I'm wondering if there's a polite way to convince my wife and son to start exercising, too...
I've been doing DDP Yoga, and I'm about to start riding my bicycle again and doing some light weight lifting since I got the "all clear" from my doctor to do so.
I've also changed my diet. The exercising I started moreso at the behest of my doctor. Some of this I did at the behest of my wife, who says she "wants me around" for a long time.
Well, I want her around for a long time, too. She's older than I am. We have an 11 year old special needs son who she homeschools. I know that takes a lot of time and energy, but it's almost like she refuses to exercise, or even entertain the idea of it.
She used to, and she did when we met (though I think not as often as when she was in her 20's).
I gently brought up the idea of us doing the DDP Yoga together, to which she replied, basically, "I'm not doing yoga."
Not even the fact that I've lost 20 pounds and feel better physically was convincing to her to do DDP Yoga with me.
Other forms of exercise she says she can't do because of asthma. I think something near where I live triggered asthma (or something similar to it) in her, because at our previous location she didn't have it.
So I do want her to be around for a long time, too. I'm trying to find a good way to convince her to exercise. Either with me or herself.
I'm concerned, because while she does a LOT homeschooling our son, unless there's stuff I'm not seeing, she doesn't do much else but play some kind of mafia game on FaceBook. I'm concerned about her health, too. She says she knows she's a hypocrite, but she still doesn't seem to want to exercise.
I'm also trying to figure out how to get my son to exercise, too. He doesn't really do much, either. Part of it is probably due to his special needs situation. I tried to get him to exercise with me (saying it would be "more fun") during my surgery recovery. But the only thing he would do is say, "don't be lazy!" and "Focus!"
Any thoughts?
I've been doing DDP Yoga, and I'm about to start riding my bicycle again and doing some light weight lifting since I got the "all clear" from my doctor to do so.
I've also changed my diet. The exercising I started moreso at the behest of my doctor. Some of this I did at the behest of my wife, who says she "wants me around" for a long time.
Well, I want her around for a long time, too. She's older than I am. We have an 11 year old special needs son who she homeschools. I know that takes a lot of time and energy, but it's almost like she refuses to exercise, or even entertain the idea of it.
She used to, and she did when we met (though I think not as often as when she was in her 20's).
I gently brought up the idea of us doing the DDP Yoga together, to which she replied, basically, "I'm not doing yoga."
Not even the fact that I've lost 20 pounds and feel better physically was convincing to her to do DDP Yoga with me.
Other forms of exercise she says she can't do because of asthma. I think something near where I live triggered asthma (or something similar to it) in her, because at our previous location she didn't have it.
So I do want her to be around for a long time, too. I'm trying to find a good way to convince her to exercise. Either with me or herself.
I'm concerned, because while she does a LOT homeschooling our son, unless there's stuff I'm not seeing, she doesn't do much else but play some kind of mafia game on FaceBook. I'm concerned about her health, too. She says she knows she's a hypocrite, but she still doesn't seem to want to exercise.
I'm also trying to figure out how to get my son to exercise, too. He doesn't really do much, either. Part of it is probably due to his special needs situation. I tried to get him to exercise with me (saying it would be "more fun") during my surgery recovery. But the only thing he would do is say, "don't be lazy!" and "Focus!"
Any thoughts?
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