SS is right: one of the first steps an abuser does is separate their victim from family and friends.
This is a really rough problem. You have children to protect, you have a mother to protect. And measures necessary to help one directly contradict measures for protecting the other.
It's beyond what I can sanely offer advice on: I think at this point you genuinely need professional help. Maybe there's a social worker at this guy's prison who can either counsel you, or direct you to an appropriate source.
I don't even really know where to find the right professionals.
This is a really rough problem. You have children to protect, you have a mother to protect. And measures necessary to help one directly contradict measures for protecting the other.
It's beyond what I can sanely offer advice on: I think at this point you genuinely need professional help. Maybe there's a social worker at this guy's prison who can either counsel you, or direct you to an appropriate source.
I don't even really know where to find the right professionals.
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