Damn, Damn, Damn, DAMN! (request for prayers)

[Sheldonrs]

Prayers and good thoughts for you and your family.

[DeltaSierra]

I'm so very sorry.

[MaggieTheCat]

I'm very sorry for your and your family's loss, Lupo. *lots of hugs*

[Mikkel]

WHAT??? The last thing the child need, just after her little brothers death, is to be taken away from everybody she knows.
It seems not only stupid but cruel, both to the child and her family.

[blas]

So very sorry, lupo....

[El Pollo Guerrera]

Good lord...

My best to you and your family.

[fireheart]

*sends hugs*

I hope that the mess with CPS is sorted out soon!

[lupo pazzesco]

Well, CPS did the emergency placement with my cousin's 3yo daughter. They conceded that since my aunt didn't have the background check, she could go with one of my cousin's friends. And given the situation, cousin and her hubby are allowed supervised visitations until the investigation is concluded. here's hoping that's soon. Came home last night and indulged in a bottle of wine and lots of tears, so I should be a bit more steady. Much thanks for the hugs and positive energy.

[tollbaby]

*hug* We lost my six month old nephew last August....

A year later, it hasn't gotten any easier I don't know what to say other than, I'm here if you want to talk.

[Bella_Vixen]

*hugs and prayers*

[Plaidman]

UPDATE:

They did an autopsy yesterday, and are waiting for results.

Also results for the drug test cousin took to get kid back. We'll learn soon.

[Zellie Crescent]

I'm so sorry, I hope your cousin gets her daughter back soon.

[Treasure]

Lupo,
I happen to know from personal experience that losing a loved one around a holiday is hard.
I agree that having the other child taken away at such a trying time is unfair to all.
and most importantly - Just because you had YET to meet your tiny little nephew, doesn't mean that he's not inexplicably attached to your heart - and yes sometimes we grieve not for ourselves but for our loved ones who are hurting.

[lupo pazzesco]

and most importantly - Just because you had YET to meet your tiny little nephew, doesn't mean that he's not inexplicably attached to your heart - and yes sometimes we grieve not for ourselves but for our loved ones who are hurting.

Well, this made me cry again, but in a good way. It explains a lot of the roller coaster of emotions I've been wavering through.

So far, no news on either the autopsy results, or the drug test results. (and much thank yous to Plaid for posting that for me. I didn't feel like turning on the computer yesterday, but I was texting him throughout the day, so he offered to update for me.)

As it stands, there will be a memorial service for Keaden in my hometown on Sunday, and if I'm not mistaken from what my mom said, the actual funeral is going to be tomorrow in the town my cousin and her husband live in, then they're driving to my hometown, where a good chunk of the family is for a memorial service. That's all I know now. the waiting for the news is the worst part, I think, especially since my 3yo niece is still not allowed home until the investigation is settled.

[Android Kaeli]

So, so sorry. *gives hugs and lots of chocolates*

Hopefully everything will work out with your niece.