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    this will either make or break my weekend

    So I told a girl I like her. I wanted to do it in person, but I never got up the courage. So I texted her.

    The reason I texted her is that 1) we already text a lot and 2) she already new I liked her and encouraged me to (indirectly, of course).

    Anyways she said she was going to give her response in person. Which will probably be tonight. I'm so nervous! I've had so much trouble even getting dates with girls that I'm scared. Every other girl I've liked has ended up hurting me in some way.

    Oh well, I guess I can just hope. If her response is something like "you're not my type" or other typical female bs I'll probably
    To err is human, to blame someone else shows good management skills.

    my blog --> http://www.hendrices.com/joesblog/
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    well, she obviously thinks this is important enough to say in person. Either way, she doesn't want any mis-communications. IMO as a female of the species.
    *crosses fingers*
    "Is it the lie that keeps you sane? Is this the lie that keeps you sane?What is it?Can it be?Ought it to exist?"
    "...and may it be that I cleave to the ugly truth, rather than the beautiful lie..."

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    • #3
      It sounds promising, as a female. If i was going to reject someone, texting would be a lot easier. However, if I was going to nom on some boy-face, you cant exactly do that over text.

      good luck!
      Thou shalt not take the name of thy goddess Whiskey in vain.

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      • #4
        She said she doesn't like me that way.

        Why don't women want to date me?
        To err is human, to blame someone else shows good management skills.

        my blog --> http://www.hendrices.com/joesblog/
        my brother's blog --> http://www.hendrices.com/ryansblog/

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        • #5
          Quoth joe hx View Post
          She said she doesn't like me that way.

          Why don't women want to date me?
          you surveyed all the women?
          Thou shalt not take the name of thy goddess Whiskey in vain.

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          • #6
            Quoth joe hx View Post
            She said she doesn't like me that way.

            Why don't women want to date me?
            Go to WalMart. Look around at all the people (try not to cringe too much). Note how many of them are there with someone else, often towing along a herd of kiddlings. Conclusion: If that group of people can find someone, it is clear that there is a someone for everybody, you just need to find that person.
            There's no such thing as a stupid question... just stupid people.

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            • #7
              Quoth joe hx View Post
              She said she doesn't like me that way.
              snip
              Noooooez~!
              "Is it the lie that keeps you sane? Is this the lie that keeps you sane?What is it?Can it be?Ought it to exist?"
              "...and may it be that I cleave to the ugly truth, rather than the beautiful lie..."

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              • #8
                Quoth joe hx View Post
                Oh well, I guess I can just hope. If her response is something like "you're not my type" or other typical female bs I'll probably
                Just curious, how exactly is this bs? Sometimes it's avoidance but sometimes it's really that simple; I only date geeks myself and have said it to people who asked me out who I thought were 'too normal.' Just... wondering, because this (and the 'no women will date me' blanket statement) both rub me the wrong way.

                Still though, sorry it didn't work out the way you had hoped.

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                • #9
                  Well, at least she liked you enough as a friend to feel that you needed face time to talk this over. However, i am baffled at her encouraging you to tell her you like her if she didnt really like you back...? IDK...girls are weird. Glad im one.

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                  • #10
                    Quoth Taboo View Post
                    Just curious, how exactly is this bs? Sometimes it's avoidance but sometimes it's really that simple; I only date geeks myself and have said it to people who asked me out who I thought were 'too normal.' Just... wondering, because this (and the 'no women will date me' blanket statement) both rub me the wrong way.
                    It's "BS" not in the sense that it's not true, but rather that I've heard it too often. Along with "let's just be friends" and "I'm not dating right now." Sometimes I feel girls say that to me just to soften the blow.

                    And the "Why don't women want to date me? " probably could be better worded as "Why does it seem that women don't want to date me? "
                    To err is human, to blame someone else shows good management skills.

                    my blog --> http://www.hendrices.com/joesblog/
                    my brother's blog --> http://www.hendrices.com/ryansblog/

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                    • #11
                      Quoth joe hx View Post
                      It's "BS" not in the sense that it's not true, but rather that I've heard it too often. Along with "let's just be friends" and "I'm not dating right now." Sometimes I feel girls say that to me just to soften the blow.

                      And the "Why don't women want to date me? " probably could be better worded as "Why does it seem that women don't want to date me? "
                      because you focus on the negative. go find another girl, ask that one out. If she says no, go find a different girl and ask that one out. Continue until successful. Thats how everyone else does it.

                      the fact this girls approval would "make or break" your weekend says a lot. Relax, go ask some chicks out. I haven't be on the market in almost 2 years because I just don't feel like going out with anyone.
                      Thou shalt not take the name of thy goddess Whiskey in vain.

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                      • #12
                        Quoth joe hx View Post
                        It's "BS" not in the sense that it's not true, but rather that I've heard it too often. Along with "let's just be friends" and "I'm not dating right now." Sometimes I feel girls say that to me just to soften the blow.

                        And the "Why don't women want to date me? " probably could be better worded as "Why does it seem that women don't want to date me? "
                        Yes, we say things like that to soften the blow. Mostly that is us trying to be nice and not destroy your self esteem, especially when there is nothing wrong with the you and you're just not our type. I wouldn't get in a relationship with someone I wasn't attracted to, but I probably wouldn't be that blunt. I would be nice because it's a me thing, not a you thing, and you don't deserve to have your feelings screwed with because we just don't click.

                        I have used "I'm not dating right now" honestly. There have been times I just wasn't interested in dealing with dating drama. It was also very good for protecting my privacy when I was turning down guys because I was in the mood for girls. Sometimes the generic responses are because things are going on that you really don't have a right to know about.

                        When I met my husband, he'd had 1 serious relationship. He was 22 and in college. One of my classmates is 42 and has never been married. Don't feel like you're the only one who doesn't have tons of dating success.

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