Background- So about 2 years ago I broke up with the man who was my fiancee. It was a dumb reason, I was dumb and had a crush on another man, fiancee and I got in a fight (unrelated argument) and I broke up with him. I then began dating other man (whom shall be called 'asshole') asshole and I were together for about 1 1/2 years-ish. He cheated on me from the get go. We broke up before Thanksgiving.
I moved in with my aunt and uncle, ex-fiancee is uncle's best friend. Hence he's here a lot. He and I started dating again. This is where the problem comes in.
I don't feel like we are dating. At all. We don't talk, when he's here or when he's not (no phone calls/texts/internet conversations) He visits only to see my uncle pretty much and we've spent next to time alone.
Last week he tells me that the reason he hadn't been paying attention to me was because he had to make up his mind about if he wanted to be with me. He apparently decided he did but hasn't done a damned thing since to show it.
So my question: Do I break it off now before I go away for two weeks (Pennsic)? Or do I wait until I head back to school at the end of August and point to the fact that I don't plan on coming back and he doesn't plan on ever relocating?
I moved in with my aunt and uncle, ex-fiancee is uncle's best friend. Hence he's here a lot. He and I started dating again. This is where the problem comes in.
I don't feel like we are dating. At all. We don't talk, when he's here or when he's not (no phone calls/texts/internet conversations) He visits only to see my uncle pretty much and we've spent next to time alone.
Last week he tells me that the reason he hadn't been paying attention to me was because he had to make up his mind about if he wanted to be with me. He apparently decided he did but hasn't done a damned thing since to show it.
So my question: Do I break it off now before I go away for two weeks (Pennsic)? Or do I wait until I head back to school at the end of August and point to the fact that I don't plan on coming back and he doesn't plan on ever relocating?
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