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  • Car crash joy....

    So I got involved in a somewhat minor accident. I say minor, because although there weren't any physical injuries, there were some mental ones.

    I was the one who caused it-I was turning right and missed a car coming onto the road....the road I was turning onto in particular, has two roads that merge into one about 500m prior to where I was turning. I was also too slow.

    Anyway, the Firemobile is a complete writeoff (it was a Kia Rio 2001), so now we're on the hunt for a new car. Despite my recommendation that I shouldn't be trusted with any amount over $2000 or so, my parents are helping me set up a loan for $5000 with my bank, partially because I'll be paying my parents the excess back for WEEKS (I had third party fire and theft, which does not cover ME for the damages if the crash was my fault, but it covers the other car).

    The damage to the Firemobile? The back door was crumpled into the point where I was struggling to get out of the car and the back right wheel got knocked around. I could still drive it-just. The other car wound up with some minor dings and some leaking coolant.

    I got checked out at the hospital-physically I'm fine, mentally not so much. I've had some problems sleeping, I've been headachey, I've been lethargic, I've been nauseous, my hands and legs have started to shake in some cases and I've had random times where the thoughts of the car crash will pop into my head-not so much flashbacks, but rather the soundtrack to the flashback. I'm still pending a review with my GP.

    The cause? Aside from my own idiotic stupidity, we're hoping and praying that the medications did not cause the problem. Why? Because I had to mention it to the insurance company and it's not going to look good for me in the future. I'd taken my meds around 15-20 minutes prior to me driving off (my schedule around Christmas was thrown WAY out of whack). Yes they are prescription medications, but there is a warning saying "These meds may cause <problem> and <problem>. If affected, do not drive a vehicle or operate heavy machinery." I had not had a problem with me driving and being either on the meds or off them prior to the accident.

    Anyway, what's the best way for me to get BACK into the saddle?
    The best professors are mad scientists! -Zoom

    Now queen of USSR-Land...

  • #2
    The important part is that you are OK. The car is replaceable. You are not.

    Unfortunately, you learned the hard way the importance of paying attention while driving. Your the only one who can really tell if the meds were to blame for this. You need to think about it and make the decision.

    Keep in mind, we all make mistakes. You are still a new driver. Experience will make you better, but never perfect. About a month ago, I misjudged a car and almost caused an accident. And I have been driving for 31 years.

    As for getting back into the saddle, so take a slow drive somewhere. Away from traffic so that you can enjoy the drive.

    If you can come up with the extra money, you should look into something like Skip Barber. Fun and educational. I am sure you have something like it down there.

    Post pics of the new ride when you get it.
    Life is too short to not eat popcorn.
    Save the Ales!
    Toys for Tots at Rooster's Cafe

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    • #3
      You could go back to the beginning - get a trusted parent or friend (someone who will be gentle) to take you to an empty parking lot and drive around for a bit.

      I'm glad you're ok.

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      • #4
        *hugs*

        I'm glad you're okay. Can't help much with the anxiety because that's why I don't drive. Have any friends who have been in crashes before? It might help to talk to them.

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        • #5
          Quoth Taboo View Post
          Have any friends who have been in crashes before? It might help to talk to them.
          More than I care to mention. However, only two were my fault.
          Life is too short to not eat popcorn.
          Save the Ales!
          Toys for Tots at Rooster's Cafe

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          • #6
            Sounds like Post Traumatic Stress. You don't have to have been in a war to get that. We had the most minor fender-bender you could imagine almost two years ago and I'm still freaked out about riding in a car.

            I agree with CSquared. All I can add is to take it easy, take your time.
            When you start at zero, everything's progress.

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