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  • Requiescat in pace et in amore, Stumps

    I just buried my best kitty buddy, my cat Stumps, this evening.

    My neighbor Amanda knocked on my door about an hour and a half ago and said, "Stumps is in the road." She said he'd just walked by her husband Ben and seemed fine, but then she looked and saw him lying in the street in front of her house.

    I ran out to the road, but it was too late: he was already dead. He was still warm, so it had just happened. His neck was broken. I was in shock: he was so scared of cars, he'd look both ways before crossing the street. He'd been playing with another neighbor's cat, Lucky, and must have run into the road during their tag game. Whoever hit him, didn't stop.

    Ben helped me bury him in the back yard. Evil Empryss and the Evil Princess came over with Goldie to console me . . . I cried like a baby. I've only had him for 18 months, but he was such an awesome cat. So friendly and social. He loved being outsiee, it was hard to keep him indoors. Everyone in the neighborhood loved him.

    Funny thing was, he didn't want to go out this morning when I got up for work. He slept with me last night, and we snuggled for about half an hour this morning, but he decided to go back to bed when I went to work. He'd only been outside for a couple of hours when it happened.

    I'm already not in a good place because of my Mom. That'll take a different post, she's got some health issues I'm not ready to talk about yet (nothing life threatening), but I've been sitting waiting for a call from her doctor to see if he can help me and my brother make decisions on what to do.

    I'm so not going to sleep well tonight

    Rest in peace and love, Stumps, my mighty hunter. I miss you already.

    They say that God only gives us what we can handle. Apparently, God thinks I'm a bad ass.

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    I'm so sorry, Panacea.
    "If your day is filled with firefighting, you need to start taking the matches away from the toddlers…” - HM

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    • #3
      I'm so sorry you lost your friend, especially after such a short time together. Be assured that he loved you as much as you loved him.

      Sounds like you're going through a really rough patch. Best wishes and prayers for you and your family.
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      • #4
        I'm so sorry. I've lost good cats too and it still hurts.

        Many s for you and your family.
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        • #5
          Poor kitty

          He's probably playing with some of mine--Kitty and Snow. They died within 6 months of each other. Kitty had been with me since he was a kitten. He was put to sleep in 2007. Up until then, he lived on my grandmother's farm, before I brought him home in 2006. Snow was adopted a few weeks after he died. Sadly, I only had her about 6 months--she had a heart attack, and died in my kitchen

          I have a feeling, that Stumps is playing with both of them right now. Kitty, Snow, and Stumps...plus my grandmother's cat, Kirby (he disappeared 30 years ago--the entire 80-acre farm was searched, and I never knew what happened to him) are enjoying a huge ball of yarn, and plenty of kitty treats.
          Aerodynamics are for people who can't build engines. --Enzo Ferrari

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          • #6
            So sorry, Panacea *hugs*
            "Getting to the top is optional. Getting down is mandatory." _Ed Viesturs
            "Love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking, and don't settle" Steve Jobs

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            • #7
              I'm sorry.
              I don't go in for ancient wisdom
              I don't believe just 'cause ideas are tenacious
              It means that they're worthy - Tim Minchin, "White Wine in the Sun"

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              • #8
                I'm sorry for your loss, Panacea. It's never ever easy to lose a pet, even if they've only been with you a short time. I think many others will tell you that no matter how long you've had a pet, it always feels like you haven't had much time with them when you lose them.

                He looks like he was a very happy and cared-for kitty, and I can tell the memories he took with him were wonderful ones.

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                • #9
                  I'm so sorry. He was a beautiful boy! May Bast hold him in Her arms.
                  When you start at zero, everything's progress.

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                  • #10
                    *snug hugs*

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                    • #11
                      I'm so sorry, Panacea. *offers you hugs and kitty snuggles* Whoever hit him and didn't stop is an ass. That's got to be about the worst thing a pet owner could experience.

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                      • #12
                        *oodles of hugs*

                        He looks like my Hetfield.
                        Unseen but seeing
                        oh dear, now they're masquerading as sane-KiaKat
                        There isn't enough interpretive dance in the workplace these days-Irv
                        3rd shift needs love, too
                        RIP, mo bhrionglóid

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                        • #13
                          I'm sorry.

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                          • #14
                            Thanks, everyone for the kind words. I stayed up blogging just to avoid looking at the couch where he'd usually curl up for his evening nap before bedtime.

                            He was an awesome cat. Friendly and lovable with every human he ever met. Never hissed or growled at the vet, or tried to scratch or bite. Fearless with dogs. A good mouser . . . the family who lived in the walls and laughed at me vanished when he came into the house.

                            He loved sitting under the Christmas tree for some reason. Every year, he'd stake out his claim underneath, and I didn't mind since he was such a great present to me. He never messed with the ornaments or the wrapped gifts . . . but he loved playing with the old paper.

                            The house is empty without him. I'm going to set some rocks over his grave into a little cairn, and hang a planter of flowers by the site
                            They say that God only gives us what we can handle. Apparently, God thinks I'm a bad ass.

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                            • #15
                              *BIG HUGS* I am so sorry. Stumps is a beautiful boy; I love ginger kitties.

                              I'm sure he's playing with McGriff, Boots, Cora, Livia, Snowflake, and everyone else's kitties getting all the sun, attention and treats he could ever want.

                              He might be back around the house, I know we've 'seen' McGriff around (flashes out of the corner of our eye, a fuzzy presence on the bed and around the apartment, and unexplained appearances of white fur on everything).
                              "I am quite confident that I do exist."
                              "Excuse me, I'm making perfect sense. You're just not keeping up." The Doctor

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