I lost my job about a month ago. I've been searching and have a great job that I will probably be able to land (and should know this week, no less). This new job is a dream job and I can't wait to hear back from them.
The problem?
I budgeted my paychecks so that I could pay my bills on time for a month (as that is all the remaining money I had). And due to a snafu with my references (why can my references not return friggin' phone calls when I spoke to them and they said they would?!) the delay on finding out if I get this job has pushed me past that limit. Me, meet shit creek.
I live with family and pay my bills to family and have managed, for a month, not to tell them about losing this job. Trust me, it has been a feat, and trust me... it is necessary for my sanity. My mother is... let's not even go there. I love her, but we have issues. I am past due on paying her and have not enough to make the payment. If I could only cover this week I'd be set and could tell her about the new job and go from there.
I have to pay her by morning so I'm just sick with worry because if I have to tell her... my quality of life will die, just die. I'm already super depressed and hating on myself a lot lately. As to why I have to pay her? Well, she helped me get my car so the payments are in her name, and for my phone and insurance I'm on a family plan. I just always turn over payments to her.
Pardon me ranting. I'm just trying to vent and unload because I'm killing myself with panic right now. I have always had problems with panic attacks and anxiety and this isn't helping. I've bottled this in so long and have told almost no one at all what is going on because I'm just... scared.
So thanks for listening. I just needed to vent that and get it off my shoulders.
The problem?
I budgeted my paychecks so that I could pay my bills on time for a month (as that is all the remaining money I had). And due to a snafu with my references (why can my references not return friggin' phone calls when I spoke to them and they said they would?!) the delay on finding out if I get this job has pushed me past that limit. Me, meet shit creek.
I live with family and pay my bills to family and have managed, for a month, not to tell them about losing this job. Trust me, it has been a feat, and trust me... it is necessary for my sanity. My mother is... let's not even go there. I love her, but we have issues. I am past due on paying her and have not enough to make the payment. If I could only cover this week I'd be set and could tell her about the new job and go from there.
I have to pay her by morning so I'm just sick with worry because if I have to tell her... my quality of life will die, just die. I'm already super depressed and hating on myself a lot lately. As to why I have to pay her? Well, she helped me get my car so the payments are in her name, and for my phone and insurance I'm on a family plan. I just always turn over payments to her.
Pardon me ranting. I'm just trying to vent and unload because I'm killing myself with panic right now. I have always had problems with panic attacks and anxiety and this isn't helping. I've bottled this in so long and have told almost no one at all what is going on because I'm just... scared.
So thanks for listening. I just needed to vent that and get it off my shoulders.
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