No He Cannot Stay Here (Ranty)

[TruthHurts]

I am so furious at my roommate. He has this friend who I call the littlest hobo. LBH is always losing his jobs, places to live, and never seems to want to better his situation.

Once again, LBH is homeless/jobless and my roommate gave his permission to camp in his RV. The RV that is currently parked on the property my boyfriend owns and didn't bother asking his (boyfriend's) permission. LBH then runs an extension cord from our outdoor outlet so he can have electricity.

Boyfriend just told roommate that no, that's not cool and we should have been asked. And of course, we're the heartless bad guys all because we don't want a confirmed mooch hanging out here indefinitely.

I cannot wait to sell this house and move, because once we are in our new place there will be no more roommates and therefore no more drama. Sorry for the rant, I am just so furious right now.

[RecoveringKinkoid]

Hey, you know what? People thinking you are a cold hearted bitch is a survivable condition.

It doesn't even really hurt at all.

I'm living proof of that. Throw the parasite out and if the room mate has a problem with that, he can follow the parasite on out, too.

[teh_blumchenkinder]

So there aren't any homeless shelters or cooperative housings in your area? Is that why he has the urge to mooch? Or is it that those places make you verify your jobhunting every day? /
... Although, Count Bum-ula might be depressed, and thus, not motivated. That does happen. And it is admirable that your Roomie has a big enough heart (or a dumb enough memory) to volunteer like that all the time...

[iradney]

I'm sorry, not being a doormat means you're cold hearted and mean? Well then I'm cold hearted and mean.
That person on YOUR property is a liability - if anything happens, you might be held responsible for it. If roomate's RV is parked there, I would strongly advise that you tell him to move it somewhere else within X days, or you're getting it towed (can you tow RVs? Argabarga? Help?)

[blas]

Cold hearted and mean is a compliment.

[taxguykarl]

Cold hearted and mean is a compliment.

Especially when it comes from a parasite.

[Rapscallion]

Means you're not a doormat.

Rapscallion

[Lace Neil Singer]

I'd rather be thought cold hearted and mean than feeling as tho I ought to have "Welcome" tattooed on my forehead.

Kick the parasite to the kerb and tell your roommate that if he doesn't like it, well, he can join the parasite in looking for someplace else to live.

[Solumina]

Check with your local government, many places have restrictions against having temporary living quarters in driveways and this would totally count, some wont let you have them at all without a proven need (renovations, fire damage, whathave you that makes living in the actual house not possible) and others have very firm limits as to how long they can be there.

That or just boot the guy, its your home, if you don't want him there then your roommate needs to respect that.

[BookstoreEscapee]

And I'm sure he was going to pay for the extra electricity, right?

[RecoveringKinkoid]

It was not the roommate's place to invite the guy to stay in the first place. The roommate was grossly out of line.

[BlaqueKatt]

Hey, you know what? People thinking you are a cold hearted bitch is a survivable condition.

and thankfully no treatment is available

It doesn't even really hurt at all.

for me it stings a bit now and then....especially when it comes from someone I have helped numerous times and got fed up with(like oh my sister)

[RecoveringKinkoid]

My dad thinks I am a nasty tempered, razor tongued shrew.

He also says that with a great deal of admiration and pride.

[blas]

I get called cold constantly nowadays, although it's more of just a bitch and a square. Who calls people squares anymore, really?

Sorry but I'm not a free chauffeur or drunk bus driver or a cigarette vending machine.

[RavenStarr]

What your roomate did was just outright disrespectful. He needs to be kicked to the curb right along with LBH. You need to do this NOW.

If not things will only get worse. Hes using your electricity. Next he will be eating up all your food and so on.

Now I do have a solution for the electricity thing. Take the extention cord and hide it.