On the subject of not being told about family members...
I had an uncle by marriage I didn't know about...until he was dying.
At family get-togethers, most of the time my aunt D couldn't make it because of her work schedule. So it was always "D can't make it." It was NEVER "D and T can't make it." Never.
I was shocked speechless when I found out she was married. If anything, I always assumed she was divorced.
I had an uncle by marriage I didn't know about...until he was dying.
At family get-togethers, most of the time my aunt D couldn't make it because of her work schedule. So it was always "D can't make it." It was NEVER "D and T can't make it." Never.
I was shocked speechless when I found out she was married. If anything, I always assumed she was divorced.

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