How do you tell your criticizing friends to politely eff the eff off?
Lately, they've been on me about my wardrobe. We go out on the weekends just to walk around the mall and window shop, or go to a movie. I like to go in my sweats and shirt and plain old jacket. They think that I should, and quote "Dress more like a fashionable woman, not someone who's given up.". I'm guessing that means I should wear skirts, lacy blouses and skin tight clothes I see other women in? No thanks! I'm forced to wear a stuffy suit for work. Why should I have to wear that if I don't want to wear that?!?!?! I'm a grown woman, I should wear what I want when I want!!!
Then they go on about my job. They think that I should get a better job during the day rather at night because all the criminals rob or hit up place at night. Thanks for reminding me of that!! *eyeroll* I can't do my job properly if I'm scared to death!! THey think I should get a real job instead of a dead end one. Thanks for that reminder too! Anything else you want me to stress more about?
When I tell them that I'm not going to get a new job, they get all huffy and argue with me even more! SO how to make them back off for good? They mean well, I know, but they're just make me feel worse about myself!!!
Lately, they've been on me about my wardrobe. We go out on the weekends just to walk around the mall and window shop, or go to a movie. I like to go in my sweats and shirt and plain old jacket. They think that I should, and quote "Dress more like a fashionable woman, not someone who's given up.". I'm guessing that means I should wear skirts, lacy blouses and skin tight clothes I see other women in? No thanks! I'm forced to wear a stuffy suit for work. Why should I have to wear that if I don't want to wear that?!?!?! I'm a grown woman, I should wear what I want when I want!!!
Then they go on about my job. They think that I should get a better job during the day rather at night because all the criminals rob or hit up place at night. Thanks for reminding me of that!! *eyeroll* I can't do my job properly if I'm scared to death!! THey think I should get a real job instead of a dead end one. Thanks for that reminder too! Anything else you want me to stress more about?
When I tell them that I'm not going to get a new job, they get all huffy and argue with me even more! SO how to make them back off for good? They mean well, I know, but they're just make me feel worse about myself!!!
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