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    **warning: contains details of a beloved pet's death**




    So, Sunday morning, our dog was hit and killed by a truck. He and his buddy dog had escape from my sister's backyard after she let them out Saturday night. They ran at least three miles until they reached the highway early Sunday morning. But they didn't make it across this time. He was struck and killed within eyesight of my house--his first home. I have no idea why he was trying to get here but he had made it here TWICE previously after escaping from a well fortified backyard.

    Anyhow, we didn't know about this until Monday morning. We must have drove past his body a dozen or more times, but he was thrown into a ditch, just far enough down where you couldn't see him well. Finally, someone gave my sister's MIL a call and told them where the dog was.

    But now our dog's buddy dog is really depressed. He won't eat, he won't go outside, he doesn't play. He was right there by C's side when he was hit. The workers at the gas station nearby witnessed it happen and they stayed with C until he passed. They tried to get the buddy dog but D was too scared and ran all the way home.

    I know how to handle human depression...well, sort of. It's been hell for us all these last two days. Losing C has been really damn hard for me because having him around was what got me through my own dog's death one year ago.

    What do we do about D? How can we get D to be feeling better? There is another dog at the house with him, but he won't even interact with that dog. These two dogs were really close. They went everywhere together. What can we do?

    *note: the names of the dogs aren't really C and D*

  • #2
    i'm so sorry for your loss. loosing a friend like that hurts so much. one of my pooches got hit by a car a few years ago.

    unfortunately, animals deal with loss in similar ways as humans. D is in mourning for his friend. it might takes weeks for him to start feeling better, or it might take months. just like people, it's all different. you could try getting a food you know he absolutely loves and give him that for a bit just to make sure he eats. just show him love; pet him, cuddle, give him treats...hopefully he'll feel better soon.
    If you want to be happy, be. ~Leo Tolstoy

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    • #3
      Reassure him that he's still part of a pack (ie, his humans, other pets). Ensure he eats, even if you have to sit with him while he does and tempt him for each bite. Keep him groomed, warm/cool as needed, petted, walked, and - if he's willing - played with.

      Otherwise, respect his grief. He'll come out of it when he's ready.
      Seshat's self-help guide:
      1. Would you rather be right, or get the result you want?
      2. If you're consistently getting results you don't want, change what you do.
      3. Deal with the situation you have now, however it occurred.
      4. Accept the consequences of your decisions.

      "All I want is a pretty girl, a decent meal, and the right to shoot lightning at fools." - Anders, Dragon Age.

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      • #4
        Well, he still isn't eating but he is drinking water, so I am a little reassured. How long should I wait before calling a vet about him not eating? We have to drag him outside so he will do his business in the yard.

        This just sucks.

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        • #5
          Keep an eye on his condition (condition scoring chart). If his condition goes to 'thin', get him to the vet. If it gets anywhere near 'emaciated', get him to the vet at the earliest appointment.

          If he loses a full point of condition, get him to the vet.

          If he won't eat at all for a week, get him to the vet. I'd call the vet at about the half-week point and get their opinion.
          Seshat's self-help guide:
          1. Would you rather be right, or get the result you want?
          2. If you're consistently getting results you don't want, change what you do.
          3. Deal with the situation you have now, however it occurred.
          4. Accept the consequences of your decisions.

          "All I want is a pretty girl, a decent meal, and the right to shoot lightning at fools." - Anders, Dragon Age.

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