  My thoughts and prayers for strength are with you and your family.



                  Eric the Grey
                  In memory of Dena - Don't Drink and Drive

                  Comment


                  • #10
                    Very sorry to hear that Dark Psion.

                    I know how hard it is to say farewell to a parent.

                    My thoughts are with you and your family.

                    B
                    "Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former."- Albert Einstein.
                    I never knew how happy paint could make people until I started selling it.

                    Comment


                    • #11
                      I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
                      Retail Haiku:
                      Depression sets in.
                      The hellhole is calling me ~
                      I don't want to go.

                      Comment


                      • #12
                        Quoth freeatlast View Post
                        You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I know what you are going through, because I lost my Dad to a heart attack last June. I don't think you ever get over it, but it does become easier to live with as time goes on.
                        Exactly what I wanted to say, except we lost my Dad in February to cancer. Sending hugs.
                        That is so full of suck Dyson doesn't know how they did it - shankyknitter

                        Comment


                        • #13
                          I can't imagine; I have enough trouble getting through the loss of a cat. You're in my prayers, and here, have some
                          Now the trouble about trying to make yourself stupider than you really are is that you very often succeed.

                          Comment


                          • #14
                            I'm so sorry to hear about your loss--you and your family will be in my prayers.
                            "Eventually, everything that you have said becomes everything you will ever say." Eireann

                            My pony dolls: http://equestriarags.tumblr.com

                            Comment


                            • #15
                              I'm very sorry for your loss.

                              It sounds like your dad lived a full life.

                              My prayers and best wishes go out to you and your family.
                              "Kamala the Ugandan Giant" 1950-2020 • "Bullet" Bob Armstrong 1939-2020 • "Road Warrior Animal" 1960-2020 • "Zeus" Tiny Lister Jr. 1958-2020 • "Hacksaw" Butch Reed 1954-2021 • "New Jack" Jerome Young 1963-2021 • "Mr. Wonderful" Paul Orndorff 1949-2021 • "Beautiful" Bobby Eaton 1958-2021 • Daffney 1975-2021

                              Comment

                              Working...
                              X