So my former friend (who I'll call Flower) is moving out in a month and a half. For those of you who read my thread in Fratching about the Flower/Nord/Falcon saga, this is the same Flower.
One of the things she has asked (read: expected/forced) Nord (my boyfriend) to do is take care of the cat that she has up at the house currently. Nord may be moving interstate in a month, I cannot take over the lease and neither of us can currently afford to take care of the cat. I originally said that if she does not find an alternate house for him by the time she leaves, I will trap the cat and take him to a shelter myself*, but I'm beginning to think that the trapping/moving needs to occur MUCH sooner. Why?
She does not take care of him properly. and I don't mean by comparing him to my cat (who is basically spoilt), this is why:
-She has not made ANY effort to have him desexed, microchipped, wormed or vaccinated. The latter two she has not done to ANY of her pets actually**. Even after I suggested a company that will do desexing cheaply, she basically ignored it.
-She lets him roam around outside. At night. Now the backyard is not particularly well-secured (we also live on a rental property), but at the basic, you would keep him in at night! He will come in for food, bonks, rubs and sleep if someone is around. That's it.
-When he "ran away" (translation: didn't bother to contain him or look for him), she was "very upset". When I trapped him for one night? She saw him, acknowledged him, then sent him back outside. She didn't do ANYTHING along the lines of looking for him at all.
-When he has come back inside, he's had the occasional bump/scrape from getting into a fight. Instead of taking him to the vet and/or checking his wounds, what does she do? Lets him back out.
-She does not make any effort to be a companion towards him. Because he was a stray previously, he would take a little longer to get settled with human company, so you would OBVIOUSLY make the effort to be his companion and to encourage him to hang around. The way she treats him? Like an annoyance. If anything, it comes off more as a "trophy" cat or a "perfect household" pet for her twisted little fantasy. She didn't buy ANY toys for him whatsoever, no scratching post, nothing of the sort. If he mewed his butt off, she'd release him right back out. If he went to sleep near or on her, she'd throw a fit. He's stopped sleeping in her bedroom now and will sleep anywhere but.
-as for WHAT she's been feeding him? While she does have pouches of cat food available, the cans that she has for him? Dog food. Specifically fish-flavoured dog food.
So my question is: do I hold off on the trapping until after she leaves or should I take him to the shelter ASAP?
*-It's illegal in my state to trap an easily identifiable cat (with a collar) and it's also an offence to remove said collar (obviously!). I do have a cat at my place but there is no way I can take care of him.
**-She has two dogs and a cat at another place (all of which were rescues). They currently spend time at another location as they are shared with a former housemate of hers. She does visit them, but as far as I'm aware, while she "cares" for them, she has not bothered to get them vaccinated or wormed (because they were all rescues, they're desexed). Her idea of a Christmas present for them was to give them a 20kg bag of food.
One of the things she has asked (read: expected/forced) Nord (my boyfriend) to do is take care of the cat that she has up at the house currently. Nord may be moving interstate in a month, I cannot take over the lease and neither of us can currently afford to take care of the cat. I originally said that if she does not find an alternate house for him by the time she leaves, I will trap the cat and take him to a shelter myself*, but I'm beginning to think that the trapping/moving needs to occur MUCH sooner. Why?
She does not take care of him properly. and I don't mean by comparing him to my cat (who is basically spoilt), this is why:
-She has not made ANY effort to have him desexed, microchipped, wormed or vaccinated. The latter two she has not done to ANY of her pets actually**. Even after I suggested a company that will do desexing cheaply, she basically ignored it.
-She lets him roam around outside. At night. Now the backyard is not particularly well-secured (we also live on a rental property), but at the basic, you would keep him in at night! He will come in for food, bonks, rubs and sleep if someone is around. That's it.
-When he "ran away" (translation: didn't bother to contain him or look for him), she was "very upset". When I trapped him for one night? She saw him, acknowledged him, then sent him back outside. She didn't do ANYTHING along the lines of looking for him at all.
-When he has come back inside, he's had the occasional bump/scrape from getting into a fight. Instead of taking him to the vet and/or checking his wounds, what does she do? Lets him back out.
-She does not make any effort to be a companion towards him. Because he was a stray previously, he would take a little longer to get settled with human company, so you would OBVIOUSLY make the effort to be his companion and to encourage him to hang around. The way she treats him? Like an annoyance. If anything, it comes off more as a "trophy" cat or a "perfect household" pet for her twisted little fantasy. She didn't buy ANY toys for him whatsoever, no scratching post, nothing of the sort. If he mewed his butt off, she'd release him right back out. If he went to sleep near or on her, she'd throw a fit. He's stopped sleeping in her bedroom now and will sleep anywhere but.
-as for WHAT she's been feeding him? While she does have pouches of cat food available, the cans that she has for him? Dog food. Specifically fish-flavoured dog food.
So my question is: do I hold off on the trapping until after she leaves or should I take him to the shelter ASAP?
*-It's illegal in my state to trap an easily identifiable cat (with a collar) and it's also an offence to remove said collar (obviously!). I do have a cat at my place but there is no way I can take care of him.
**-She has two dogs and a cat at another place (all of which were rescues). They currently spend time at another location as they are shared with a former housemate of hers. She does visit them, but as far as I'm aware, while she "cares" for them, she has not bothered to get them vaccinated or wormed (because they were all rescues, they're desexed). Her idea of a Christmas present for them was to give them a 20kg bag of food.


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