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  • #1

    Some advice would be greatly appreciated!

    So back in the beginning of January I met this girl at one of my friend's birthday parties. I added her on Facebook shortly after, and we've been chatting through that and texting a lot each day. We started actually hanging out more on the 12th of January, and so far we've been on 3-4 dates, having a great time and whatnot. And just last night, after we played minigolf on our date, on the way back to the car she held my hand. I'm wondering, where do I go from here? I have a few friends telling me to make it official, and a few telling me to wait. It's probably an easy question, but I'm honestly pretty inexperienced in this field What do you think?
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    Ask her if she wants to make it official, if that's what you want.
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    • #3
      What's your hurry? Go on a few more dates, try out a bit more hand-holding, and talk a bit about stuff that's important to you.... and ask her about what is important to her.
      There's no such thing as a stupid question... just stupid people.

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      • #4
        There is no need to rush things as long as she her knows that you value spending time with her, just let things evolve organically.

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        • #5
          Not much to add to the advice already given. Relax and don't try to put labels on things.
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          • #6
            Uncle Jester weighing in here.

            Eddie, RELAX. Breathe.

            No, I'm serious. Relax, let your shoulders drop (they're bunched up, aren't they?), and take some nice, long, deep breaths.

            Clearly you like her. (Duh.) And what you may not realize is that she just as clearly likes you.

            Take some time, get to know the girl, have some fun, and when the time is right, you'll know. So will she. Hell, it may just become official without the two of you even realizing it.

            And just remember...condoms are cheaper than diapers. Just saying.

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            • #7
              Quoth Jester View Post
              Clearly you like her. (Duh.) And what you may not realize is that she just as clearly likes you.

              Take some time, get to know the girl, have some fun, and when the time is right, you'll know. So will she. Hell, it may just become official without the two of you even realizing it.
              QFT. When my boyfriend and I became 'facebook official' we'd already been a couple for a while. I had hesitated about changing my relationship status until I realized we'd probably been a couple already for a while.
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              • #8
                Relax, enjoy spending time with her, and then talk to her after two more dates or after you kiss, whichever comes first
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