So a little background story, maybe 2 months ago a boy added me on Facebook, whom I will henceforth refer to as "Boy". He's going to the same college I am this fall, which is how he found me. So I added him back, and we've been talking in some way nearly every day since.
In the past 2 weeks I've been getting mixed signals.. Boy asked me to go get some food with him sometime after we're both at school, saying that he'd "like that". He also asked me to come to his room for a movie night or afternoon, whichever would make me more comfortable. I accepted both right away, excited to hang out with a new friend as soon as I get there!
But after I said yes, Boy sent me a message reading "I just want to know one thing, where have you been all my life?" When I countered with "I've been wondering the same thing" because I do get along with him incredibly well so far, he replied saying essentially "This is so strange, I feel so connected with you...", "I know I'm crazy, but you had me at hello" (!!!!), "I don't even know what you look like, not that it matters, I'd be into you anyway." (paraphrased, if you want to see the entire message you can PM me).
So I took this as meaning that he's interested in me romantically, and replied accordingly. I like him too, so I replied in no uncertain terms letting him know that I think he's amazing, I like him a lot and feel close to him, and that I'm "into" him too.
Now you're probably wondering where's the confusion, right? At this point I was pretty sure that our "movie night" was going to be a date.
However, after I let him know I liked him, Boy sent me another message. This one let me know that this is a "first" for him, and it's like we're two halves, because we're so dang compatible :P He said "I want you there with me and I'm glad you're going to be."
Again, no confusion, right?
In that same message, he dropped "the friendship we share is going to take us everywhere together..." and said he "can't put a label on this feeling".
So now I don't know if I have a date with him in the fall, or even if he's interested in me that way at all. I think I was pretty clear in that I'm interested in him. I know I won't get a real answer either way until I ask him, but was wondering anyway if any of you have some insight for me in the meantime, or even your thoughts?
In the past 2 weeks I've been getting mixed signals.. Boy asked me to go get some food with him sometime after we're both at school, saying that he'd "like that". He also asked me to come to his room for a movie night or afternoon, whichever would make me more comfortable. I accepted both right away, excited to hang out with a new friend as soon as I get there!
But after I said yes, Boy sent me a message reading "I just want to know one thing, where have you been all my life?" When I countered with "I've been wondering the same thing" because I do get along with him incredibly well so far, he replied saying essentially "This is so strange, I feel so connected with you...", "I know I'm crazy, but you had me at hello" (!!!!), "I don't even know what you look like, not that it matters, I'd be into you anyway." (paraphrased, if you want to see the entire message you can PM me).
So I took this as meaning that he's interested in me romantically, and replied accordingly. I like him too, so I replied in no uncertain terms letting him know that I think he's amazing, I like him a lot and feel close to him, and that I'm "into" him too.
Now you're probably wondering where's the confusion, right? At this point I was pretty sure that our "movie night" was going to be a date.
However, after I let him know I liked him, Boy sent me another message. This one let me know that this is a "first" for him, and it's like we're two halves, because we're so dang compatible :P He said "I want you there with me and I'm glad you're going to be."
Again, no confusion, right?
In that same message, he dropped "the friendship we share is going to take us everywhere together..." and said he "can't put a label on this feeling".
So now I don't know if I have a date with him in the fall, or even if he's interested in me that way at all. I think I was pretty clear in that I'm interested in him. I know I won't get a real answer either way until I ask him, but was wondering anyway if any of you have some insight for me in the meantime, or even your thoughts?
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