Trying to figure out how to broach this subject with my son. He's 11, and as some of you know, he's also special needs (Asperger's/HFA).
So the situation I'm in is as follows: My MIL (my wife's mother) is in a "memory care" facility, and according to her caretaker, is deteriorating. We've been told that she may have around six months left on this earth.
My wife's brother has much more information than we do, so we honestly don't even know the name/location of the facility MIL is in, right now. We're waiting on my wife's brother to tell us. He's planning on making the trip here, so we can set up a visit. I was talking about this with my wife the other day, and we're not even sure how lucid MIL is going to be, or if she'll even know who we are.
Anyway, when MIL passes on, we're going to have to have some way to explain this to our son. We really don't know where/how to start.
We haven't really broached religion with our son, though I am Christian (wife is not). We haven't discussed afterlife or anything like that, either.
So we're trying to figure out what we may eventually have to say to him. I don't know how he'll handle it, and I don't think he was very close to her.
So does anyone have any insight or thoughts on this?
So the situation I'm in is as follows: My MIL (my wife's mother) is in a "memory care" facility, and according to her caretaker, is deteriorating. We've been told that she may have around six months left on this earth.
My wife's brother has much more information than we do, so we honestly don't even know the name/location of the facility MIL is in, right now. We're waiting on my wife's brother to tell us. He's planning on making the trip here, so we can set up a visit. I was talking about this with my wife the other day, and we're not even sure how lucid MIL is going to be, or if she'll even know who we are.
Anyway, when MIL passes on, we're going to have to have some way to explain this to our son. We really don't know where/how to start.
We haven't really broached religion with our son, though I am Christian (wife is not). We haven't discussed afterlife or anything like that, either.
So we're trying to figure out what we may eventually have to say to him. I don't know how he'll handle it, and I don't think he was very close to her.
So does anyone have any insight or thoughts on this?
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