All right, so my friend Shortie just invited me to her baby shower. She's giving birth to her second child in September. She actually due in October, but I think she's getting a C-section.
Anyway we were pretty great friends growing up, but in our senior year she moved away, so I didn't see her much. See whenever she was in town she would hang out with Hunt. See Hunt and I used to be really close friends, like really close. But around the beginning of tenth grade she decided she hated me. Like to the point if she saw me outside of school she would try to kick me ass, or try to get someone else to kick my ass. So I ended up avoiding places she was, which meant not really seeing most of my friends from that group outside of school. We still all ate lunch together, but I got major hate vibes from Hunt.
Anyway right after my first year of university Shortie got married, and I didn't get invited. It really stung, but I shrugged it off. We didn't talk for a few years, but last spring she got a hold of me. Apparently, the person who was supposed to deliver my wedding invite never gave it to me. I don't know if that's true, but I decided to take her at face value. We've talked a bit since, and she went clubbing with me on my 22nd birthday.
Anyway, she has a 4 year old son, and as I said, is expecting her second child in September. Today I got an invitation from her, to her baby shower. I was so excited that I RSVPed on facebook right away. After I confirmed I was going I noticed that Hunt is one of the two hostesses of this event.
Now I'm not sure what to do. I mean, we graduated from high school in 2006 so surely by now Hunt has gotten over whatever problem she thought she had with me. On the other hand, she dropped by a mutual friend's house once when I was hanging out, and everyone decided it would be best if I stayed inside while they went to talk to her outside. This was only last August where this event happened.
So I don't know what to do. I really want to be there for Shortie and support her during such a miraculous time, but on the other hand I really don't want drama. Especially drama that could ruin Shortie's big day. Or get me injured. So what should I do?
Anyway we were pretty great friends growing up, but in our senior year she moved away, so I didn't see her much. See whenever she was in town she would hang out with Hunt. See Hunt and I used to be really close friends, like really close. But around the beginning of tenth grade she decided she hated me. Like to the point if she saw me outside of school she would try to kick me ass, or try to get someone else to kick my ass. So I ended up avoiding places she was, which meant not really seeing most of my friends from that group outside of school. We still all ate lunch together, but I got major hate vibes from Hunt.
Anyway right after my first year of university Shortie got married, and I didn't get invited. It really stung, but I shrugged it off. We didn't talk for a few years, but last spring she got a hold of me. Apparently, the person who was supposed to deliver my wedding invite never gave it to me. I don't know if that's true, but I decided to take her at face value. We've talked a bit since, and she went clubbing with me on my 22nd birthday.
Anyway, she has a 4 year old son, and as I said, is expecting her second child in September. Today I got an invitation from her, to her baby shower. I was so excited that I RSVPed on facebook right away. After I confirmed I was going I noticed that Hunt is one of the two hostesses of this event.
Now I'm not sure what to do. I mean, we graduated from high school in 2006 so surely by now Hunt has gotten over whatever problem she thought she had with me. On the other hand, she dropped by a mutual friend's house once when I was hanging out, and everyone decided it would be best if I stayed inside while they went to talk to her outside. This was only last August where this event happened.
So I don't know what to do. I really want to be there for Shortie and support her during such a miraculous time, but on the other hand I really don't want drama. Especially drama that could ruin Shortie's big day. Or get me injured. So what should I do?
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