Fear me for I am the destroyer of dreams and crusher of hopes

[lordlundar]

you cursed me Whiskey! That line has worked on everyone else. Apparently my determined new suitor is a poly sub who hasn't found a Domme in a year and a half.

And the fact that he's been pestering you despite telling him "no" repeatedly wasn't a tip-off?

[Irving Patrick Freleigh]

Geez, if this guy's texting you after you've told him you're not interested in seeing him any more, you must've been on to something when you told him no the first time.

[teh_blumchenkinder]

... so was the whole line about your sexual preferences the truth, or just a decoy? (I'm being nosy, rather than an indication of interest in joining. )
Also, I really, really hope you found this out through other means than telling him. Awkwaaarrrrrd~

EDIT: also, even if the line is true-- it still means- "NO ROOM." so he'll have to duke it out with MaleSub. ... And I refuse to go any further into that, because I haven't the slightest how that would work!

[shankyknitter]

oh complete truth, not going to lie about that one. Annnnnd now I'm imagining some sort of sub-off ala a boxing match. The mental image is amusing as hell.

On topic: he's finally leaving me alone. I had a talk with my friend (the one who tried to set us up), my friend is also his landlord. Apparently 'dude, she's not interested and you're freaking her out' has more weight from your landlord. Either way he's leaving me the hell alone which makes me happy

[Whiskey]

I could have told you the guy would have been into that just from the way he acted. Its good he's finally leaving you alone though.

[Magpie]

On topic: he's finally leaving me alone. I had a talk with my friend (the one who tried to set us up), my friend is also his landlord. Apparently 'dude, she's not interested and you're freaking her out' has more weight from your landlord. Either way he's leaving me the hell alone which makes me happy

It's also because it's coming from someone who's not you, no matter who it is. Everyone knows that when you, as a girl, say that you're not interested you're just being coy and not forward and playing hard-to-get. </cynic>

[teh_blumchenkinder]

oh complete truth, not going to lie about that one. Annnnnd now I'm imagining some sort of sub-off ala a boxing match. The mental image is amusing as hell.

On topic: he's finally leaving me alone. I had a talk with my friend (the one who tried to set us up), my friend is also his landlord. Apparently 'dude, she's not interested and you're freaking her out' has more weight from your landlord. Either way he's leaving me the hell alone which makes me happy

Oh, yeah, I totally agree with Whiskey and Magpie-- the "OMGbackoff" is coming from someone else-- not you, "MsIsoCoy." This is the idea guys get in their heads-- mostly 'cuz some women actually operate like that... and if he's already into "pain? I like pain is sexy" (my thoughts: ) then... yeah even worse!
Also, I am so not a dominatrix it's not even funny-- 'cuz I could guess that's what one would think... but couldn't quite wrap my head around it naturally (in that way that says I understand it.)
If I hadn't come to the conclusion years ago that every single person is a freak in some way, I'd be very much more ... mind-blown? I think is the word?-- because I hadn't really pegged you as a 'bitch.'-- being the 'typical' idea of a dominant lady; or even very strange. Always glad to have my horizons expanded, shankyknitter!