So one of the kids we have at the service we've discovered has Sensory Processing Disorder. While I'm aware that in around 90-95% of cases, SPD is co-morbid with autism, he is one of those kids who is not. (He had an assessment done at preschool which eliminated autism from that line)
We've since established that he seeks tactile feedback and possibly oral feedback. This has resulted in an awkward situation the other day where the kid walks up to me and brushes his hands over my boobs and down my stomach, feeling my work shirt. (FYI, he's 5)
Now I'm wondering how to best support him. He does OK in the afternoons except for a few issues that I'm not sure are related to the SPD or not.
-He has this tendency to want to do toilet runs (where we round up a group of kids and walk the 20m to the toilets). Constantly. I've had to remind him on several occasions that if he does a toilet run, he's doing it to "go" to the toilet, not to go for a walk. (I don't know if this is because he's sound-sensitive or not, see below)
-He will refuse to participate in packup time. One point he asked for a "job" and I have no idea by what he meant (I tried to give him a "job" which was putting away some Lego, he refused). I'm actually debating the idea of sending him over to help the adult staff member with washing dishes in the afternoons so at least he's "helping" but it's in a quieter environment.
-He does not play with other kids a lot. We have no idea why. He does tend to hang around adults a LOT and particularly prefers to spend time with the bossman.
We're not sure if he's hypersensitive in one department and hyposensitive in another, or something else along those lines.
I'm tossing up the idea of making a "touch apron" to wear around my waist when I see him in the afternoons, so he'll touch something that's not my chest but has many different textures on it (ie fur, sandpaper, carpet, wool, silk).
Any ideas and advice would be muchly appreciated!
We've since established that he seeks tactile feedback and possibly oral feedback. This has resulted in an awkward situation the other day where the kid walks up to me and brushes his hands over my boobs and down my stomach, feeling my work shirt. (FYI, he's 5)
Now I'm wondering how to best support him. He does OK in the afternoons except for a few issues that I'm not sure are related to the SPD or not.
-He has this tendency to want to do toilet runs (where we round up a group of kids and walk the 20m to the toilets). Constantly. I've had to remind him on several occasions that if he does a toilet run, he's doing it to "go" to the toilet, not to go for a walk. (I don't know if this is because he's sound-sensitive or not, see below)
-He will refuse to participate in packup time. One point he asked for a "job" and I have no idea by what he meant (I tried to give him a "job" which was putting away some Lego, he refused). I'm actually debating the idea of sending him over to help the adult staff member with washing dishes in the afternoons so at least he's "helping" but it's in a quieter environment.
-He does not play with other kids a lot. We have no idea why. He does tend to hang around adults a LOT and particularly prefers to spend time with the bossman.
We're not sure if he's hypersensitive in one department and hyposensitive in another, or something else along those lines.
I'm tossing up the idea of making a "touch apron" to wear around my waist when I see him in the afternoons, so he'll touch something that's not my chest but has many different textures on it (ie fur, sandpaper, carpet, wool, silk).
Any ideas and advice would be muchly appreciated!
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